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The Sara Sharif case: what is the point of taxpayers funding these failing organisations?

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softstone · 13/11/2025 18:15

This appalling case has highlighted catastrophic failures of many organisations. If I failed in my job to this extent I would be sacked and possibly jailed. Yet the upshot of this report seems to be oh dear yes it’s a terrible shame, never mind.

Why is my tax funding these useless departments? This is not part of the social contract. We’re supposed to live in a civilised society. It’s awful.

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Sparklybutold · 14/11/2025 00:57

I work in a role where safeguarding referrals come up often. After working in the area for over 2 decades I think the system is deeply broken. I have experienced malicious referrals, serious referrals to then be dropped, power greedy people gravitating towards the top, poor decision making skills, inadequate training, serious deficits in funding… the list goes on really.

Sparklybutold · 14/11/2025 00:58

Fwiw - I spent my whole childhood being abused. Despite opportunities arising, no one stepped in.

Theonewiththewagglytail · 14/11/2025 00:59

I was training to be a social worker. I switched degrees after one year. That was 2015, things were very bad then and they will be way worse 10 years later. From my shadowing days, it was so obvious to me that social workers are set up to fail. Separate teams have been amalgamated to save money, meaning much higher case loads but no extra workers or time. It’s a case of constant fire fighting of the most awful and urgent cases, with simply not enough hours in the day to even get through them, let alone the mountain of other cases (which could turn out to be just as bad, if left). It is quite literally an impossible task, and SWs have statutory responsibility, meaning they can personally be prosecuted if things go wrong. I don’t think anyone in my cohort is still a practicing social worker, 8 years after graduation, and I’m not surprised. Instead of asking why are we spending money on this, the question should be why are we not spending nearly enough money on this.

Walkden · 14/11/2025 02:32

"Why is my tax funding these useless departments?"

What's the alternative? Maybe stop funding them? What do you expect to happen then? Privatise child protection?

The issue is that child protection is not really valued is it? Successive "efficiency drives" mean that you have under trained, over worked inexperienced staff paid very poorly expected to sacrifice their own free time and family lives while hearing in the press that gold plated pensions need scrapping ( which is basically another way of cutting pay)

It's cheaper to announce reviews of the inevitable failures than fund the system properly.

It's like the prisoner release mistakes. The cause is underfunded courts and prisons services and privatised transfer systems and apparently often incorrect and missing paperwork. What was the solution - a new detailed comprehensive "checklist". Soundbytes not fixing the underlying causes.

Then eventually a judge gets months/ years and all the time in the world and paid a lot of money to scrutinise every decision / mistake made in excruciating detail.

Ultimately you get what you pay for. The narrative is that public sector is bloated and full of freeloaders and usually the party that says we will cut it gets elected.

MumofCandRA · 14/11/2025 05:23

Have you considered that these organisations are suffering from underfunding, hence these types of failings and should they therefore receive more funding? Also how many kids were saved and would be impacted if these organisations didn't exist? It's a very narrow view and broad sweeping statement, these things are never as simple as a single simple measure. Also human error will always exist, no matter how well structured and funded any organisation is. That's just humanity, we're not machines ( incidentally AI also makes mistakes...).

Jellycatspyjamas · 14/11/2025 05:38

Netcurtainnelly · 14/11/2025 00:46

I think some people could.
I never understand why a social worker accepts it when the parent says oh they fell or the dog knocked them over.

How about they knocked the door and the mum says oh they are asleep, next day the poor childs been found dead. They should insist on seeing a child for themselves. They often dont speak to the child alone either.

Of course we all know the parents shouldn't be so scummy and vile to want to hurt their child in the first place, but when they do and especially when neighbours complain and bruises are reported there needs to be a safety net.

The system dosent seem fit for purpose.

Social workers have no legal right to demand to see the child much less speak to them alone. Our work needs parental consent, police intervention or a legal order. We can’t rock up at someone’s door, or school, or wherever and demand to see the child.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 14/11/2025 05:44

Jellycatspyjamas · 13/11/2025 23:48

Competence in social work is a complex thing to build. It takes time, learning from experience, having space to train, read and reflect on your learning. It takes time to develop professional judgement and to know how to use that judgement, to know how to build sustained relationships with people who live on the absolute edge and to learn how to protect yourself from the trauma you encounter on a daily basis.

