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To wish the very best to the people and island of Jamaica 🇯🇲❤️

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 17:17

Hurricane Melissa has arrived in Jamaica. Apparently it could be as bad as Hurricaine Katrina 😳.

Wishing the very best to the people on the island, and Jamaicans around the world who are worried, and may have family there.

https://news.sky.com/story/hurricane-melissa-live-catastrophic-category-5-storm-barrels-towards-jamaica-cuba-and-bahamas-13458703

🙏❤️

Hurricane Melissa live: 'Storm of century' makes landfall as Jamaica braces for widespread destruction

Hurricane Melissa has made landfall in Jamaica, where it could reshape the coastline and potentially change the way of life there for years to come, one expert has warned. Follow the latest below.

https://news.sky.com/story/hurricane-melissa-live-catastrophic-category-5-storm-barrels-towards-jamaica-cuba-and-bahamas-13458703

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 18:10

Gingernaut · 28/10/2025 17:45

Latest reports say about as bad as Katrina, but Jamaica doesn't have the same defences or infrastructure as USA

This could be dire

Wishing everyone in the Caribbean all the best

This, and Katrina was handled so badly despite the resources that they had 🥺 which makes this even scarier for Jamaica

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 18:11

Muchtoomuchtodo · 28/10/2025 18:10

One of my colleagues sons is out there. They were due to fly home today. Tried to bring it forwards but couldn’t.

They’ve had to move hotels and where they are now is using its rooms with the least windows (auditorium and meeting rooms) which have been boarded up to keep everyone safe.

Oh god, may he and the others be safe there 🙏

How terrifying for your colleague

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 18:12

Are the buildings in Jamaica made out of brick and concrete like in the UK

Apologies for my ignorance, not at all trying to imply anything about Jamaica with that question. The US dont always use concrete

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Iliketulips · 28/10/2025 18:32

I don't envy anyone on Jamaica right now, locals or visitors - Melissa looks like it's cutting right across the island.

I saw a report earlier that someone had done their best to reinforce a metal roof and they'd still lost some of it, even before the brunt of the storm. Priority is that everyone is safe, but I can't imagine the extreme of how it must feel to lose your home, community.

ToddlerSendCoffee1234 · 28/10/2025 18:34

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 18:08

Thank you for this explanation - I can imagine that people have seen off storms before?

Also, is there a wealth divide in evacuations maybe?

If you're rich, yes, you can afford to evacuate before a storm (although many choose not to). The thing is, you almost never get more than 1 or 2 days notice that a storm will actually hit. The few flights that are still on, will be ten fold the price and you need a US Visa as vast majority of flights from the Carribean go through Miami, and most people don't have a US visa. But because storms don't always hit, most people ride it out in a shelter and then take a flight out if it was extremely bad (you don't want to stick around for more than a day or 2 in a place with no running water and the looting invariably starts by day 3).

There is a big divide in the housing. Middle and upper class people will have proper concrete houses, raised at least 5 feet off the ground, and not in a flood area. So, as always, poor people get hit the worst. A well built concrete house will not get destroyed, even by a Cat 5. The roof will get blown off but the house will still be there. Poor people living in shacks or extreme flood area will lose absolutely everything.

Starlightnights · 28/10/2025 18:40

My friend is there with her husband and two children. They are safe and on lockdown in their hotel.

TardisDweller · 28/10/2025 18:45

ToddlerSendCoffee1234 · 28/10/2025 18:34

If you're rich, yes, you can afford to evacuate before a storm (although many choose not to). The thing is, you almost never get more than 1 or 2 days notice that a storm will actually hit. The few flights that are still on, will be ten fold the price and you need a US Visa as vast majority of flights from the Carribean go through Miami, and most people don't have a US visa. But because storms don't always hit, most people ride it out in a shelter and then take a flight out if it was extremely bad (you don't want to stick around for more than a day or 2 in a place with no running water and the looting invariably starts by day 3).

There is a big divide in the housing. Middle and upper class people will have proper concrete houses, raised at least 5 feet off the ground, and not in a flood area. So, as always, poor people get hit the worst. A well built concrete house will not get destroyed, even by a Cat 5. The roof will get blown off but the house will still be there. Poor people living in shacks or extreme flood area will lose absolutely everything.

Yes I've heard similar about the rich/poor divide in the Caymans. The very rich often get their own private flight out.

It does look pretty terrifying, I'm watching the live news on bbc and hoping that as many people as possible have been able to get somewhere safe.

Buzyizzy217 · 28/10/2025 19:06

Apparently their infrastructure is designed with hurricanes in mind. All steel and concrete. It’s retained level 5 whilst crossing Jamaica and will be soon on its way to Cuba and Haiti, two countries that really could do without any more economic damage.
Climatologist on R4 was saying it hasn’t shown any sign of weakening. It must be utterly terrifying. Poor Jamaicans, Cubans and folk of Haiti.

Buzyizzy217 · 28/10/2025 19:08

5’ won’t do much with a 15’ storm surge and 40” of rain bringing landslides and massive flooding.

Flomingho · 28/10/2025 19:08

Praying for the people of Jamaica 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 it's absolutely devastating for them.

