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Call me old fashioned ... but cunt on the BBC? <clutching pearls>

100 replies

LindorDoubleChoc · 09/11/2025 19:15

I've just read that the cunt word was used on Have I Got News For You by Katherine Ryan and someone else.

Idk, but I am actually quite surprised by that. I can understand it in a drama, but not really in a mainstream usually pretty middle of the road kinda show. I'm possibly a little biased as I don't like KR.

I love a good swear, but on the Beeb in a show like this? AIBU?

(P.S. as research I checked to see how many times the word cunt was written on Mumsnet in the last 24 hours. It was over 500 Grin. I don't mind that somehow).

OP posts:
TemuTrinny · 09/11/2025 20:14

It’s hard to understand why you are so horrified when you used the word 3 times in your OP. It doesn’t really offend me as a word, but if I did think it was such an unusable word I don’t think I’d say itv so often.

FoxRedPuppy · 09/11/2025 20:16

I love the word cunt. One of my favourite words! It was on at 9.30 on a show for adults.

Oooobigstretch · 09/11/2025 20:16

I do feel like when the word cunt is dropped on those type of shows it’s not usually some intrinsic part of an astute or witty point but more like “Har har har I really am so incredibly funny and edgy because I’m saying the word cunt out loud and on TV”

FoxRedPuppy · 09/11/2025 20:16

I wouldn’t use it to describe Victoria Beckham, but only because she lacks the warmth and depth 😉

FoxRedPuppy · 09/11/2025 20:17

Oooobigstretch · 09/11/2025 20:16

I do feel like when the word cunt is dropped on those type of shows it’s not usually some intrinsic part of an astute or witty point but more like “Har har har I really am so incredibly funny and edgy because I’m saying the word cunt out loud and on TV”

Did you watch it? And the see the word in context?

BackToLurk · 09/11/2025 20:17

TemuTrinny · 09/11/2025 20:14

It’s hard to understand why you are so horrified when you used the word 3 times in your OP. It doesn’t really offend me as a word, but if I did think it was such an unusable word I don’t think I’d say itv so often.

Well yes. It’s normally ‘the c word’ rather than ‘the cunt word’. Although I suppose if she’d said ‘the c word’ we might have thought she meant Christmas, and that’s definitely been banned.

Rustymoo · 09/11/2025 20:18

Papyrophile · 09/11/2025 19:30

Not a word I like to hear, read or say frankly.

Just as well you don’t live in Glasgow…

BackToLurk · 09/11/2025 20:18

Rustymoo · 09/11/2025 20:18

Just as well you don’t live in Glasgow…

Or my house.

zazazaaarmm · 09/11/2025 20:18

DustyMaiden · 09/11/2025 19:36

I think there has been many cunts on the BBC

Definitely. In fact there was a horrible cunt on HIGNFY who ended up our prime minister I seem to remember.

Oooobigstretch · 09/11/2025 20:19

I’m not horrified or offended though

pIum · 09/11/2025 20:19

I genuinely don't understand how those 4 letters are so blindingly offensive to some people, much more so than other swear words. I come from a place where it's not considered nearly so offensive but genuinely don't get the hysteria.

Allseeingallknowing · 09/11/2025 20:20

As it’s part of the anatomy it’s not wrong to use it!

GaIadriel · 09/11/2025 20:21

DustyMaiden · 09/11/2025 19:36

I think there has been many cunts on the BBC

Whether or not you meant this ironically it made me chuckle. 🤣

TheMarzipanDildo · 09/11/2025 20:22

I skimmed the title and thought this was going to be another Tim Davie thread, and that it was a tad harsh actually.

TamarindCottage · 09/11/2025 20:24

Rustymoo · 09/11/2025 20:18

Just as well you don’t live in Glasgow…

Or Barbados! It’s Robin “Rihanna” Fenty’s favourite word!

Oooobigstretch · 09/11/2025 20:27

FoxRedPuppy · 09/11/2025 20:17

Did you watch it? And the see the word in context?

No was just making a general observation on general discussion forum. Absent context or timing it just sounds a bit cringe. Not sure I suggested that it didn’t work in that particular instance?

ShesTheAlbatross · 09/11/2025 20:28

SeaofStars · 09/11/2025 20:00

I think it’s a vile word . I can remember when it was rarely used in company and it was shocking to do so , never in front of women and children and unthinkable for it to be used on the TV.

Not in front of the delicate women 😱

BritHoward · 09/11/2025 20:30

i love the word cunt - why is it more controversial than fanny twat dick prick etc

LindorDoubleChoc · 09/11/2025 20:39

It's interesting because I do really believe that to some people the word cunt is a line crossed. But we don't respect that in the way that we respect not using the N word, P word, K word, moron, imbecile, spastic, etc. It's like there's a sliding scale of acceptable words.

Perhaps it's because it's on the whole (not exclusively) older women who don't like to see the C word used on the BBC that they get dismissed. The easiest demographic group to dismiss and sneer at of all.

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KitchenSinkLlama · 09/11/2025 20:43

It’s just a word. 🤷‍♀️

SeaAndStars · 09/11/2025 20:47

I'm in my sixties and have no problem with cunt.

I rewatched Detectorists the other day and there was a particularly enjoyable and apt use of the word. Sometimes no other word will quite do.

Why is the word any worse than prick which nobody bats an eyelid at?

CurlyhairedAssassin · 09/11/2025 20:47

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 09/11/2025 19:35

Must say I’d certainly look a bit askance. They can say fuck all they like but I really dislike the C word. Might add that I never understand how women who probably call themselves feminists can use a word meaning female genitalia as a term of extreme abuse.

I dunno, I'm all about equality. Kind of evens it up after all the dick, cock, prick, bellend, dickhead, scrote etc usages. Anyway, we already have twat so what the hell.

SeaofStars · 09/11/2025 20:47

ShesTheAlbatross · 09/11/2025 20:28

Not in front of the delicate women 😱

It’s about having respect for women

Rustymoo · 09/11/2025 20:47

KitchenSinkLlama · 09/11/2025 20:43

It’s just a word. 🤷‍♀️

Exactly

FlayOtters · 09/11/2025 20:48

SeaofStars · 09/11/2025 20:00

I think it’s a vile word . I can remember when it was rarely used in company and it was shocking to do so , never in front of women and children and unthinkable for it to be used on the TV.

I'm sorry, never in front of women and children? 😂 Were you recalling your time on the Titanic?

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