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Men violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking, is what the Taliban do. Why is it happening in the UK?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/10/2025 12:27

The FiLiA Women's Liberation Conference was targeted overnight, the attackers even live tweeted the violence.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

Local politicians are so far silent.

This is literally terrorism, using fear and violence to shut down legitimate peaceful discussions.

Video of the incident: https://x.com/TransBashBack/status/1976555969439223934

Live: Venue vandalised and protesters demonstrate at feminist conference

The Brighton Centre has been vandalised as a feminist conference begins there today.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25532194.live-brighton-centre-vandalised-feminist-conference-begins/

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MollyButton · 12/10/2025 07:44

Kimura · 12/10/2025 07:35

Well yes. That is the only reason. It is because they don’t want women talking.

Except that it isn't the reason, is it? Or else they'd be doing this at every event women were talking about, all over the country, all the time.

Why are you pretending not to know the very obvious and specific reason this particular group have targeted this particular conference?

They are as bad as the taliban.

Comparing a bit of vandalism where nobody got hurt and a legal protest (neither of which affected the conference in any way) to the things the Taliban have done is disgusting, disrespectful and phenomenally ignorant.

But a lot of women’s events all over the country are protested. Often only releasing their venue a few hours before the event.
Others such as WI or Girl Guides allow/have allowed men/boys in frocks in.

Women at Filia are more concerned that they had been asking for more security measures for 18 months. And the outer higher barrier only went up after the 1st morning.
I can’t think of many events that have 3 layers of security: Police, venue security and then the mainly Lesbian security team.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:47

How is that relevant to the OP? The Taliban think they’re right too. It’s simply an analogy as an explanation of what’s going on. This is just the latest in a long line of incidents, some of which involved women being physically hurt by unhinged male activists.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:50

It’s true that male trans rights activists are “violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking”. They haven’t succeeded on this occasion thankfully but they absolutely have on others.

Namelessnelly · 12/10/2025 07:52

Kimura · 12/10/2025 07:40

I didn't say they were both fighting for the same thing, I said they both feel they're fighting for the right thing.

People who genuinely believe they're doing the right thing and that they're going to be on the right side of history, have historically been willing to take extreme and often unpopular action when they feel they're not being listened to. That doesn't make them right.

But in that case, women would be doing the same wouldnt they? But they’re not. Why is that do you think? Why are women not committing acts of violence, marching through the streets with offensive placards. Why are women not throwing soup?

Kimura · 12/10/2025 07:53

Namelessnelly · 12/10/2025 07:40

But they do. Every LWS event has been disrupted. Women holding meetings have had the venues threatened. Trans activists have protested many many women’s gatherings. surely you’d know about this? Women have had tomato soup thrown at them. Women have been punched. Why are you trying to defend and minimise the actions of a group modelling itself on the taliban and fascists? A tribunal had to move locations as the judge and counsel were threatened by trans activists. This is not a one off abd there is no justification. None. They are evil fascist bullies

I haven't defended or minimized anything. I have repeatedly said that just because these activists think something is justified, doesn't make them right.

If a group, or a society, takes a stance on something that deeply upsets/affects another group of people within it, they can expect that group to push back.

You might feel that there's no justification for it, they obviously disagree, which is why they do what they do.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:54

What’s the point of saying this over and over again. We know they think they’re right. They are not. They are abusive, misogynistic bullies.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:55

And yes you have repeatedly minimised it, stop being disingenuous please.

FOJN · 12/10/2025 07:56

FirstCuppa · 10/10/2025 12:40

I'd also like to reiterate that this is not a left wing thing - you cannot get further right wing than a group who want to take rights away from 51% of society.

We need to stop enabling their division of the left.

Shame left wing politicians enable them rather than condemn them. All the parties still endorsing this nonsense are on the left, the Communist Party being the exception.

I wish it wasn't so but I refuse to be gaslit or take part in the gaslighting of others.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:58

FOJN · 12/10/2025 07:56

Shame left wing politicians enable them rather than condemn them. All the parties still endorsing this nonsense are on the left, the Communist Party being the exception.

I wish it wasn't so but I refuse to be gaslit or take part in the gaslighting of others.

I agree. The fact that much of the left has turned on women and LGB people in this way doesn’t mean that they are “right wing” now. Not all the bad stuff is on the right.

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:03

Namelessnelly · 12/10/2025 07:52

But in that case, women would be doing the same wouldnt they? But they’re not. Why is that do you think? Why are women not committing acts of violence, marching through the streets with offensive placards. Why are women not throwing soup?

It's not usually the massive majority that has to resort to protesting/direct action to get their voices heard.

Women have of course done so throughout history when fighting for their rights/beliefs.

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:10

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:55

And yes you have repeatedly minimised it, stop being disingenuous please.

No, I haven't. Saying that smashing windows isn't comparable with the atrocities of the Taliban is not minimizing.

Nobody was hurt, this is a fact. The conference went ahead exactly as planned, this is a fact. Nobody was prevented from speaking, this is a fact. You're free to pretend that's comparable to the Taliban's playbook if you like, but I'm not going along with it.

