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Why do people put their Xmas trees etc up now then take them down Boxing Day

414 replies

Beon · 01/11/2025 12:17

If they say that they are sick n tired of the sight of them or find it difficult to clean around them.

Don’t put the tree up early then!

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AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 10:55

OonaStubbs · 03/11/2025 23:48

Inside their homes, fair enough. But not the extravagant displays outside homes, in gardens, on rooftops etc. Those are just visual pollution and need to be cracked down on.

Visual pollution 🤣🤣🤣🤣

AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 10:57

SouthLondonMum22 · 03/11/2025 23:57

How would it be enforced?

By all the police we have with nothing to do....

or maybe oona is looking for work??

🤣🤣

AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 11:03

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 07:47

You're being hypersensitive here! Of course it's a novelty to put decorations up! When people are going into these Xmas shops every year and buying new decorations to add to their house, it's a novelty, you give a kid a Christmas present they play with it straight away because it's a novelty but that novelty eventually wears off! Do you think if everybody had decorations still up in April that it would still be a novelty! Things feeling a novelty is part of human life!

I love travelling but if I did it constantly, it wouldn't feel like a treat, it wouldn't feel as exciting, I'd get sick of airports and flights - because travelling & going to a new place is a novelty but if I did it every day of my life, it's not going to be so novel and would become more of a chore. People don't cover the outside of their houses in lights for any sentimentality, it's novelty and often contest with other neighbours.

I'm being sensitive?? 🤣🤣

You're being 'EXTRA'.

I'm well aware what the word 'novelty' means. I explained I don't put them up as a 'novelty' I put them up because I enjoy them.

I take them down because I choose to put up other decor that pleases me,

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 11:06

ruethewhirl · 04/11/2025 10:47

I think a lot of it depends, as well as whether people are working the days in between, whether they enjoy the feel of the days between Christmas and New Year, that sort of 'limbo' feel. Personally I love it, after Christmas Day it's the best part of the festive season for me, but I do realise it probably wouldn't feel as special if I wasn't able to take time off work.

Absolutely, I know for some people everyday is another family party and indulgence on the cats between Xmas & New year but for many there's isn't a lot family left alive. I'll still enjoying watching Xmas telly whilst sat with my laptop working on those in between days though 😊

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 11:07

AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 11:03

I'm being sensitive?? 🤣🤣

You're being 'EXTRA'.

I'm well aware what the word 'novelty' means. I explained I don't put them up as a 'novelty' I put them up because I enjoy them.

I take them down because I choose to put up other decor that pleases me,

It sounded like you was having a pop at me for using the word novelty as though I was wrong to say it. I just re read the post you made and it was definitely arsey and defensive!

AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 11:16

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 11:07

It sounded like you was having a pop at me for using the word novelty as though I was wrong to say it. I just re read the post you made and it was definitely arsey and defensive!

Edited

What are you on about?

you said surely the novelty wears off. I said I don't need them to be a 'novelty'

there was nothing arsey about my post.

AutumnCosy2025 · Yesterday 22:23

FlyMeSomewhere · Yesterday 20:54
I definitely don't, 1st Dec for me. But for those that do put them up 1st Nov it's got to be a novelty worn off by the time they've had them up nearly two months

My reply;
I don't need them to be a 'novelty'.
I put them up because I like them, I enjoy the light my traditional lights give off, I enjoy my decorations gathered over the years, the memories they bring back.
'Novelty' doesn't come into it.

willitevergetwarm · 04/11/2025 11:20

I love the run up to Xmas and always have done so my tree will go up 29th/30th November and it's usually down and a good spring clean done on 28th/29th December so the house is all ready for a New Year.

It's each to their own and we don't know what's going on behind closed doors so I don't judge anyone

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 11:43

tinyspiny · 04/11/2025 01:00

Don’t be such a misery , if you don’t want to see it then stay in your house , other people are entitled to do what they like on their own property .

Look I like to see outside decorations but not from the beginning of November! Decorate the inside of your house as early as you want but the specialness of Christmas should be in December.

The lights can become a pain in the arse as well, when I took my tree down last year, it unblocked my view of my neighbours flashing lights around his car port which was annoying to see that in the corner of my every night until new year.

It also annoys me when people don't take them down! There's a number of houses on my estate whose icicle lights are up and swinging in the breeze all year until they get turned on again
Some people even leave Santa shaped lights stick to their houses all year round.

