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Am I blowing this out of proportion?

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Sugarplum34918 · 03/11/2025 22:14

So its kind of a long one; for context I had a baby earlier this year. Me and the baby father were on and off for most of the pregnancy, almost like we didn't know really were we stood with eachother but often would act like we were in a relationship. Anyway, he goes to show me something earlier, I realise first this is something from an ex, I catch a glimpse of them basically sexting when I was like two weeks post partum. I'm more feeling like it was disrespectful? Okay, we might of not been 'exclusive' but I just had his baby, and hes off sexting an ex?

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Sugarplum34918 · 03/11/2025 22:26

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PrincessOfPreschool · 03/11/2025 22:31

You 'caught a glimpse' of him sexting an ex 8 months ago whilst he was 'showing you something' ?? 🤔 Did you go through his phone, OP?

The whole relationship sounds dysfunctional, disrespectful and dishonest. And no, if you weren't in a relationship, I'm not sure what you were expecting from him. Let him go, OP, and move on.

parietal · 03/11/2025 23:06

this doesn't sound like a stable relationship to bring up a baby.

break up with this guy properly, establish your own life independently and then you can co-parent with him.

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