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Bad manager help!!

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AmyJahabee · 13/11/2025 21:07

I have recently started a new role few months ago completely new from my previous area of work.. working with a manager ( not my direct manager but given some work within her team)

incident: she called a meeting for me and other two team members agenda was for her to explain to us the plan of work moving forward and a work handover to me and another colleague. But the meeting turned out into an interview specifically for me. She was throwing questions at me as if she was trying to catch me to fail and if I didn’t answer as she expected she would then criticise. I felt so stupid and made me feel as I know nothing . But bear in mind this area of work is new to me and they know when they employ me and I’m doing my best to learn.

another incident: I have worked so hard recently and have delivered few items within a package of work and constantly in communication with stakeholders but not provided a single graph to work progress and because of that she was shouting and screaming and generally very disrespectful and no acknowledgment the work i delivered but only focused on 1 % I haven’t delivered.

Always criticising me infront of people. When people are around she will point all the negative towards me.

The whole situation is affecting my confidence, I came into the role full of life and confidence but now I have almost zero confidence and I keep doubting myself.

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AmyJahabee · 13/11/2025 21:23

Overall she is so focused on catching me making mistakes/ work not yet completed. Rather than the good I have done

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