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Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 14/11/2025 10:24

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 10:10

Here are some simple financial realities for you.

Houses cost what people will pay for them. Just because you can't afford them doesn't mean someone else can't. They plainly can.

The maximum that Banks would lend in 1990 was 3.5 x ONE SALARY. The average salary was £13,500. 3.5 x that = £47250. As more women chose to bring up their own children that mortgage represented 3.5 x total household income. And £47000 was around the average price of a house. There is no point in thinking how rich you would be if you only had to pay that mortgage on your current salary, you have to see income and mortgage together.

Fast forward. Banks started to lend multiples of two salaries (obviously, it makes more money for them) People with two incomes wanted better houses and were happy to borrow 3.5 x two incomes. The average salary today is £39000. In a two income family that's £78000 total household income. That times 3.5 is £273000, very near to the average house price of around £260000. So in fact hoses are just as affordable in a climate where women (quite rightly) want to earn and spend their own income. They just can't have it both ways, borrowing based on two incomes but wishing that prices were only based on one.

This problem has obviously not been caused by the people who bought 'cheap ' houses, but by those who came later and whose greater borrowing power caused prices to rise dramatically. But hey, why let facts get in the way of a good misery moan.

But in those days when women staying at home looking after their children, rather than going out to work, was common, that obviously meant that the family didn't incur any childcare costs from the household's income/husband's earnings.

Many, many parents of young children nowadays have to pay out the equivalent of one salary just in childcare - so they now have a mortgage based on two salaries, but still only one actual salary in real terms to pay it off with.

There was MIRAS as well, until about 1999/2000.

Digdongdoo · 14/11/2025 10:24

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 10:21

Because to pay for it you have to look at total household income. The borrowing is a multiple of 2 incomes, there for the repayment has to be seen as a percentage of 2 incomes. I'm sorry you seem to be struggling with the concept, but I can't explain it any more clearly.

But that doesn't make it "just as affordable". That a house costs more, of a higher household income could never be described as "just as affordable" whichever way you look at it. You're explaining it clearly, but you are wrong.

BernardButlersBra · 14/11/2025 10:30

@Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService l forgot to mention MIRAS. My husband is a bit younger than me and l mentioned MIRAS to him. He thought l was joking and making it up!

BernardButlersBra · 14/11/2025 10:32

@Scotiasdarling but my house isn't "better" than my parent's house or in-laws house. Even though my husband and l are better qualified and work harder

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 11:34

One last try at explaining. Your house isn't 'better' because now it takes two incomes to buy an ordinary house. The minute some families bought houses based on two incomes , because house prices are market driven, everyone had to do that. Why do you think the exponential rise in house prices happened alongside more women working?

And Dingdongdoo I am absolutely not wrong.

politicians underwear, you surely knew you would need childcare? Although it is subsidised by the taxpayer now. You could have borrowed less until your children were in school.

OneAmberFinch · 14/11/2025 11:53

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 11:34

One last try at explaining. Your house isn't 'better' because now it takes two incomes to buy an ordinary house. The minute some families bought houses based on two incomes , because house prices are market driven, everyone had to do that. Why do you think the exponential rise in house prices happened alongside more women working?

And Dingdongdoo I am absolutely not wrong.

politicians underwear, you surely knew you would need childcare? Although it is subsidised by the taxpayer now. You could have borrowed less until your children were in school.

I feel like you are now arguing the opposite to what you started out...

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 11:55

I think you haven't quite grasped this.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 14/11/2025 11:56

The new State Pension is £230.25/week while the old State Pension is only £176.45/week. There will be no financial loss as WASPI women will eventually receive a much higher pension albeit for 5 years less.

Sexentric · 14/11/2025 11:58

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 11:34

One last try at explaining. Your house isn't 'better' because now it takes two incomes to buy an ordinary house. The minute some families bought houses based on two incomes , because house prices are market driven, everyone had to do that. Why do you think the exponential rise in house prices happened alongside more women working?

And Dingdongdoo I am absolutely not wrong.

politicians underwear, you surely knew you would need childcare? Although it is subsidised by the taxpayer now. You could have borrowed less until your children were in school.

