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To date a 28yo?

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Cougarintown · 20/10/2025 22:40

Last week I went on a night out with some work colleagues. I got a bit tipsy and ended up flirting with one of my colleagues who is 28! We ended up kissing. The next day I just put it down to an embarrassing event and pretended like it never happened.

We were in a meeting together today and later this afternoon he text me and asked if I wanted to go for a drink. I didn't respond and a bit later he messaged me saying he meant like on a date.

I shouldn't should I? He's just so young.

We're both single, I'm not looking for a serious relationship and I suspect he isn't either (he was previously in a very long term relationship with 2 kids).

There's no concern about dating someone I work with, my issue is purely the age gap.

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Cougarintown · 20/10/2025 22:46

Shit, sorry. I'm 42.

It’s not wrong as such but it’s not exactly a green flag, what are you going to have in common with a 27yr old your on completely different pages in life.

FurForksSake · 22/10/2025 18:00

What was the old sickening adage? Half your age plus 7?

I wouldn’t due to working together. But when you’ve left, if you find him attractive and aren’t just flattered or whatever then go for it!

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 22/10/2025 18:01

Ahhhhh fuck it, go on the date. Life's too short and what's the worst that can happen? You have an enjoyable evening, have some fun and a nice time. If neither of you are looking for anything serious then just go and have a nice date.

Don't over think it, go out and have a nice time.

Cougarintown · 24/10/2025 11:25

So I went on the date and had a great time. We've got another one on Sunday.

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PresidentMacron · 24/10/2025 11:37

C'est bon pour moi! 😋

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 24/10/2025 12:59

@Cougarintown good for you!! Glad you had a good time.

ComfortFoodCafe · 24/10/2025 13:01

Your a bit to old for him op!

ChewbaccasMrs · 24/10/2025 13:46

Go for it,as long as it won't cause any problems at work.

My DH is 7 years younger than me and we've been together for nearly 20 years now and we have an amazing relationship.

ChewbaccasMrs · 24/10/2025 13:48

Cougarintown · 24/10/2025 11:25

So I went on the date and had a great time. We've got another one on Sunday.

Yay good for you!

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