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Self defence spray/pepper spray

61 replies

TearsAndTeats · 02/11/2025 12:21

Can’t stop thinking about those people on the train, armed only with a jack Daniel’s bottle waiting for the carriage doors to open.

i know pepper spray is illegal, but why? Should it be?

genuinely looking for reassurance, debate etc. I’d feel much better having a directional spray. I know women who DIY “bug spray” etc to carry around with them when walking dogs alone, but the wind etc makes these not appealing.

i really think pepper spray should be legal in the UK.

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DisplayPurposesOnly · 02/11/2025 12:24

i know pepper spray is illegal, but why? Should it be?

What could possibly go wrong...?

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/11/2025 12:25

If you spray pepper spray in an enclosed train carriage, you and the rest of the passengers aren’t going to have the upper hand, you’ll all be blinded and choking. If it’s legal to carry pepper spray, don’t you think the bad guys will also be carrying pepper spray to overpower you first?

NumbFeeling · 02/11/2025 12:26

I’ve also got a thread on this.

If not pepper spray, something else. We are not being protected by our authorities so we should be able to carry something to defend ourselves or help immobilise an attacker.

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:27

Deep heat sprayed in the eyes works similarly to pepper spray. You also might need it for your painful back.

Just saying.

TearsAndTeats · 02/11/2025 12:28

NumbFeeling · 02/11/2025 12:26

I’ve also got a thread on this.

If not pepper spray, something else. We are not being protected by our authorities so we should be able to carry something to defend ourselves or help immobilise an attacker.

Thank you. Link?

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35965a · 02/11/2025 12:28

Always have Deep Heat spray on you. For muscle pain, obviously.

BMW6 · 02/11/2025 12:30

If I wanted to rob or knife you pepper spray would come in handy, thanks

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:31

Deep heat and pepper spray really aren’t comparable and it shows people have no idea what pepper spray actually does, if people are so keen on everyone having access to pepper spray surely those people are also happy to be exposed to it in a small space that they can’t escape?

Plus now rapists, burglers etc now have a legitimate reason to carry a weapon, very handy for them.

TearsAndTeats · 02/11/2025 12:32

thanks for the link and responses etc

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CoralPombear · 02/11/2025 12:32

You 100% do not want to use CS gas in an enclosed space like a train carriage. You have very little control over where it goes and would just incapacitate everyone including yourself.

35965a · 02/11/2025 12:33

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:31

Deep heat and pepper spray really aren’t comparable and it shows people have no idea what pepper spray actually does, if people are so keen on everyone having access to pepper spray surely those people are also happy to be exposed to it in a small space that they can’t escape?

Plus now rapists, burglers etc now have a legitimate reason to carry a weapon, very handy for them.

We know it’s not the same, but we don’t have pepper spray so 🤷‍♀️

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:33

Deep heat and pepper spray really aren’t comparable

Of course they arent exactly the same, noone is saying they are. But until we are allowed to protect ourselves we will have to improvise

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:34

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:33

Deep heat and pepper spray really aren’t comparable

Of course they arent exactly the same, noone is saying they are. But until we are allowed to protect ourselves we will have to improvise

Trust me, as someone who is stupid enough to have got it in their eyes, it really is pointless carrying it, I’d rather spray that in my eyes than get suncream sweat in them again.

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:35

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:34

Trust me, as someone who is stupid enough to have got it in their eyes, it really is pointless carrying it, I’d rather spray that in my eyes than get suncream sweat in them again.

Ok so what do you suggest then?

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:37

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:35

Ok so what do you suggest then?

I certainly don’t suggest the general public carry weapons, for people who wish for that there are countries where it is the norm if it would make them feel safer.

Vaninees · 02/11/2025 12:37

What we actually need are some Police , and some Law, so that psychopaths are aware of deterrents.

we are moving toward being a lawless society, which means that the lowest denominator is uncontrolled.

emeraldtrees · 02/11/2025 12:38

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 12:37

I certainly don’t suggest the general public carry weapons, for people who wish for that there are countries where it is the norm if it would make them feel safer.

Ah Thanks- thats SO helpful! I feel so much safer now 🙄

TearsAndTeats · 02/11/2025 12:39

CoralPombear · 02/11/2025 12:32

You 100% do not want to use CS gas in an enclosed space like a train carriage. You have very little control over where it goes and would just incapacitate everyone including yourself.

Yes. I like the ultra directional nozzle , spray that I’ve seen from our police. I get that spraying an aerosol like hairspray or deep heat is as likely to fog in my face rather than theirs.

another thought

if a criminal is setting out to commit crime, and can use whatever he can get his hands on, eg bat, knife, pepper spray, vehicle or whatever. And the criminal has the means of planning and surprise - why is pepper spray going to be more likely? If it was good for attack they’d already be smuggling it in from other countries where it’s readily available and using it.

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NewGirlInTown · 02/11/2025 12:39

I’ve got such a sore shoulder, I am never without a can of Deep Heat in my bag.

Mintleafcocktail · 02/11/2025 12:42

NewGirlInTown · 02/11/2025 12:39

I’ve got such a sore shoulder, I am never without a can of Deep Heat in my bag.

Same here. Also my shoulder.

Helpwithdivorce · 02/11/2025 12:43

My 11 year old daughter asked me to buy her a tazer for xmas. She feels that unsafe. It made me very sad

Flibbertyfloo · 02/11/2025 12:44

Security umbrellas look interesting

AntikytheraMech · 02/11/2025 12:49

Personally I love really hot chilli sauce that I mix with a bit of water and spray onto food that I eat and I always carry it with me. My heat level is 10 million scoville. 🤷‍♂️