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To think that if a high school theater department can do three shows a year, one should be a dramatic play and there shouldn’t be two musical plays?

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:42

20+ years ago when I was a teenager, I did theater through my school, which is an American private school. (It was a joint theater department with another private school nearby.) I follow the theater department on social media, and I saw that this year, they’re doing a fall musical, a winter dance production, and a spring musical. The fall musical is based on children’s books that my kids like, and although ideally I’d like to take them to see the show, I feel frustrated and a little angry that they’re doing two musicals.

When I started high school, it was understood that the fall play was always a dramatic one without singing roles. I have absolutely no vocal talent, but I was excited to have the chance to try out for the fall productions.

My first year of high school, I was called back for the second round of auditions for the fall play, but the part I was being considered for went to a senior (last year of high school). That was okay with me. I joined the set crew. My second year of high school, the director broke with decades of tradition and announced that we were doing a fall musical as well as a spring musical. I was disappointed, but, once again, was on set crew.

My third year of high school, we had a dramatic play again and I was cast in a supporting role. Three scenes, two costumes, chance to do an accent - great experience and fun memories. (I even started dating another cast member who’s now my husband of thirteen years. 😁)

My fourth and last year of high school, the dramatic play had a tiny cast with only five roles. As with my first year of high school, I auditioned, went through to the second round, and was not cast. Prior to that, I’d been involved in every show but one, but I just felt burned out with the whole thing. I sat out any involvement with the fall and winter shows, though I came back to do set crew for the spring musical because it was my last chance to work on a production with my friends.

I was not owed any roles, but I joined high school theater with the understanding that I got four chances to try to be in a fall play. Instead, I got three, which felt more like two and a half because the cast of the senior year fall play was so small. (The other fall plays had casts of a dozen or more.) Am I wrong to think that if a school theater department has the ability to do three productions a year, there should be one dramatic play and not two musicals? It’s a different skill set, and even if I didn’t “make the team,” I wanted the chance to try for it. The adults who ran the department while I was in high school are all still there in their same jobs, FWIW, and have a lot of experience putting on dramatic plays.

I don’t usually dwell on things from high school, but, as I said before, they’re doing two musicals this year and that’s brought all my old feelings up to the surface.

OP posts:
YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:49

LlynTegid · 22/10/2025 19:37

Some people cannot sing, nothing they can do about it. I am not being sarcastic or rude about anyone, being tone deaf some are born with it.

I am with the OP on this one, have one musical to give those who can and enjoy singing their chance, have other plays the rest of the time.

Thank you. In my experience, people who are good singers don’t have a difficult time finding performance opportunities, but acting opportunities are harder to come by even on a very amateur level.

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:51

Algen · 22/10/2025 18:58

The thing that surprises me is that they replaced the dramatic play with a second musical, rather than fhe winter dance production. I would have thought it fairer to replace the dance production (as dancers can easily be accommodated in musicals).

Edited

Good point. Hadn’t thought of it that way, but now that I do, I agree.

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:54

Fireside10 · 22/10/2025 19:45

I agree, there should be a variety to shows every year to suit different skill sets, different interests and to teach the young people about the many different styles of theatre.

If I'm honest I don't believe it should be as fixed as x amount of musicals, dance productions and other dramatic styles but if that's how the school organise it then it should at least be varied.

I studied theatre all the way through school and in my degree. Exposure to different stories, songs and acting styles are what helps young people learn about themselves and what they wish to pursue.

One of my fondest memories was being in my schools Shakespeare production. Whilst in my head I'm a fantastic singer/dancers, reality just hasn't quite caught up with that yet though 😅 saying all the above though, I really wouldn't get hung up on this now. You were in a show and you enjoyed it, I'm assuming you still have a love of the theatre now which is what's more important than the tally of shows you've been in.

Thanks. 🙂 I bet doing Shakespeare was fantastic. The play my freshman year was a Shakespearean comedy and I still have large parts of it memorized from all those rehearsals and performances.

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Fireside10 · 22/10/2025 20:49

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:54

Thanks. 🙂 I bet doing Shakespeare was fantastic. The play my freshman year was a Shakespearean comedy and I still have large parts of it memorized from all those rehearsals and performances.

I was Helena in a midsummer nights dream, I can still hear how devious I sounded reading her monologue at 16 😂

Honestly though, the theatre is a magical place hold onto your happy memories and keep seeing the shows you love, don't get bogged down about something from years ago.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 22/10/2025 22:39

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:39

I’m bringing up what it was like when I was there because box office was not a reason to start doing a fall musical in the first place. Is it now? Maybe, but I doubt it. These are expensive private schools and, like I said early in the thread, the theater department has resources beyond most American high schools.

