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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:52

MoominMai · 21/10/2025 18:44

???🙄

You can roll your eyes, but it’s called “diversity internships”.

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 18:52

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:10

I agree with you OP. I have a ds currently also searching for summer internships in finance and he has also found loads of internships not open for him to even apply for due them only being opened for diversity. Only today, he sent me an example of a “summer diversity internship”. I am a bit in the fence as I am pro diversity, but I also think its given opportunities to people who might never have walked through the door otherwise and there is a sense of people thinking it’s a “diversity hire”. I
am a hiring manager myself for a big international bank and participate in recruitment for grad internship. I have no doubt that we invite people through the door who would haven’t been through our doors if not from a diverse background. It also doesn’t often work out well as they often underperform when in the job and are always referred to as diversity hire. I should probably put on a hard hat for saying this, but this is my experience.

It sounds like you're not very good at your job if you're consistently hiring underperformers.

And your workplace sounds awful if people are "always referred to as diversity hires".

In my first job after graduating (I am early 30s, so not that long ago), I was referred to as the "token female hire" by the other (white male) new starters on the same scheme. I outperformed them all in that role and am considerably more senior than they are now. I may well have been hired to meet some sort of gender quota, but I was absolutely deserving of the job.

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 18:52

It sounds like you're not very good at your job if you're consistently hiring underperformers.

And your workplace sounds awful if people are "always referred to as diversity hires".

In my first job after graduating (I am early 30s, so not that long ago), I was referred to as the "token female hire" by the other (white male) new starters on the same scheme. I outperformed them all in that role and am considerably more senior than they are now. I may well have been hired to meet some sort of gender quota, but I was absolutely deserving of the job.

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 19:03

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 15:50

Agreed. I find it so saddening that 20 years ago we were crying out to get these amazing opportunities for under represented groups. I can’t imagine how proud I would’ve been to work for an organisation doing this.

20 years later the backlash is coming from the middle aged sharp elbowed and they’re actively stopping progress because their children might not find their lives as easy as it used to be. Because they’re upset that they can no longer smash the exams and get a lifetime of reward.

It’s controversial but I’m of the view that someone has to suffer for us to achieve equality. Because privileged white men have taken what wasn’t theirs, and sharing some of it back means they lose it. That doesn’t mean it was ever legitimately theirs though

I’m of the view that someone has to suffer for us to achieve equality. Because privileged white men have taken what wasn’t theirs, and sharing some of it back means they lose it. That doesn’t mean it was ever legitimately theirs though.

eh?

In 1971 the UK was 97.5% white. Before that, it would have been 99.99% white. The guilds, enlightenment, the industrial revolution, etc. where white men. White men developed the universities, the banks, the industries. I am glad the suffragettes fought to give women an opportunity to participate, but it is ridiculous to say that “white men took what wasn’t theirs.” They created this stuff, they didn’t “take it,” and their grandsons deserve a fair crack.

LadeOde · 21/10/2025 19:03

vivainsomnia · 21/10/2025 11:50

My son experienced the same. He applied to many highly competitive graduates roles after graduating (from one of the worse unis, ), and did really well getting to the final stage for three roles.

He said that during the interview, the majority of candidates were white males, but when you look at the pictures of the new recruits, they only represent 20%.

You can turn it around as one wished but they are proportionally less likely to be offered the role every else is equal.

The pictures are showing what they want the public to see. They want to attract a diverse workforce so they're not going to show as it currently is on the inside. These people are specifically picked to be the face of whatever corporate material it is they need it for. The surprise is, when you get in, if you get in, its mostly white males and then females so you've actually got the wrong end of the stick in this. If you want the truth look into ethnicity/diversity stats for these top companies.