You seem to be missing the point. Houses are effectively half as affordable as they used to be. That means not only do younger people have to work twice as hard for the same house and pay for childcare (which is still thousands a year even with subsidies) but who made profit on the houses when they jumped from 1 salary to 2? Thats right, the older generation.
And even if that weren't true (which it is btw) the 'waspi' women still have no sensible reason whatsoever to demand compensation. Everyone lost out by having to work longer. None of us were personally informed. And if you had been, then what? What exactly would you have done differently? You'd have just had to work longer which we all did, whichnis exactly the same outcome whether you had 3 months notice or 300 months.
I mean unless you decided to spend all your savings on a massive round the world cruise or something, assuming you'd have a pension to rely on when you got back, without checking that was the case. But if so then that's on you!

Digdongdoo · 14/11/2025 12:00

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 11:34

One last try at explaining. Your house isn't 'better' because now it takes two incomes to buy an ordinary house. The minute some families bought houses based on two incomes , because house prices are market driven, everyone had to do that. Why do you think the exponential rise in house prices happened alongside more women working?

And Dingdongdoo I am absolutely not wrong.

politicians underwear, you surely knew you would need childcare? Although it is subsidised by the taxpayer now. You could have borrowed less until your children were in school.

You've just said it yourself. An ordinary house now takes two incomes to buy. So how exactly is that "just as affordable"? Not only are you wrong, you are completely contradicting yourself.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 14/11/2025 12:03

politicians underwear, you surely knew you would need childcare? Although it is subsidised by the taxpayer now. You could have borrowed less until your children were in school.

No, we didn't have to pay for childcare personally, as we were fortunate to be able to both go part-time and were able to manage it ourselves... but we were able to buy a house 25 years ago, at prices that hadn't yet gone crazy - based on households all having two full-time incomes, and single people be damned too.

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 12:45

Affordability is based on the incomes that people want their borrowing to be based on. That used to be one income, now it's two. House prices are not set by some pensioners cabal, they are what people can and do pay for them. If they want that amount to be a multiple of joint salary then obviously the repayments will reflect that.

House prices could have been kept as a multiple of one income if the banks only loaned that amount, and imagine the wailing an gnashing of teeth on here if women felt that their stout economic effort was being disregarded. It's a case of being careful what you wish for.

@CanadianCooper

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 12:46

Sorry, @CanadianCooper I accidentally quoted you.

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 12:53

jasflowers · 12/11/2025 17:02

Didn't he also say that despite this, 73% knew of the change?

Published research, which is referenced by the Ombudsman in their report, also shows that 73% of women aged 45-54 said that they were aware of State Pension age increases in 2004. By 2006, 90% of 1950s-born women knew about State Pension age changes

So even if compensation is due, it shouldn't go to those that did know.

Edited

Oh dear God
This thread 🤦‍♀️

It's nothing to do with this
In 2011 the CG accelerated the changes , everyone knew that the changes were coming,the WASPI women were affected at short notice by the acceleration .
That's what the campaign is about -the lack of notice in 2011.

The ageism and misogyny on MN is appalling
People who have worked for 40 years being derided whilst 35% of the adult population pays no tax at all.
We need to bring in a basic universal wage and stop people staying on benefits as a lifestyle generation after generation those with disabilities not included

This would bring in billions , protect SAHM, allow people to take time out for caring responsibilities and stop the triple lock.

JasmineTea11 · 14/11/2025 12:58

So interesting to see what the consensus is here - I don't think the government will actually do this. I seriously hope not. The money would be so much better spent getting young people off benefits and into work. The Boomers get too much already! (Pension Triple lock etc)

OneAmberFinch · 14/11/2025 13:01

Scotiasdarling · 14/11/2025 12:45

Affordability is based on the incomes that people want their borrowing to be based on. That used to be one income, now it's two. House prices are not set by some pensioners cabal, they are what people can and do pay for them. If they want that amount to be a multiple of joint salary then obviously the repayments will reflect that.

House prices could have been kept as a multiple of one income if the banks only loaned that amount, and imagine the wailing an gnashing of teeth on here if women felt that their stout economic effort was being disregarded. It's a case of being careful what you wish for.

@CanadianCooper

Very interesting argument that house prices are heavily driven by the debt markets, which I don't disagree with in some senses...

...but not sure why that means WASPI women get a payout?

OneAmberFinch · 14/11/2025 13:04

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 12:53

Oh dear God
This thread 🤦‍♀️

It's nothing to do with this
In 2011 the CG accelerated the changes , everyone knew that the changes were coming,the WASPI women were affected at short notice by the acceleration .
That's what the campaign is about -the lack of notice in 2011.