But what happened 20 years ago is irrelevant because times change!

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 22/10/2025 22:43

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 19:49

Thank you. In my experience, people who are good singers don’t have a difficult time finding performance opportunities, but acting opportunities are harder to come by even on a very amateur level.

Well you'd be wrong there
Being a good singer doesn't mean you get more work
It might be easier because musicals are more widely produced because musicals sell much easier

FaitesVosJeux · 22/10/2025 22:44

You’re curious to know what people think about this 20 year old situation? For real?
Maybe you can find a couple of posters with bog all in their heads but I doubt it.

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 22:47

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 22/10/2025 22:43

Well you'd be wrong there
Being a good singer doesn't mean you get more work
It might be easier because musicals are more widely produced because musicals sell much easier

I didn’t say “work,” I said “performance opportunities.” I’m thinking of things like church choirs and local amateur groups.

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RhaenysRocks · 23/10/2025 06:45

FaitesVosJeux · 22/10/2025 22:44

You’re curious to know what people think about this 20 year old situation? For real?
Maybe you can find a couple of posters with bog all in their heads but I doubt it.

Or maybe they can use her op as a starting point for a wider discussion about what schools focus on and opportunities for kids? It doesn't have to be just about that particular school..

Coldsoup · 23/10/2025 07:21

FaitesVosJeux · 22/10/2025 22:44

You’re curious to know what people think about this 20 year old situation? For real?
Maybe you can find a couple of posters with bog all in their heads but I doubt it.

I think op has raised a really good point, which I have been mulling over for a while.

I can't think of any schools near us that put on plays any more, whereas they definitely did plays when I was at school. It's just musicals now. This means there is minimal opportunity for acting full stop and no opportunity for acting on stage for those who may be brilliant actors but cannot (or don't want to) sing

And it's the same with all the local theatre schools.

My daughter enjoys the musicals but her passion is acting. She does Lamda exams, but she'd love a chance to perform in an actual play.

Thankyourose · 23/10/2025 07:48

Oldandcobwebby · 22/10/2025 17:52

My daughter's school produces musical theatre productions, because it allows the school orchestra a showcase, along with actors and singers. It gives more pupils a chance to take part, not just a handful.

Ours are usually entirely musicals because it allows the dance students and musicians to join in as well as drama students.
Musicals often have many more parts and as a parent - what do you want to go and see? Something up beat like Matilda, or The Crucible? Bearing in mind it’s a school production and the acting standard isn’t going to necessarily be that high??? B

Thankyourose · 23/10/2025 07:50

Coldsoup · 23/10/2025 07:21

I think op has raised a really good point, which I have been mulling over for a while.

I can't think of any schools near us that put on plays any more, whereas they definitely did plays when I was at school. It's just musicals now. This means there is minimal opportunity for acting full stop and no opportunity for acting on stage for those who may be brilliant actors but cannot (or don't want to) sing

And it's the same with all the local theatre schools.

My daughter enjoys the musicals but her passion is acting. She does Lamda exams, but she'd love a chance to perform in an actual play.

Join a theatre troupe! My DD does dram out side if school, and they do ‘plays’ but honestly? The standard there is high, but it can still be cringe to sit through 16 year olds doing ‘serious’ acting.
youre also underestimating the drama side of musicals, just. Because there’s a dance number half way through doesn’t t mean the drama parts aren’t still hard.

Nopenott0day · 23/10/2025 07:57

I genuinely don't understand why you are so invested in somewhere you left at 16.

Are you a governor?

WearyAuldWumman · 23/10/2025 08:05

I agree with you, @OP . Only two of the three productions should be a musical.

There does seem to be a demand for 'triple threat' talent these days, but at school level I'd expect there to be one production that the non-singers can audition for.

Meadowfinch · 23/10/2025 08:09

It's a different time. Schools are dealing with tight budgets. Maybe musicals are more profitable.

There is also more widespread poor mental health. Music and dance are generally more uplifting and cheerful than dramatic plays. That could be another reason.

Or maybe the pupils had a vote. I'd rather do the Pirates of Penzance than The Tempest if I was 15.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 23/10/2025 10:34

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 22:47

I didn’t say “work,” I said “performance opportunities.” I’m thinking of things like church choirs and local amateur groups.

