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To be somewhat proud of being vaccinated?

155 replies

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:25

With all the anti vax bollocks going about at the moment I’m somewhat proud of myself for actually going and getting vaccinated. I just think it’s mad that people won’t!

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Flipitnreverseit · 17/10/2025 13:08

People who don’t vaccinate their children are absolutely neglectful and there should be some form of public register they are put on when refuses vaccinations. They should also be under child protection, and made to talk to a psychiatrist about why they do not want their children to have them. They need to be made to feel as stupid as they are 🤣

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:09

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:50

It’s not just having the jab though. I’m proud that I’m smart enough to trust science, to be honest

To be honest, you don't sound very smart. The flu vaccine, like all medications, has potential side effects. In order to decide whether it makes sense to take it, you need to consider it's efficacy (this varies year on year), your risk of contracting flu and the potential impact on you and others if you do contract flu.

Automatically getting the flu vaccine because "science" is just as ignorant (in the sense of not understanding) as not getting the flu vaccine because "conspiracy theory of the day".

I got the flu vaccine last year for the first time. I got it because I am now on immuno-suppressants so my risk and the potential impact are both significantly higher than previously. I did not get it before that as I have only had flu twice in my life. Whilst unpleasant, it was pretty short lived and not particularly bad. The potential benefits did not outweigh the risks until last year 🤷‍♀️

BetterOffNow · 17/10/2025 13:10

ToKittyornottoKitty · 17/10/2025 13:08

I’m not in that picture… really don’t understand what you are on about

Oh shit, sorry I thought that was you - my apologies.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:11

KilkennyCats · 17/10/2025 12:56

How so? The vaccine isn’t live, it can’t actually give you flu.

It's a medication. All medications have side effects that affect some people and not others.

AmethystAnnotation · 17/10/2025 13:12

Everyone in my, admittedly small, circle takes up all vaccinations they are eligible for, so for me, getting a vaccination is a routine thing, not any kind of statement.

Tigerbalmshark · 17/10/2025 13:12

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 13:06

My dd got all vac singly and in hospital not at GP after her 2nd baby ones gave her a severe reaction.

Nobody is saying you can’t have reactions to vaccines. People can have reactions to all medications, from paracetamol to antibiotics.

There is nothing to suggest that giving combined vaccines “confuses the immune system” and causes autoimmune disease though (and years of evidence that it is fine).

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 13:13

Tigerbalmshark · 17/10/2025 13:12

Nobody is saying you can’t have reactions to vaccines. People can have reactions to all medications, from paracetamol to antibiotics.

There is nothing to suggest that giving combined vaccines “confuses the immune system” and causes autoimmune disease though (and years of evidence that it is fine).

I never said that. I merely countered the statement of look at childhood vaxs.

Flipflops6571 · 17/10/2025 13:13

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:58

Source,

Is this how you speak to people in real life OP? You're sounding more and more rude with every comment.

I used to work in the NHS and none of my colleagues took up the offer of the flu jab (even when heavily pressured by management). Both flu and covid vaccines are very hit and miss since it isn't known which strain will be doing the rounds each season. Some years the flu vaccine efficacy is diabolical. You may feel rather foolish if you still catch flu and fall off that high horse.

Flu and covid vaccines are nothing like childhood disease vaccines, which I'm sure most people would agree are in everyone's interest to have (although still no need for the smug attitude).

I would also just read back how you speak to people. Honestly, it's in your interest to have more self awareness around how you are with others.

anamo · 17/10/2025 13:15

I just do it, and am glad to be able to. So far had pneumococcal, flu, covid, and next up is Shingrix although I have to pay for that and it's a tad expensive. I saw my brother with shingles, and the pain and discomfort he went through was unreal. I think that's all of them. Unless I've forgotten anything!

MrsSkylerWhite · 17/10/2025 13:16

Holluschickie · 17/10/2025 12:44

That I consider very neglectful of your parents.

So do I. Why on earth would anyone deliberately expose their children to horrible diseases when there are very safe vaccines, some with decades and decades of safety data available to them, free of charge?
Good grief some people in the western world have become so complacent.

Rainydayinlondon · 17/10/2025 13:17

Vaccinations for measles/polio and other serious illnesses no brainers

Flu… yes if you’re elderly or vulnerable but for fit people, a couple of days in bed with a hot water bottle usually does the trick.

maximist · 17/10/2025 13:17

I get anything I’m offered without a second thought. I’ve had my flu jab already for this year, and I had all my covid jabs. I didn’t feel great after one of them, but the rest were all fine.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:18

Checkcheckout · 17/10/2025 13:04

It caused her immune system to attack itself, and she got rheumatoid arthritis, which meant she was in incredible amounts of pain, went from being very busy and active to practically immobile, and just generally felt awful. It took docs a long time to diagnose that, when they finally did and realised what had caused it, they put her on immune suppressants to try and stop her body attacking itself. She was then open to infections, and got a series of nasty UTIs. She had an appointment at the doctors in July where they gave her a blood test and it came back clear, no signs of infection. That night she felt awful and was in a lot of pain and vomiting all night, went back to the doctor the next day who sent her straight to hospital. She had an infection so bad that the hospital said she was bordering upon sepsis and it could have been fatal if she she hadn’t come in when she did. So she’d gone from zero infection - almost sepsis level in less than 24 hours. She then spent the next 5 days on IV antibiotics. She is a bit better now but still a shadow of her former self, much less capable and active, she seems to have aged 10 years in a year. She’s also put on a lot of weight as they’re currently trying to manage her symptoms with steroids.

