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To think that if a high school theater department can do three shows a year, one should be a dramatic play and there shouldn’t be two musical plays?

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:42

20+ years ago when I was a teenager, I did theater through my school, which is an American private school. (It was a joint theater department with another private school nearby.) I follow the theater department on social media, and I saw that this year, they’re doing a fall musical, a winter dance production, and a spring musical. The fall musical is based on children’s books that my kids like, and although ideally I’d like to take them to see the show, I feel frustrated and a little angry that they’re doing two musicals.

When I started high school, it was understood that the fall play was always a dramatic one without singing roles. I have absolutely no vocal talent, but I was excited to have the chance to try out for the fall productions.

My first year of high school, I was called back for the second round of auditions for the fall play, but the part I was being considered for went to a senior (last year of high school). That was okay with me. I joined the set crew. My second year of high school, the director broke with decades of tradition and announced that we were doing a fall musical as well as a spring musical. I was disappointed, but, once again, was on set crew.

My third year of high school, we had a dramatic play again and I was cast in a supporting role. Three scenes, two costumes, chance to do an accent - great experience and fun memories. (I even started dating another cast member who’s now my husband of thirteen years. 😁)

My fourth and last year of high school, the dramatic play had a tiny cast with only five roles. As with my first year of high school, I auditioned, went through to the second round, and was not cast. Prior to that, I’d been involved in every show but one, but I just felt burned out with the whole thing. I sat out any involvement with the fall and winter shows, though I came back to do set crew for the spring musical because it was my last chance to work on a production with my friends.

I was not owed any roles, but I joined high school theater with the understanding that I got four chances to try to be in a fall play. Instead, I got three, which felt more like two and a half because the cast of the senior year fall play was so small. (The other fall plays had casts of a dozen or more.) Am I wrong to think that if a school theater department has the ability to do three productions a year, there should be one dramatic play and not two musicals? It’s a different skill set, and even if I didn’t “make the team,” I wanted the chance to try for it. The adults who ran the department while I was in high school are all still there in their same jobs, FWIW, and have a lot of experience putting on dramatic plays.

I don’t usually dwell on things from high school, but, as I said before, they’re doing two musicals this year and that’s brought all my old feelings up to the surface.

OP posts:
BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 23/10/2025 15:42

YankSplaining · 23/10/2025 15:19

There’s no set group of students to poll. It’s not like you sign up for theater class and then the class puts on the production; the auditions are open to the entire student body of two different schools.

So there are 2 entire student bodies ...

RhaenysRocks · 23/10/2025 17:17

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 23/10/2025 13:59

Not true... There are non singing roles in musicals.

Also more kids can be involved in musicals. And often more technically demanding for the actual production so needing more backstage team

Also if you can hold a tune there's always chorus work

In a school musical they always want everyone on stage to sing the chorus numbers. DD is a great comedy, improv actress but really really does not want to sing. She's had few opportunities in her school life to showcase her talents, whereas the somewhat wooden but vocally talented and confident get 2/3 every year.

TheatreMom · 24/10/2025 18:59

YankSplaining · 23/10/2025 13:45

@TheatreMom “People here keep talking about ticket sales, and I agree with the OP that this probably isn't a concern. My daughter went to a public school and there was never any issue selling out the performances.”

From a financial perspective, ticket sales are definitely not a concern. As an alum, I get the school news magazine that gets sent out a few times a year, and there’s always a long list in the back of people who’ve recently donated money to the school. Add that to the high tuition fees, and we are definitely not talking about a situation of, “Oh, it looks like we’ve got to do a musical if we want to raise enough money to do our next production.” This is a very well-funded theater program.

And, as I stated earlier in the thread, it’s a fairly small auditorium.

I feel like this was the least important part of my post, but ok.

TheatreMom · 24/10/2025 19:00

YankSplaining · 23/10/2025 14:49

Exactly. Besides, high school theater is an extracurricular for teenagers, not a training program for professional theater actors. I think a wide range of opportunities is more important for teenagers in school.

Not necessarily. My daughter's high school theatre program was absolutely a training program for kids wanting to go on to study theatre in college.

Wincher · 24/10/2025 19:04

Yes I was amazed when my son picked drama gcse as he had never once signed up for any school production (other than backstage) - he said it’s because he can’t sing! But he loves to act, apparently - it’s a shame they only ever do musicals.

Vitriolinsanity · 24/10/2025 19:41

I’m impressed that you’ve raised a subject that to my recollection has not been raised on MN before.

DS went to a school that had a fabulous drama department and stage both musicals and plays, and I attended as a godparent long before he actually went there.

I will say this. The production of Les Mis was better than the one in the West End I’ve been dragged kicking and screaming to way too many times. I said to the HT at intermission they should have had it open to all parents considering the school as it was an open your chequebook moment.

The point is, what engages the children, what gets as many in the chorus as possible regardless of whether they can act, what gets the kids getting involved in the orchestra or lighting or sets.

With the exception of a Midsummer Night’s Dream it’s probably going to be a musical every time.

Vitriolinsanity · 24/10/2025 19:45

My DS also amazed me by choosing Drama GCSE. His reasons: it’s brilliant seeing and doing the staging, lighting and sound without having to act and learn the lines.

TheatreMom · 29/10/2025 14:05

Vitriolinsanity · 24/10/2025 19:45

My DS also amazed me by choosing Drama GCSE. His reasons: it’s brilliant seeing and doing the staging, lighting and sound without having to act and learn the lines.

That's great! Kids who are not motivated to be performers should absolutely be given the chance to learn about and practice technical theatre. That's just as important!

PlaygroundSusie · 01/11/2025 07:09

Chiming in late, but just want to say 'solidarity', OP. My high school was similar - once a year they put on a big production, and it was always a musical. I love theatre and acting, but can't sing or dance to save my life, so I always flunked the auditions.

It would have been great if just once, they'd put on a regular play, so kids like me could have a decent shot at passing the auditions and appearing in the production. My school did have drama classes where we put on plays, but they were only short plays (eg 20 minutes max) and the audience was just other students (eg parents and general members of the public weren't invited).

I know other schools in my area were different - ie, they did do regular plays for their big productions. So I think you (we) just got unlucky with our school! It really comes down to the people running the drama department, and their preferences.

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