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Baby gender reveal party

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Happy9 · 13/10/2025 20:53

OK new to these party things when it comes to baby's in 2025,i have been invited to a friend's gender reveal party am I expected to buy presents like a baby shower how does it work? Absolutely not bothered by buying stuff but don't want to look a idiot if I do advice needed thanks!

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IvedoneitagainhaventI · 13/10/2025 20:59

Oh my goodness will the madness ever end?

Go along if you must but why buy presents for heavens sake?
Do people just organise these things just to milk people of gifts? That's what it seems like.
Just go along and ooh and aah when they reveal the gender but don't feel obliged to give gifts for heaven's sake. Don't encourage this nonsense

FanofLeaves · 13/10/2025 21:05

Well it’ll be a girl or a boy but you have to look surprised and amazed at the reveal even though it’s one of two options 🤣

idiotic I can’t bear the idea it’s attention seeking at its highest level. For a good friend I’d go but get away would I buy a present (I’d probably take a bottle of wine. For me.) I save presents for when the baby is born.

Butterflysunshine01 · 13/10/2025 21:06

id treat it like a baby shower , unless they’ve got a separate party coming up? Take a little gift of muslins or a unisex babygrow , teething toy etc. x

DappledThings · 13/10/2025 21:11

I wouldn't attend such nonsense at all but if I did I certainly wouldn't be taking a present. Presents are for after the birth.

CheezePleeze · 13/10/2025 21:12

I'd just take a dessert or something for everyone.

You can almost guarantee the 'gender' reveal party will be followed by a baby shower, a Christening and a 1st birthday party, as is so often the case with grabby people.

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