So yeah, I reckon the flu would have been handier for her.

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That's terrible. A dose of Covid itself rather than the vaccine triggered psoriatic arthritis in me and it's not fun. Auto-immune diseases tend to be triggered by a viral load so virus or vaccine can trigger it.

Is your mother on a biologic? They are more targeted than the traditional meds and so you're less likely to get infections. If she's not on one, I would start looking for one very loudly. I'm lucky that in Ireland I was put straight on a biologic but I know in the UK you have to fail on a certain number of the cheaper meds before they will put you on them.

Tigerbalmshark · 17/10/2025 13:18

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 13:13

I never said that. I merely countered the statement of look at childhood vaxs.

Yes, “look at childhood vaccinations as evidence that having multiple vaccines doesn’t confuse the immune system” Confused

Natureben · 17/10/2025 13:18

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:58

Source,

Source of what?

sellotapeshortage · 17/10/2025 13:18

You’re in the majority though OP (even if it’s quieter)!

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 13:19

Tigerbalmshark · 17/10/2025 13:18

Yes, “look at childhood vaccinations as evidence that having multiple vaccines doesn’t confuse the immune system” Confused

i never said that. I just said that my dad had hers all singly and in hospital after her 2nd baby one. That was phone 999 by ooo and ambulance straight to hospital. I’d much rather it hadn’t have happened.

Irenesortof · 17/10/2025 13:20

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:25

With all the anti vax bollocks going about at the moment I’m somewhat proud of myself for actually going and getting vaccinated. I just think it’s mad that people won’t!

In the press? Which press do you mean? I only know conspiracy theorists who bang on against vaccines in general.

AgDulAmach · 17/10/2025 13:21

Shmee1988 · 17/10/2025 13:08

Can you elaborate on what 'lying' went around about the covid jab?

Certainly.

Stating that the Covid jab was 'safe and effective' when due to a sheer lack of time, it wasn't possible for them to state that with any confidence. It would have been honest to say 'given the needs of the pandemic and limited time we are as confident as we can be (ie not very confident) that this vaccination is safe and effective.'

Not being open and transparent about the fact that, yes, covid could kill you, but the jab could also kill you and not publicising the fact that it did kill people. By 2023, the EU had linked 11, 448 deaths to covid vaccines.

I am all in favour of vaccinations - they are an amazing, simple and effective intervention. But covid vaccinations were mishandled horribly and now people have lost faith. Being honest would have been far better, but the powers that be believed they had to lie to ensure everyone was compliant. It's such a stupid, destructive approach that has led to the drop in other vaccination rates, because people can't see that the lying and dishonesty in covid vaccines doesn't apply to vaccines like the MMR.

Parliamentary question | Number of deaths following COVID vaccines that have been investigated and confirmed by the European Medicines Agency | E-001200/2023 | European Parliament

Question for written answer E-001200/2023 to the Commission Rule 138 Virginie Joron (ID)

https://www.europarl.europa.eu/doceo/document/E-9-2023-001200_EN.html

PinkiOcelot · 17/10/2025 13:21

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:50

It’s not just having the jab though. I’m proud that I’m smart enough to trust science, to be honest

🤣🤣🙄🙄

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 13:26

Natureben · 17/10/2025 13:18

Source of what?

That getting vaccines in a short space of time confuses your immune system?

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Tablesandchairs23 · 17/10/2025 13:29

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 12:38

It’s £15 for a private one. It keeps everyone safe and to be honest unless there’s a bona fide medical condition that means you can’t get it, i do judge people who don’t get vaccines.

Smug and judgemental. You sound like a right peach. Be careful on your soapbox.

Checkcheckout · 17/10/2025 13:33

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:18

That's terrible. A dose of Covid itself rather than the vaccine triggered psoriatic arthritis in me and it's not fun. Auto-immune diseases tend to be triggered by a viral load so virus or vaccine can trigger it.

Is your mother on a biologic? They are more targeted than the traditional meds and so you're less likely to get infections. If she's not on one, I would start looking for one very loudly. I'm lucky that in Ireland I was put straight on a biologic but I know in the UK you have to fail on a certain number of the cheaper meds before they will put you on them.

Sorry to hear you’ve been suffering. I don’t believe she is on a biologic, I’ll suggest that to her. She’s Irish too but lives in UK.

SpudsAndCarrots · 17/10/2025 13:40

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 17/10/2025 12:28

Sorry, people are horrified at you getting a flu jab? Why?

I had that reaction from a female colleague last year. Mentioned my arm was a bit sore from it and she acted horrified and truly concerned and went into a long monologue of how dangerous vaccinations are, how I needed to drink lots of water to flush the toxins out and that it takes years for the body to heal from damage vaccines do and that they're the cause of cancer when people don't manage to clear the toxins.

Shocked me as she otherwise seemed quite level headed until that point!

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:42

Checkcheckout · 17/10/2025 13:33

Sorry to hear you’ve been suffering. I don’t believe she is on a biologic, I’ll suggest that to her. She’s Irish too but lives in UK.

Thanks.

If at all possible I would suggest you go with her to the rheumotologist and advocate for her. I'm not doubting she's capable but they tend to take you more seriously if you have someone else advocating too.

There is an auto-immune board here under health. I would suggest asking on there how best to advocate as I'm not familiar with the UK system other than what I have read.

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