Shinybrightdarling · 21/10/2025 19:04

5128gap · 21/10/2025 18:49

I feel your pain. For a very long time a lot of people have been concerned that white men are over represented in all the leading positions of power and wealth in our society. That this one group excercise a disproportionate amount of influence and secures an inequitable proportion of benefits.
For the longest time, no one listened to little old us either when we tentatively suggested that, just maybe, other groups in our society have something to offer too. Because, just maybe, white male people aren't innately 'the best' for every role, so, just maybe, there may be some things stopping other people from enjoying the same success, and making their own contribution. And, maybe, we should consider what the barriers are and try to address them so we benefit from these peoples abilities.
Now some employers are finally catching on to the idea that there's a whole untapped talent pool beyond the white men they typically employ, and they're taking steps to attract that pool.
However, these employers are by no means the majority. There are still plenty out there who will prioritise white men, either consciously or subconsciously, so there will always be plenty of options for white peoples sons.

I agree that white males aren’t innately the best for every role - and that the untapped talent pool outside that cohort should be given a fair chance. However, I also believe that opportunities should, where possible, be made available according to each individual person’s merit. Inequality needs to be addressed in a different, fairer way. Diversity initiatives are inherently unfair and have been so overused they are now very often having the opposite effect to what was originally intended eg however good a new female/black/gay boss is some people will assume they are just a diversity hire and couldn’t have got the job any other way.

5128gap · 21/10/2025 19:06

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

I think the point being made was that if you have a responsibility for recruitment, and are good at your job, you shouldn't be repeatedly selecting poor candidates. If the pool you have to choose from contains no one with the requisit abilities, fot whatever reason, then you don't just recruit the least worst surely? Would you not speak up to your own seniors and explain that no one was suitable?

Hoodlumboodlum · 21/10/2025 19:07

In my recent hires we have 5 white women (1 Irish, 1 from Scotland, 3 from England) and 2 white men (both from England).

We interviewed a diverse field through blind recruitment processes and the people we hired were the best choices for the roles. If they'd all been black or all been from a FSM background etc we couldn't have cared less. We just wanted the best candidates for the role. This time is happened that they were all white. In past posts, that hasn't been the case.

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 19:08

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:19

people moaning that they're being unfair to white males (when likely their workforce is already primarily made up of them and headed by them)

The workforce in the UK should be majority white. We are a majority white country; 80% of the population is white. Less than that would indicate discrimination against the white population. We are not America - until only 50 years ago there were hardly any ethnic minority people here. The indigenous population is white. A third of the BAME population arrived over just the last 15 years, a significant portion without skills. It is crazy to suggest that there is no preference because the workplace is still majority white.

Not sure what the game is with this mouldy peppers as I was told to check my white privilege a few pages back. But now makes a very good point of course the workforce should be majority white as that’s what the population is.

People can be as outraged as they want but I’ll be telling all my kids to lie about their ethnicity on applications. They can ask you these questions but they can’t force you to take an ancestry dna test. Same goes for your sexuality

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 19:12

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

If you're a hiring manager then part of your job is to hire people, no? If you, as a hiring manager, are consistently hiring poor candidates then that very much sounds like a failing on your part. It's not particularly relevant how "big" the company you work for is or how "prestigious" the grad scheme is if you admit that you aren't capable of selecting good candidates. It's offensive to insinuate that the candidates you do select are bad at their job because they meet diversity criteria when in fact it is because you are just bad at your job.

CuriousKangaroo · 21/10/2025 19:14

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 19:12

If you're a hiring manager then part of your job is to hire people, no? If you, as a hiring manager, are consistently hiring poor candidates then that very much sounds like a failing on your part. It's not particularly relevant how "big" the company you work for is or how "prestigious" the grad scheme is if you admit that you aren't capable of selecting good candidates. It's offensive to insinuate that the candidates you do select are bad at their job because they meet diversity criteria when in fact it is because you are just bad at your job.

Exactly.

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 19:15

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 19:03

I’m of the view that someone has to suffer for us to achieve equality. Because privileged white men have taken what wasn’t theirs, and sharing some of it back means they lose it. That doesn’t mean it was ever legitimately theirs though.

eh?