TheKeatingFive · 12/10/2025 08:17

Kimura · 12/10/2025 07:53

I haven't defended or minimized anything. I have repeatedly said that just because these activists think something is justified, doesn't make them right.

If a group, or a society, takes a stance on something that deeply upsets/affects another group of people within it, they can expect that group to push back.

You might feel that there's no justification for it, they obviously disagree, which is why they do what they do.

So what do you think the TRAs find so 'upsetting' about women standing up for their rights to their own spaces, as per the law?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:18

Good for you. You’re as entitled to your view as anyone else. But you have absolutely minimised what’s happened to women due to this absurd ideology.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:21

These men (by which I mean the group of men who are militant trans rights activists, not just the men in Brighton) are “violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking” which is the comparison being made here. Pp has repeatedly minimised this.

ArabellaSaurus · 12/10/2025 08:23

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 07:50

It’s true that male trans rights activists are “violently preventing women from congregating, communicating and networking”. They haven’t succeeded on this occasion thankfully but they absolutely have on others.

Its quite hard to quantify how many women have NOT gone to meetings because of fear of transactivists, because of their aggressive, intimidatory and harassing tactics, but I'd wager that number is fairly high.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:24

ArabellaSaurus · 12/10/2025 08:23

Its quite hard to quantify how many women have NOT gone to meetings because of fear of transactivists, because of their aggressive, intimidatory and harassing tactics, but I'd wager that number is fairly high.

Indeed.

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 08:25

LooseCanyon · 10/10/2025 12:43

At least this time the men in dresses have been so violent against property that even the Brighton police are going to have to pay attention.

They’ll tell themselves the men are sad, vulnerable outliers who have been led to this through longtime oppression 🥱

CohensDiamondTeeth · 12/10/2025 08:30

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:03

It's not usually the massive majority that has to resort to protesting/direct action to get their voices heard.

Women have of course done so throughout history when fighting for their rights/beliefs.

Men are not a minority. These are men.

There is no comparison with what these violent trans activist men have been doing for the last 20 years with what women have had to go through over the last 100 years.

There is the right to peaceful protest, then there is the violent actions of trans activist men.

This behaviour is an escalation in the continuing harassment of women.

It's not even really protest to my mind, it's just misogyny, now with criminal property damage.

It's really sad that a number of us expect the police to finally do something about broken glass when they have repeatedly failed to act on behalf of the actual women who have been targeted and in a few cases physically assaulted by these men. To be completely honest I'm not holding out much hope for any arrests even with these men doing yet more property damage. The police seem totally captured still.

tripleginandtonic · 12/10/2025 08:30

Yanbu

eatfigs · 12/10/2025 08:34

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:03

It's not usually the massive majority that has to resort to protesting/direct action to get their voices heard.

Women have of course done so throughout history when fighting for their rights/beliefs.

How far would FWS have got in their aims if they'd decided to vandalise MPs' offices and brick the windows of trans conferences instead of making their case politically and legally?

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:43

CohensDiamondTeeth · 12/10/2025 08:30

Men are not a minority. These are men.

There is no comparison with what these violent trans activist men have been doing for the last 20 years with what women have had to go through over the last 100 years.

There is the right to peaceful protest, then there is the violent actions of trans activist men.

This behaviour is an escalation in the continuing harassment of women.

It's not even really protest to my mind, it's just misogyny, now with criminal property damage.

It's really sad that a number of us expect the police to finally do something about broken glass when they have repeatedly failed to act on behalf of the actual women who have been targeted and in a few cases physically assaulted by these men. To be completely honest I'm not holding out much hope for any arrests even with these men doing yet more property damage. The police seem totally captured still.

in a few cases physically assaulted by these men

Can to link me to any details of this? I'm not saying I don't believe you, I just find it unlikely that police would have ignored a direct assault.

To be completely honest I'm not holding out much hope for any arrests even with these men doing yet more property damage.

If they can identify them they'll arrest them. It'll likely come down to CCTV though, or a fall-out in the group and someone grassing them in. If people feel strongly about it they should write to their local MP, who may be able to put pressure on the police if there's enough support.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:46

Thread about the militant TRA group responsible https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5425523-welcome-to-a-new-era-of-trans-rage?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:57

Men are not a minority. These are men.

I agree that they're men. But it's not 'men' that are fighting for trans rights is it? It's a tiny, tiny subsection of men who are trans. They have less public support, less resources and they started on the back foot. They are absolutely the minority in this scenario.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 09:01

They have plenty of resources and support. Gender critical feminists are the underdog here.

TheKeatingFive · 12/10/2025 09:03

Kimura · 12/10/2025 08:57

Men are not a minority. These are men.

I agree that they're men. But it's not 'men' that are fighting for trans rights is it? It's a tiny, tiny subsection of men who are trans. They have less public support, less resources and they started on the back foot. They are absolutely the minority in this scenario.

What 'rights' are these men fighting for?

And are you going answer my earlier question about what makes them so 'upset' about women upholding their legal rights to single sex spaces?