Dad up the school constantly stops me to ask me a question

[Blessedone1111]

A dad up the school keeps stopping me at the school. I was in my car checking work emails, he walked from the school to across the road where my car was to ask if I was ok and find out where I was from. Everyday it’s a new question, like what race is my child’s dad ect (my child dad has never been to the school).

I don’t mind saying hi to parents but I just find it weird that he is finding me at my car and ask me to wind my window down. Am I being unreasonable for getting annoyed with this ?

If he approaches you and speaks to you again - no matter what he says -ask him what sort of a survey he is conducting and for whom and he will probably be confused by that - before he can reply tell him you never respond to surveys and then drive off.

I think he fancies you and asking about your child’s dad to get onto the subject and find out if you’re still together. Maybe he’s got a little crush and is infatuated and wants to know everything about you? Or maybe he’s just a weirdo with no boundaries or self awareness? Does he talk to lots of different people or is he seemingly just making a beeline over to you?

Avoid!

Have had similar at DS school. Turned out to be a swinger.

If you’re honest, how many times has he actually approached you and asked you a question.

If you are honest I said!!

How did you find out??!

I'd keep my car doors locked and windows up and just completely blank him any time he approached me.

Did you answer the question about the race of your child's dad? 😮

Fancies you I think.

He took mine and DH numbers from WhatsApp groups our children are in.

He started texting us both. All friendly and innocent at first.

Then moved on to sending inappropriate videos to us, then making inappropriate comments to DH 'I bet your Mrs is good in bed' etc.

Followed quickly by sending DH very inappropriate screenshots of his wife's only fans account.

Ok I don't know for certain that they are swingers but have to say I believe the rumours that they are!

I am a man (sorry ) but be wary of strange men wanting to talk !!!!