FlyMeSomewhere · 04/11/2025 11:44

AutumnCosy2025 · 04/11/2025 11:16

What are you on about?

you said surely the novelty wears off. I said I don't need them to be a 'novelty'

there was nothing arsey about my post.

AutumnCosy2025 · Yesterday 22:23

FlyMeSomewhere · Yesterday 20:54
I definitely don't, 1st Dec for me. But for those that do put them up 1st Nov it's got to be a novelty worn off by the time they've had them up nearly two months

My reply;
I don't need them to be a 'novelty'.
I put them up because I like them, I enjoy the light my traditional lights give off, I enjoy my decorations gathered over the years, the memories they bring back.
'Novelty' doesn't come into it.

Yes stroppy! Lots of inverted comma use!

CoffeeCantata · 04/11/2025 12:16

They are the sort of people who HAVE to be first with everything. Then, when it’s actually the appropriate time for something ,they get bored and look for the next thing.

It must be like living in one of those all-year-round Christmas shops.

Velveteenrabbitt · 04/11/2025 12:42

helpplease4

That sounds loveky,getting the spring candle’s and lights out after you have put the tree away! What are they like please??

ruethewhirl · 04/11/2025 12:53

TheZanyZebra · 03/11/2025 15:16

I am just replying, I said you could celebrate Christmas until Easter, who cares.

But to the question: why do we get rid of the tree on Boxing Day? Again, because Christmas is over. It's fairly obvious why!

I actually do celebrate Epiphany, even if it makes your own head explode 😂. I just don't need Christmas tree and decoration for that, that was for December, by New Year Eve's we'll have move on. Why is that such a problem?

No one I visit or know has a tree long after Christmas, and certainly not after the 30th. It's pretty common for people to get rid of everything before New Year's Eve. The tree collection points are full by that time too. Of course it's an opinion, but a very common one.

Genuine question because I'm curious: do you think it might be generational? Without being so rude as to ask your age I know a lot of MNers are round about their thirties, the generation after mine, and these past few years I've been noticing that the notion of when Christmas starts and finishes really does seem different among generations younger than my own. Just as no one you know holds on to their tree for long after Christmas, most of my friends and DH's still seem to be keeping theirs up until New Year's Day at least, or till twelfth night as we do. It's interesting to me because it suggests all sorts of social cues must have changed over the years. Not suggesting either side is 'better', I think we all just know how we personally prefer to celebrate it.

FeetLikeFlippers · 04/11/2025 13:18

Social fucking media, advertising, people being sheep. It’s all a bit depressing isn’t it?! Last week I got an email from Marks & Spencer (I’m only in their mailing list to see when their jeans go on sale) proudly announcing that their Christmas ad is now available FFS. (Yes, grumpy old bugger here, but that’s because I’m ND so I question everything and don’t just blindly accept whatever bullshit is fed to me!)

Pigeonpoodle · 04/11/2025 13:28

SALaw · 01/11/2025 12:27

Is it? Maybe they are excited the whole time it’s up?

Don’t be ridiculous… No one sustains Christmas excitement for two months solid. Having Christmas decorations up in early November is very weird in my opinion.

Poppy123xyz · 04/11/2025 13:33

My spooky Halloween decs are up all november to cheer me up, but then most of it stays year round anyway

Pigeonpoodle · 04/11/2025 13:34

CoffeeCantata · 04/11/2025 12:16

They are the sort of people who HAVE to be first with everything. Then, when it’s actually the appropriate time for something ,they get bored and look for the next thing.

It must be like living in one of those all-year-round Christmas shops.

Yes, the type of people who put the bins out by 7am even though they aren’t collected until the next day! The ones who pay for priority boarding on flights because they can’t bear the thought of someone experiencing the airplane seat before them.

These smug and tedious idiots just HAVE to be first! It’s what they live for… Always living life in advance of the actual event.

Pigeonpoodle · 04/11/2025 13:37

SouthLondonMum22 · 03/11/2025 23:57

How would it be enforced?

Put them in stocks and have them pelted with putrid pumpkins left over from Halloween.

ConnieHeart · 04/11/2025 14:14

FeetLikeFlippers · 04/11/2025 13:18

Social fucking media, advertising, people being sheep. It’s all a bit depressing isn’t it?! Last week I got an email from Marks & Spencer (I’m only in their mailing list to see when their jeans go on sale) proudly announcing that their Christmas ad is now available FFS. (Yes, grumpy old bugger here, but that’s because I’m ND so I question everything and don’t just blindly accept whatever bullshit is fed to me!)