And to do the job well takes time too - time to think through and understand the risks you’re concerned about and time to plan effective support and intervention.

In my first social work job my team leader had 10+ years experience in child protection, I had a case load of 10 children. I had time to think and I had lots of experienced colleagues who had time to help me develop.

Now a team leader might have 3/4 years in practice - and they’ll be considered an experienced staff member. The rest of the team will have a few years under their belt, maybe. I know of teams where the most experienced practitioner has 2 years. Case loads are crazy, 20/25 children - so taking a 35 hour week you have less than 90 minutes per week per child. In that time you need to do home visits, make complex assessments of risk and need, deal with families in crisis, talk to schools, health, third sector organisations, keep clear records of everything, prepare reports for multi agency meetings and hearings, attend those meetings and hearings, attend to your own training and development, team meetings and supervision.

I’d argue it’s basically impossible for a social worker to practice competently in that environment for any amount of time without burning out.

The fact that over 25% of social workers leave the profession within 6 years of qualifying suggests I’m right.

I used AI to work out how many hours per week a social worker would need to complete all the tasks required for an average experienced social worker's caseload in my area currently (22 children including child protection, PLO and care proceedings) and the calculation was around 50 hours. They get paid for 37. Miracles are expected.

Ninjasan · 14/11/2025 06:04

VikaOlson · 13/11/2025 18:23

The main problem highlighted was the lack of experienced social workers and their huge caseloads - I think I read somewhere that they were supposed to be dealing with 6 or 7 cases a day?

Sacking and jailing the few precious social workers we have isn't going make things any better.

They are not precious. There is nothing precious about lazy civil servants who do not care about their job they're being paid to do.

Cat1504 · 14/11/2025 07:02

Netcurtainnelly · 14/11/2025 00:53

Yes, but that's why we have social workers etc, so they can intervention and prevent a tradgedy.

Why do they return kids to their parents also.? Little Finley Boden was returned to his parents care very quickly after being taken away and was killed. So was Baby Peter.
Take their babies away forever, they can't look after them. Stop giving wrong uns chances.

SWs don’t remove babies….they don’t return babies…..they don’t have that power…..they wanted to remove Sara…..their report to the court indicated this…..but the courts sided with the view of the Guardian….so Sara remained with her father

Jellycatspyjamas · 14/11/2025 07:16

Ninjasan · 14/11/2025 06:04

They are not precious. There is nothing precious about lazy civil servants who do not care about their job they're being paid to do.

Social workers aren’t civil servants, they’re employed by the local authority. And there’s nothing to suggest social workers here were lazy, inexperienced maybe but that’s what happens when you expect people to carry excessive levels of risk - the good, experienced social workers leave.

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 14/11/2025 07:20

Chiseltip · 13/11/2025 18:25

If any of you think you could do a better job you could always apply.

This

Daisymay8 · 14/11/2025 07:24

From NSPCC

Findings from the data

  • In the last five years there was an average of 56 child deaths by assault or undetermined intent a year in the UK.
  • Children under the age of one are the most likely age group to be killed by another person, followed by 16- to 24-year-olds.
  • Child homicides are most commonly caused by the child’s parent or step-parent.
edit -the stats have been similar for years, in fact could be improving
Screwyousimon · 14/11/2025 07:26

Not the same but I work as a Nurse. A few weeks ago I had 56 patients and 3 Nurses to look after them. When something goes wrong and one of those patients comes to harm as the Nurses looking after them tend to other patients who is at fault? Would it be the NHS Trust who put the Nurses in that position in the first place or the Nurses themselves for not working harder? How do you think those Nurses on duty that day felt?

Alexandra2001 · 14/11/2025 07:30

Being a social worker must be the most under valued healthcare job out there.

Screw up, make a poor judgement call ie believe a parent.. or follow the instructions of a court or go to the wrong address because the system is so slow and old, that the update done wasn't applied to their own database..... and the whole world will come down on you like a ton of bricks, even demanding jail time.

All the good work you've done in the past, will count for nothing, you'll be hung out to dry and the Govt ministers who cut child services to the bone, will retire and get an honour.

rolloverbeethoven · 14/11/2025 07:36

I do sometimes wonder if one of the problems with social workers is that they need a degree (why?) when experience and common sense would be more useful. That poor little girl.

