So I’ve been casually in a situationship with a guy for over a year. We text every single day. We meet up for “fun” at least twice a month but apart from that no relationship as it were just very close with the messaging and the “fun”
A little while back I asked him if he did this kind of thing with anyone else, and he said no but I shouldn’t be asking as it’s not what this relationship is about, as it’s casual and it shouldn’t matter. I have never asked him again since then as I got the message loud and clear it was just casual from him and I’m happy with that.
Fast forward to a month ago, I went out with some girl friends and he asked me if I pulled anyone. I said to him no I didn’t but also I thought he didn’t want to discuss that kind of thing and he backed off the questioning.
I’m getting work done on my house at the moment and it’s a guy I know doing the work who has tagged me on a post on Facebook (about donuts I bought him nothing major lol) Today I get a message from my situationship asking if there is anything going on between me and the guy doing work on the house. His exact words were “there’s definitely something going on between you and him. Isn’t there? Anything you want to share? I’m not jealous by the way”
I don’t really know what to make of it, it’s the “I’m not jealous by the way” situation because if he wasn’t jealous why would he bring it up!? I’m confused!! Does he have feelings for me that he’s not admitting to?
I’m happy in life to keep things casual at the moment but now I’m not sure this is as casual!
would I be unreasonable to bring up that this isn’t casual anymore or am I reading too much into this now?