Don’t know why but this is bugging me a bit.
on Instagram you can see on the ‘reels’ section which ones your friends like. I think it’s relatively new.
best friend’s DH liked a reel of a very provocative woman (literally about 90% nude) etc…. I was shocked when I saw it as I personally hadn’t noticed he liked anything like this before. basically quite bad to be honest. I think it’s a porn actress.
he has a bit of a history of chatting to woman online (a few years ago, claims
to my friend he has stopped and she’s found no evidence since).
long story.
i have the screen shot. Do I tell her or not? DH thinks I should but I don’t want to upset her when she doesn’t really need that at the moment as I know she’d blow up over this big time (she’s said one more thing and that’s it). They have a DD.
I also don’t want it to backfire encase she tells her DH and he then blames me (we are a close group of friends, her, me, her DH and my DH) then that friendship is ruined.
AIBU NOT to tell her?