In 1971 the UK was 97.5% white. Before that, it would have been 99.99% white. The guilds, enlightenment, the industrial revolution, etc. where white men. White men developed the universities, the banks, the industries. I am glad the suffragettes fought to give women an opportunity to participate, but it is ridiculous to say that “white men took what wasn’t theirs.” They created this stuff, they didn’t “take it,” and their grandsons deserve a fair crack.

The uk was 97.5% white and as is still the case today men do not typically have their careers interrupted by pregnancy and breastfeeding.

How absolutely shocking that white men had all the good jobs in this country historically (as well as the shitty jobs like chimney sweep and factory worker because you know the country was literally 97% white but let’s just focus on the privilege)

Alia7 · 21/10/2025 19:16

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 19:08

Not sure what the game is with this mouldy peppers as I was told to check my white privilege a few pages back. But now makes a very good point of course the workforce should be majority white as that’s what the population is.

People can be as outraged as they want but I’ll be telling all my kids to lie about their ethnicity on applications. They can ask you these questions but they can’t force you to take an ancestry dna test. Same goes for your sexuality

Sexuality is probably the best bet, there's literally no way anyone can prove you're not bisexual! 😅

Pharazon · 21/10/2025 19:18

Rainbows12344 · 21/10/2025 12:51

UK is becoming more and more diverse and less and less white. In 20 years it will be like 50:50 or even more? So it might not necessarily be a diversity policy working here, just the statistics.

It’s 82% white now. How do you propose it becomes 50% in one generation?

5128gap · 21/10/2025 19:20

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:19

people moaning that they're being unfair to white males (when likely their workforce is already primarily made up of them and headed by them)

The workforce in the UK should be majority white. We are a majority white country; 80% of the population is white. Less than that would indicate discrimination against the white population. We are not America - until only 50 years ago there were hardly any ethnic minority people here. The indigenous population is white. A third of the BAME population arrived over just the last 15 years, a significant portion without skills. It is crazy to suggest that there is no preference because the workplace is still majority white.

I don't think anyone is suggesting that if a group make up a certain percentage of the population you wouldnt expect to see them make up the same percentage of the workforce. EDI initiatives are used when this is not the case and a group is underrepresented in the workforce compared with the proportion of society they represent. Or when a group is underrepresented in senior positions.

HolidayInCambodia25 · 21/10/2025 19:22

Pharazon · 21/10/2025 19:18

It’s 82% white now. How do you propose it becomes 50% in one generation?

Current demographic tends clearly show that the indigenous English (those who have Northern european genetics) will be in a minority in these Isles in a generation, and increasingly so. We have a decreasing or stagnant birth rate, incomers are breeding far more. This trend is already apparent in the youngest generations. So that's correct.

At what point do we become protected in the way other indigenous populations are?

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:24

5128gap · 21/10/2025 19:06

I think the point being made was that if you have a responsibility for recruitment, and are good at your job, you shouldn't be repeatedly selecting poor candidates. If the pool you have to choose from contains no one with the requisit abilities, fot whatever reason, then you don't just recruit the least worst surely? Would you not speak up to your own seniors and explain that no one was suitable?

I think you assume I am much more powerful than I am. There are a lot of people involved in the recruitment process. Do you work for a very small company? We have to fill a quota, so we select the most suitable candidates from those presented to us. I am not saying they are not clever people who might do really well in another role. They just can’t compare to the usual top performers we select on the “non diverse” side - generally speaking - and everyone knows that.
We also run return to work schemes for women who have been out of the workplace raising children. This scheme has been very successful and I support it. We have had some great people join the firm via these schemes.

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:30

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 19:12

If you're a hiring manager then part of your job is to hire people, no? If you, as a hiring manager, are consistently hiring poor candidates then that very much sounds like a failing on your part. It's not particularly relevant how "big" the company you work for is or how "prestigious" the grad scheme is if you admit that you aren't capable of selecting good candidates. It's offensive to insinuate that the candidates you do select are bad at their job because they meet diversity criteria when in fact it is because you are just bad at your job.