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 28/10/2025 19:13

ThatLadyLadyShesTheMan · 28/10/2025 17:42

We need to be clear. This isn’t a natural disaster. It’s a crime. This is climate warfare. The elite of this world sit by as our ecosystems are destroyed, because it’ll never impact them. We need to start taking action.

🙄

Pickledpoppetpickle · 28/10/2025 19:21

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 17:32

I'm saddened that there might not be an urgency in evacutation for residents though 😳

This thing sounds terrifying

Where would they be evacuated to? It’s a small island, the hurricane will affect the whole of it. That’s 3 million people. Where would they go?

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 19:33

Pickledpoppetpickle · 28/10/2025 19:21

Where would they be evacuated to? It’s a small island, the hurricane will affect the whole of it. That’s 3 million people. Where would they go?

No idea honestly, I wouldve thought surrounding islands but I dont know

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ToddlerSendCoffee1234 · 28/10/2025 19:33

Pickledpoppetpickle · 28/10/2025 19:21

Where would they be evacuated to? It’s a small island, the hurricane will affect the whole of it. That’s 3 million people. Where would they go?

There are shelters built to cope with cat 5 storms. They won't be comfortable and spending the night in one is my idea of hell, which is why I always avoided them so far and why people will be reluctant to go. Also, Jamaica is absolutely not a small island, there are places to go that won't be affected as badly.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 19:37

ToddlerSendCoffee1234 · 28/10/2025 18:34

If you're rich, yes, you can afford to evacuate before a storm (although many choose not to). The thing is, you almost never get more than 1 or 2 days notice that a storm will actually hit. The few flights that are still on, will be ten fold the price and you need a US Visa as vast majority of flights from the Carribean go through Miami, and most people don't have a US visa. But because storms don't always hit, most people ride it out in a shelter and then take a flight out if it was extremely bad (you don't want to stick around for more than a day or 2 in a place with no running water and the looting invariably starts by day 3).

There is a big divide in the housing. Middle and upper class people will have proper concrete houses, raised at least 5 feet off the ground, and not in a flood area. So, as always, poor people get hit the worst. A well built concrete house will not get destroyed, even by a Cat 5. The roof will get blown off but the house will still be there. Poor people living in shacks or extreme flood area will lose absolutely everything.

Thank you for explaining this 🙌

My thoughts to the people living in the shacks, how scary the thought of losing everything

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 19:42

According to cnn, crocodiles have been displaced and might be swimming in the flood water?!

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Pickledpoppetpickle · 28/10/2025 19:46

ToddlerSendCoffee1234 · 28/10/2025 19:33

There are shelters built to cope with cat 5 storms. They won't be comfortable and spending the night in one is my idea of hell, which is why I always avoided them so far and why people will be reluctant to go. Also, Jamaica is absolutely not a small island, there are places to go that won't be affected as badly.

The majority of shelters are schools/church halls etc. presumably chosen because they are better constructed. Are there enough to fit everyone? News was 880 centres which would need space for….3000 people in each one? No, they won’t be pleasant. And potentially insecure, particularly for women. Sure, some places will come off worse than others but all the news, journalists and meteorologists on TV today have been very clear it’s a whole island event. Many Jamaicans live either by the sea or a river - BBC said 70% - water surges, bridges breaking, landslides, banks over flowing are all very real possibilities island wide. They have been very clear that no one is safe.

and it’s about 150 by 50 miles in size? It’s not big enough to be sure you can avoid this, unfortunately. Most will be fine. All we can do is hope.

ThePoshUns · 28/10/2025 19:47

Keeping everything crossed for them, must be terrifying.

FettleOfKish · 28/10/2025 19:51

I can’t even comprehend it. Our home was badly damaged in storm ciaran and that was ‘only’ 96mph winds. The most terrified I’ve been as an adult. Thinking of everyone there and hoping they are safe.

JHound · 28/10/2025 20:12

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 18:12

Are the buildings in Jamaica made out of brick and concrete like in the UK

Apologies for my ignorance, not at all trying to imply anything about Jamaica with that question. The US dont always use concrete

It’s a mix.

But the news is reporting that even sturdier infrastructure would struggle with these wind speeds.

JulianClarysDog · 28/10/2025 20:22

Absolutely. Sending love and prayers your way, Jamaica

EleanorReally · 28/10/2025 20:27

also sending hope and love

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 20:33

Its been reduced to Category 4!

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Strokethefurrywall · 28/10/2025 21:01

Completely agree with everything @ToddlerSendCoffee1234 has explained. I’m another in Cayman, and hurricane fatigue is real. Many do not have the means to keep well stocked hurricane supplies, and leave it to the last minute once a threat is real.

Nobody can drop $$ on evacuation because they won’t have visas for US, and can’t afford to stay wherever they land. The threat of thefts/looting on the other side of the storm is also real so many will stay put to protect their homes.

It’s been absolutely horrifying watching all day. Jamaicas infrastructure just can’t support this relentless amount of storm surge and rain. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Muchtoomuchtodo · 28/10/2025 22:05

My colleague’s son has been told that the hurricane has left Jamaica. Where they were being kept safe started to flood so they’ve had to go upstairs. They’ve been told about the risk of crocodiles in the flood water too.