Edited

Oh I know, I caught a glimpse of the Aldi Christmas advert on tv today, plus an advert on the radio advertising a special offer for Ferrero Rochers at Morrison's "because it wouldn't be Christmas without them!" Yes it bloody would!

ConnieHeart · 04/11/2025 14:18

Pigeonpoodle · 04/11/2025 13:34

Yes, the type of people who put the bins out by 7am even though they aren’t collected until the next day! The ones who pay for priority boarding on flights because they can’t bear the thought of someone experiencing the airplane seat before them.

These smug and tedious idiots just HAVE to be first! It’s what they live for… Always living life in advance of the actual event.

Also some people have to have something big to look forward to, whether it's a holiday, Christmas, Easter etc and have to prolong the celebrations for themselves & their kids as much as possible. I just don't understand getting excited about something that's months (or even weeks) away

I also blame the bloody Christmas adverts & Christmas music on tv & radio as soon as Halloween us over then stop abruptly on Christmas Day evening...then we'll hear Jess Glynne advertising a well known holiday company and the cycle starts again

asrl78 · 04/11/2025 14:21

Pigeonpoodle · 04/11/2025 13:34

Yes, the type of people who put the bins out by 7am even though they aren’t collected until the next day! The ones who pay for priority boarding on flights because they can’t bear the thought of someone experiencing the airplane seat before them.

These smug and tedious idiots just HAVE to be first! It’s what they live for… Always living life in advance of the actual event.

Priority boarding is good (my friend introduced me to it earlier this year), you can be straight on the plane and sat down without all the fiddle faffer trundlebunnies fannying about with their hand luggage getting in the way. Once you are sat on the plane, you can get on with whatever you brought to entertain yourself until you reach your destination.

KimberleyClark · 04/11/2025 14:23

Anyone want to join me in a Keep Christmas Where it Belongs (December) campaign?

asrl78 · 04/11/2025 14:25

Maybe taking the decorations down on the 26th is a form of welcoming the fact that it is over and they can relax and wind down. Some people seem to be in an arms war when it comes to entertaining, always trying to be bigger and better than their peers or themselves last year, and that is not only exhausting but unsustainable. As an example on a larger scale, that is essentially what has happened with the Lewes bonfire and why they have to resort to stopping people coming into the town when it is on, it has got bigger and bigger over the years to the point they have reached the limits of what they can cope with.

DickDewey · 04/11/2025 14:54

Maybe taking the decorations down on the 26th is a form of welcoming the fact that it is over and they can relax and wind down.

How can it be over on Boxing Day? It’s the second day of Christmas! And how sad if people have children. My family absolutely loves the days between Christmas Day and new year’s. Boxing Day, we have an open house every year, with friends coming all day. The other days are country walks and pub lunches and just enjoying the festive season. Imagine going to a country pub 2 days after Christmas Day and it was all back to normal. How sad.

Sometimes, we’ve taken our trees down on the 30th, but that’s only if we go skiing for new year and don’t want to come back to (dead) Christmas in January.

Parker231 · 04/11/2025 15:03

DickDewey · 04/11/2025 14:54

Maybe taking the decorations down on the 26th is a form of welcoming the fact that it is over and they can relax and wind down.

How can it be over on Boxing Day? It’s the second day of Christmas! And how sad if people have children. My family absolutely loves the days between Christmas Day and new year’s. Boxing Day, we have an open house every year, with friends coming all day. The other days are country walks and pub lunches and just enjoying the festive season. Imagine going to a country pub 2 days after Christmas Day and it was all back to normal. How sad.

Sometimes, we’ve taken our trees down on the 30th, but that’s only if we go skiing for new year and don’t want to come back to (dead) Christmas in January.

And other people do their celebrating over a different period. Does no one on this thread work on Christmas Day or back to work after Christmas?

ConnieHeart · 04/11/2025 15:36

asrl78 · 04/11/2025 14:21

Priority boarding is good (my friend introduced me to it earlier this year), you can be straight on the plane and sat down without all the fiddle faffer trundlebunnies fannying about with their hand luggage getting in the way. Once you are sat on the plane, you can get on with whatever you brought to entertain yourself until you reach your destination.

I don't bother with priority boarding, happy to wait in the departure lounge till the queue goes down. But I was given 'speedy boarding' on our last holiday as I'd paid for a larger cabin bag. That way you ensure you get space in the overhead locker. Had to leave the rest of the family behind in the normal queue!