The ageism and misogyny on MN is appalling
People who have worked for 40 years being derided whilst 35% of the adult population pays no tax at all.
We need to bring in a basic universal wage and stop people staying on benefits as a lifestyle generation after generation those with disabilities not included

This would bring in billions , protect SAHM, allow people to take time out for caring responsibilities and stop the triple lock.

Where do people like me fit in? I'm basically Nicky, 30 ans... paying for both pensions AND assorted other benefits. If you don't want us stereotyping boomers as all being wealthy scroungers, don't stereotype millennials as all being out of work...

BernardButlersBra · 14/11/2025 13:14

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 12:53

Oh dear God
This thread 🤦‍♀️

It's nothing to do with this
In 2011 the CG accelerated the changes , everyone knew that the changes were coming,the WASPI women were affected at short notice by the acceleration .
That's what the campaign is about -the lack of notice in 2011.

The ageism and misogyny on MN is appalling
People who have worked for 40 years being derided whilst 35% of the adult population pays no tax at all.
We need to bring in a basic universal wage and stop people staying on benefits as a lifestyle generation after generation those with disabilities not included

This would bring in billions , protect SAHM, allow people to take time out for caring responsibilities and stop the triple lock.

40 years of working isn’t actually that long though. I will probably end up doing around 55 years

But yeah the triple lock needs to go

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:14

Letskeepcalm · 14/11/2025 08:42

Good God. You have had awful experiences with the older generation, that's all I can think.
I'm a pensioner. Certainly not rich, but comfortable in that my mortgage is paid ( my house is nowhere near worth a million, we're up north), have private pensions but certainly not 'fat' ones.
I have given my children all the help I can to support them on the property ladder.
I think the WFA should only be paid to those who need it ( the £35k limit is ridiculously high, i know no one who gets that much ). I totally disagree with the Waspi campaign.
I appreciate you are not talking about everyone, but you come over as extremely bitter.

This
Everyone I know is helping their adult children onto the property ladder, helping them financially and providing childcare.

The greedy Boomer is a myth, I don't know anyone like this

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:16

OneAmberFinch · 14/11/2025 13:04

Where do people like me fit in? I'm basically Nicky, 30 ans... paying for both pensions AND assorted other benefits. If you don't want us stereotyping boomers as all being wealthy scroungers, don't stereotype millennials as all being out of work...

I didn't
Read again 35% of the population don't pay tax
I didn't mention Millenials, you did

Sexentric · 14/11/2025 13:20

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:14

This
Everyone I know is helping their adult children onto the property ladder, helping them financially and providing childcare.

The greedy Boomer is a myth, I don't know anyone like this

Well its clearly not a myth or we wouldn't have the waspi campaign. Its obviously not everyone though.

Sexentric · 14/11/2025 13:26

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 12:53

Oh dear God
This thread 🤦‍♀️

It's nothing to do with this
In 2011 the CG accelerated the changes , everyone knew that the changes were coming,the WASPI women were affected at short notice by the acceleration .
That's what the campaign is about -the lack of notice in 2011.

The ageism and misogyny on MN is appalling
People who have worked for 40 years being derided whilst 35% of the adult population pays no tax at all.
We need to bring in a basic universal wage and stop people staying on benefits as a lifestyle generation after generation those with disabilities not included

This would bring in billions , protect SAHM, allow people to take time out for caring responsibilities and stop the triple lock.

But what would more notice in 2011 have achieved? People would have to work longer. Thats it. Thats the same however much notice you get. I really truly don't understand why that's a basis for compensation.

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:36

Sexentric · 14/11/2025 13:20

Well its clearly not a myth or we wouldn't have the waspi campaign. Its obviously not everyone though.

They are only greedy in your eyes
Retirement planning usually takes place over a considerable period
They were told in 2011 that they had to work an extra 3 years when they had almost reached retirement age.
That's where it is unfair
It has already been ruled that DWP changes in 2011 were unfair and they didn't receive enough notice so it's a moot point anyway.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 14/11/2025 13:37

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:16

I didn't
Read again 35% of the population don't pay tax
I didn't mention Millenials, you did

100% of the population pay tax of some sort even if it's just VAT on shoes & clothes.

Cheeseontoastghost · 14/11/2025 13:40

PrettyDamnCosmic · 14/11/2025 13:37

100% of the population pay tax of some sort even if it's just VAT on shoes & clothes.

Yes we all pay it
Clearly it refers to income tax

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