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Crazy while i was driving

8 replies

Newforestwoman · 15/11/2025 23:02

My DP and i have had an argument. Went to his friends 60th, i was driving. After 6 pints he wanted to leave at 9pm. He moaned incessantly about my speed and being in the wrong lane etc. Then in the dark when i was doing 55 mph a dance song came on the radio and he was waving his arms in front of me, grabbing the back of my head, put hid hand over my eyes. I went mad, swore at him. He reckons i am boring and over reacted but i felt scared, trapped, powerless. I could have crashed. AiBU for going mad?

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endofthelinefinally · 15/11/2025 23:11

He could have killed you both, or someone else. I couldn't stay with a man like that.

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 15/11/2025 23:12

That would be a deal breaker for me. I would never drive with him in the car again after he had had a drink.

Was he drunk?

ResusciAnnie · 15/11/2025 23:13

What a cunt. Luckily only a DP. So long!

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 15/11/2025 23:16

The man can't handle his liquor and could have killed you both. Mad? I think white hot furious is more appropriate.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 15/11/2025 23:17

I would have pulled over, and parked if it was safe ( from other traffic to do so )
then I would have given him the choice to either behave himself and let me drive or he could get out the car.

CalmShaker · 15/11/2025 23:17

Was the song Murder on the dancefloor? because your husband could've killed someone

Thistlesg · 15/11/2025 23:36

Wtf he’d be gone. What an arsehole

FreyjaOfTheNorth · 15/11/2025 23:37

That’s not a partner. Get rid.

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