Avantiagain · 14/11/2025 07:40

"No, a child died horrifically because someone couldn’t be bothered. If you get the wrong address, you go to the correct property. If that means working half an hour later than so be it."

This wasn't the social care team and as posters have already said they would have had no right of entry and no right to insist on seeing the child.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 14/11/2025 07:49

Ninjasan · 14/11/2025 06:04

They are not precious. There is nothing precious about lazy civil servants who do not care about their job they're being paid to do.

You can say a lot of things about social workers as a workforce but that they are lazy and don't care are about the furthest from the truth.
I am really good at my job. I'm a team manager and have some extremely valuable skills. I could transfer my expertise to the private sector and be earning twice what I earn as a social work manager if I chose to, but I don't. I have a social worker in my team who left a corporate job earning double what she earns now to do train as a social worker because she's passionate about improving children's lives and improving the system. Believe me - it's not a job you can fail upwards into. Failing social workers exist of course but they tend to weed themselves out after a while, it's not a career for the weak.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 14/11/2025 07:52

Cat1504 · 14/11/2025 07:02

SWs don’t remove babies….they don’t return babies…..they don’t have that power…..they wanted to remove Sara…..their report to the court indicated this…..but the courts sided with the view of the Guardian….so Sara remained with her father

To be fair, guardians are also social workers usually with frontline experience before they move into cafcass. Guardians' views are absolutely privileged by the courts which can be a total farce - I've known social workers who couldn't hack it in frontline move to cafcass because it's easier. They also have zero oversight of their recommendations to court. Local authority social workers have their care plans a) approved by senior managers before it's written b) checked by their manager and c) checked and approved by a lawyer but guardians write their reports and file them. They have far too much power.
Actually having written that I vaguely remember that after the Sara Sharif tragedy there was going to be a review of cafcass? I need to google that

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 14/11/2025 07:54

rolloverbeethoven · 14/11/2025 07:36

I do sometimes wonder if one of the problems with social workers is that they need a degree (why?) when experience and common sense would be more useful. That poor little girl.

We need a degree because it's a specialist profession. Social work training includes a requirement for 200 days of on the job training and they also have an assessed and supported year of employment after qualifying that they have to pass. We are expected to write high quality assessments and court statements and to understand complex research and theories. It's not a 'get in there and hope for the best' job.

Bambamhoohoo · 14/11/2025 08:07

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 14/11/2025 07:54

We need a degree because it's a specialist profession. Social work training includes a requirement for 200 days of on the job training and they also have an assessed and supported year of employment after qualifying that they have to pass. We are expected to write high quality assessments and court statements and to understand complex research and theories. It's not a 'get in there and hope for the best' job.

As well as that, if it was replaced by some kind of on the job training it would be more expensive and cumbersome (needing a whole system to support it) than working with universities to get social workers qualified externally.

bluewanda · 14/11/2025 08:11

No, a child died horrifically because someone couldn’t be bothered. If you get the wrong address, you go to the correct property. If that means working half an hour later than so be it.

This. Fucking bastards. That poor, poor girl, failed by every single one of them. It makes me so angry. I can barely read about this case as it’s utterly heartbreaking.

bluewanda · 14/11/2025 08:14

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 13/11/2025 18:57

Agreed, that was an incomprehensible decision from the judge, given what was known about the father.

Why hasn’t the judge been sacked and jailed? How the fuck is he/she allowed to get away with this?

bluewanda · 14/11/2025 08:19

nightmarepickle2025 · 13/11/2025 20:45

family court also got a lot to answer for

Yup. The family courts in this country are a scandal.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/dec/10/explosive-court-transcript-journalists-family-cases-judge-parents-secrecy

bluewanda · 14/11/2025 08:21

Driftingawaynow · 13/11/2025 20:13

Exactly. The pro contact culture, mimising an abusers behaviour. That judge bears huge responsibility for this. He ordered that child to live with a violent perpetrator and without proper follow up. The family court is not fit for purpose.

What is terrifying is that as far as I’m aware, this incompetent individual has been allowed to carry on in their job with no consequences, free to condemn more children to their deaths. It’s a fucking disgrace.

bluewanda · 14/11/2025 08:24

And sorry for the multiple posts but I am absolutely haunted by this case and that poor sweet girl. It goes to prove that some people (those monsters who killed her) genuinely are pure evil.