Did you miss my post where I am saying this is not just down to me. It’s a huge amount of people involved in this process and we have to select from the pool we are given. Can I just select white candidates? No. I have a quota I need to fill.

The point I was making about my company being a prestigious one to join (if you want to work in banking) is that we should be able to only choose candidates from the top shelf and we are not.

Also it’s not just about actually getting the job. It’s also getting the opportunity to interview for a job. So if OP’s son on paper is equally qualified as a “diversity candidate” then the “diversity candidate” has a much higher chance of getting an interview than OPs son.

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 19:33

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:24

I think you assume I am much more powerful than I am. There are a lot of people involved in the recruitment process. Do you work for a very small company? We have to fill a quota, so we select the most suitable candidates from those presented to us. I am not saying they are not clever people who might do really well in another role. They just can’t compare to the usual top performers we select on the “non diverse” side - generally speaking - and everyone knows that.
We also run return to work schemes for women who have been out of the workplace raising children. This scheme has been very successful and I support it. We have had some great people join the firm via these schemes.

I don't think you know what hiring manager means.

No I don't work for a small company. It seems like you may be surprised to hear that the very impressive bank you work for is not the only global company in existence.

Pharazon · 21/10/2025 19:34

HolidayInCambodia25 · 21/10/2025 19:22

Current demographic tends clearly show that the indigenous English (those who have Northern european genetics) will be in a minority in these Isles in a generation, and increasingly so. We have a decreasing or stagnant birth rate, incomers are breeding far more. This trend is already apparent in the youngest generations. So that's correct.

At what point do we become protected in the way other indigenous populations are?

Edited

White English population: 43M
UK population: 69M

Unless the Scots and Welsh and Northern Irish seriously up their game, ‘White English’ will remain the dominant ethnic group in this country for the foreseeable future.

5128gap · 21/10/2025 19:35

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:24

I think you assume I am much more powerful than I am. There are a lot of people involved in the recruitment process. Do you work for a very small company? We have to fill a quota, so we select the most suitable candidates from those presented to us. I am not saying they are not clever people who might do really well in another role. They just can’t compare to the usual top performers we select on the “non diverse” side - generally speaking - and everyone knows that.
We also run return to work schemes for women who have been out of the workplace raising children. This scheme has been very successful and I support it. We have had some great people join the firm via these schemes.

You don't need to be powerful to offer up information to protect the business. You may have no control over who you are presented with, but surely you have input into the selection methods? You need methods that actually test core skills and the application of knowledge in a way that reflects the way the candidates would be expected to work once in post. Then if people don't perform adequately you advise your seniors they wont be capable of the job and will be a liability. I find it hard to imagine any serious business is going to knowingly recruit people who you can evidence can't do the job. Why would they put 'diversity' ahead of profit?

Agrumpyknitter · 21/10/2025 19:41

I work in financial services and I have hired interns and graduates in the past 2 years. We hire the best candidates, most are actually white as the population is largely still white. We do make adjustments so that the playing field for applications are level. We have a lot of ‘white male and stale’ in the upper management but a lot more women entering our workplace too. Some professions have barriers of entry like law so I get why they would encourage diversity but financial services is pretty good.

Loulo6098 · 21/10/2025 19:49

Once you go beyond entry level roles, it gets less diverse. So yeah, he has to fight for a chance to get in, but once he's in, he's in and he'll fly high.

Hth.

OhDear111 · 21/10/2025 19:49

@5128gap They won’t be choosing useless people! Just a few may not be the highest calibre - but they might be given time and good training. Hence my observation that promotion might be harder to get for them in the long run. Time will tell in around 10-20 years. So far top board rooms are not very diverse! Of course great employees come in a variety of shapes and sizes so the dividing lines are very fine.

blanketsnuggler · 21/10/2025 19:50

The Graduate job market is hard.
DS is a white male, privately educated (large bursary), Oxbridge graduate.

He said recently that at times he regrets working so hard at school and uni as it hasn't paid off in terms of getting a job. It's very sad.