Those are hardly the same

And around here all the local am dram groups will do plays as well as musicals - or they have dance roles and ensemble roles where singing ability doesn't have to be high

Witchcraftandhokum · 23/10/2025 12:16

Get a teaching degree and go and teach drama and spend the many unpaid and thankless working hours organising a school production needs, or stop whining about productions you have no vested interest in.

Tiswa · 23/10/2025 12:23

I think it is a personal thing I was a fairly competent school actor but a horrid singer I only got really decent parts when it wasn’t a musical and I was very grateful the final performance was Pygmalion rather than My Fair Lady

I joke that one of the reasons I married DH was because he is an ex choir boy and I wanted mine to be able to sing and thankfully both can

Ponderingwindow · 23/10/2025 13:00

It was always drama, musical, comedy.

i was in the orchestra for the musical. Daily multi-hour rehearsals for weeks on end for one musical a year are enough. By the end you are barely holding on. The orchestra has plenty to keep itself busy without another musical.

wombat1a · 23/10/2025 13:17

For us different year groups had different show seasons, lower years tended to be in the sprint/summer term and upper years in the autumn term (away from exams).

Always a musical because it included musicians and could have a larger cast. They tried a play once I seem to remember as a 3rd show one year, it was poorly attended and wasn't done again.

RhaenysRocks · 23/10/2025 13:21

Not everything has to be upbeat and "fun" in an obvious way. I think it's terrible that a school would decide they're ONLY doing musicals. Ok so you include the orchestra, but then you're excluding the non musical actors. Why is that ok?

TheatreMom · 23/10/2025 13:27

Name changed for this,

I think I probably have a little more insight into this than the average British mother, as I live in the US and I'm the mother of a daughter who was heavily involved in theatre in high school. This wasn't a private high school, it was a public magnet arts school with a well known and well regarded theatre program.

Our school did put on at least one straight play every year as well as a musical, which I think is a good thing. There were also various other performance opportunities, including student directed pieces, and one act plays/musicals.

People here keep talking about ticket sales, and I agree with the OP that this probably isn't a concern. My daughter went to a public school and there was never any issue selling out the performances.

I think there are several factors which go into the decision as to whether to produce a musical or a straight play. Most musicals involve more students than straight plays do. Straight plays often have a cast of only a handful, whereas musicals can accommodate many more with the ensemble members, and the school orchestra can be involved.

A lot of high school students want to be musical theatre performers rather than straight actors at that age. Musicals get them excited. (Not all, but the majority.)

Even actors need to have a grounding in all three disciplines (acting, singing, dancing) and musicals provide that.

Having said all that, I am glad that our school did produce straight plays and introduce students to that artform, even though as a talented actor my daughter didn't always get roles in the plays. I agree with you that serious theatre programs should feature straight plays as well as musicals, but I don't know that there's much you can do about it, especially as you are no longer connected to the school.

My daughter ended up going to one of the best theatre schools in the country for college and got her BFA in acting. She is now a working actor (which means tending bar and teaching on the side!) But even in her acting program she had to take classes in voice and movement - it's all important. Some of the plays she gets cast in now involve playing music, singing, and dancing, even if they're not "musicals", and I know she's glad she has that 'triple threat" background.

I don't know where you live, but you could look into magnet performing arts schools rather than private schools for your kids. My daughter could not have got a better education, and certainly not a better arts education, in a private school, even a prestigious one.

Sharptonguedwoman · 23/10/2025 13:27

I think it might well be a change in audience tastes. I have been with DD to see a couple of musical/operetta performances lately. A theatre near me has a yearly festival with a variety of things on offer. The big musical this year sold out very quickly as did the one last year (went to a London theatre for it's next season). The next production is a play offered is much more serious and for me, dated and I didn't bother going as it's not to my taste at all. I wonder if we are representative of audiences generally?

SheilaFentiman · 23/10/2025 13:28

A musical EXCLUDES those who can't sing but maybe amazing actors.

Our school musicals always had 'dance only' parts. And most people can carry a tune in a chorus, if not as a lead singer.

But I think that comments from PPs about how the chorus group can expand as needed in a musical, to enable wide participation, is probably it. In a Broadway musical, the chorus of sailors and the chorus of sea creatures (or whatever) will be the same performers if the groups are in different scenes - in a school production, you can have different kids in each also.

noidea69 · 23/10/2025 13:29

Read the title of the thread and thought this was going to be about your child currently at school.

In the kindest possible you really really really need to let this go if happened 20 plus years ago.