NC
I have teen DC, DH & several different individual friends who don't know each other. Me and DH work FT.
I organise my social life in a way that if I'm seeing a friend on either a Fri or Sat night then I'll leave the other night to spend with DH. Im also just as happy at the weekends at home just me and DH fri & sat night.
I see most of my individual friends every 4-6 weeks. We all work, have DC and busy lives. But, I have 1 friend who wants to meet up as much as possible. This can mean I can end up in the situation where on the weekend I've arramged to see another friend, i then up also seeing this friend too and both my fri & sat nights are then taken up. Going out 2 nights in a row is too much for me. This friend is constant with her wants to go out and sometimes wants to meet up 3 times a week. I say no to her so much and feel bad saying no yet more times.