DP earns a decent income but doesn’t really have any savings. To be fair, he’s had a few unexpected expenses lately, so saving has been difficult for him. I’m not too worried about how he spends his money as we don’t live together or share finances yet. He’s asked to borrow money a couple of times recently, not a huge amount, £20 or so. The last time was on Monday when he asked if he could borrow £30 until payday on Friday. I didn’t mind because he always pays me back quickly. But he annoyed me tonight.
He bought something for his house (I won’t say what) but it was the wrong item, so now he has to order a different one. It’s too late to return it. I suggested he try and sell it on Facebook Marketplace or somewhere to try and get some of his money back. His reply was “what’s the point it was only £20”. I said he could sell it for a tenner and he came back with “a tenner is nothing”. So I replied, "well, it is when you've got no money” … now he's not talking to me. Was I wrong / horrible?