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Do you believe in God/a higher power?

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CuriousAboutWhatYouThink · 08/10/2025 07:09

Not religion. I have no time for organised religion and the associated man made rules.

But do you believe in 'something'?

For context, my grandad was a CofE vicar but my parent rebelled against it and we were brought up broadly l in the religion (eg we celebrated main religious festivals like Easter and Christmas) but not as practising Christians and without a particular belief in God.

As an adult, I have friends of different faiths and none and it's something we have discussed from time to time. It's also something I used to discuss with my grandma who had a very strong belief in God but also believed the Bible until she became older when she still had a strong faith but admitted she thought the Bible was largely nonsense!

I suppose I've always felt that there is 'something' but I refer to it as the universe. I don't know, I always feel that there has been 'something' looking out for me.

That doesn't mean bad things have never happened because they have and religion/belief doesn't protect anyone from that. And it doesn't mean my life is anywhere near perfect because it's not. But the universe has always seemed to 'step in' when needed.

I don't know. I'm going through a tough time at the moment but I have a feeling everything will turn out to be OK because it always does.

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ErrolTheDragon · 08/10/2025 09:51

NiftyBlueRobin · 08/10/2025 09:47

Yes, I do. But I don't care if other people don't as it's a personal thing for me as opposed to an organised thing. I also don't care if others think my beliefs are silly.

I did go through a phase of believing the 'religion is the root of all evil' theory, but given secular and atheist people also do awful things and commit abhorrent crimes against others, I've come to the conclusion that human beings seek to create power structures and there will always be people who seek to use those power structures to exert control over and abuse others. Religion is one such power structure but there are many more. See young secular people idolising their ideologies as gospel, see men enjoying going to strip clubs because of the power it gives them over women, see people abusing children for that same desire for power, etc. Seeking to abuse power structures just seems to be a reality of the human condition.

‘Religion is the root of all evil’ is a bit daft really, unless you actually believe in gods and devils. If you don’t, then religions are obviously man-made ideologies/control structures, and men are capable of inventing non-religious dogmas and control structures too. Typically they seem to ‘work better’ for longer if they’ve got supernatural components though.

Thingyfanding1 · 08/10/2025 09:52

Swiftie1878 · 08/10/2025 08:03

That’s as crazy as the God theory to me.

Could you elaborate?

RedPony1 · 08/10/2025 09:53

No.

I think "higher powers" are a man made concept to control the masses in the guise of comfort and safety.

CurlewKate · 08/10/2025 09:54

ErrolTheDragon · 08/10/2025 09:51

‘Religion is the root of all evil’ is a bit daft really, unless you actually believe in gods and devils. If you don’t, then religions are obviously man-made ideologies/control structures, and men are capable of inventing non-religious dogmas and control structures too. Typically they seem to ‘work better’ for longer if they’ve got supernatural components though.

It’s not that religion is the root of all evil. It’s that a belief in a “higher power” can make people feel justified in doing evil things. If I do something evil, I’ve got nobody to hang it on but myself.

ErrolTheDragon · 08/10/2025 10:06

CurlewKate · 08/10/2025 09:54

It’s not that religion is the root of all evil. It’s that a belief in a “higher power” can make people feel justified in doing evil things. If I do something evil, I’ve got nobody to hang it on but myself.

yes - the obvious extreme is suicide bombers.
There’s a well known quote “With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.”

There may be some truth in that, though I think it’s a bit simplistic - non-religious ‘belief systems’ can also cause ‘good people’ to do harmful things. There’s some obvious examples but I don’t want to derail the thread.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 08/10/2025 10:12

I've got absolutely no time for religion, and I don't believe in an intelligent higher power.

But I do struggle with how the universe exists, without anything there to create it. That at some point there must have been nothing, and then there was something. I find that absolutely impossible to comprehend, without there being something above us, creating our universe, whether our universe is a simulation or real or whatever. But then, what created their universe, and the the universe above that etc etc, so a higher power creating our universe doesn't solve the issue either.

mugglewump · 08/10/2025 10:12

I would like to think there is a reason for us all being here, but I am far too skeptical to follow the beliefs of any religion. It's all just too implausable.

thecatneuterer · 08/10/2025 10:14

No

TheSwarm · 08/10/2025 10:14

Not in the slightest.

Honestly, I don't really understand how anyone can. It's so obviously all nonsense.

NiftyBlueRobin · 08/10/2025 10:20

ErrolTheDragon · 08/10/2025 10:06

yes - the obvious extreme is suicide bombers.
There’s a well known quote “With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.”

There may be some truth in that, though I think it’s a bit simplistic - non-religious ‘belief systems’ can also cause ‘good people’ to do harmful things. There’s some obvious examples but I don’t want to derail the thread.

It's definitely too simplistic for me. secular ideological zealots how done awful things to women's right in this country, in the name off good. Another example for me is that it's known that people's voting decisions often change when their tax bracket changes. Which again brings me back to my belief that it's all just human beings created power structures and then abusing them, whether intentionally or not.

I think religion could disappear from Earth tomorrow and nothing would change. A new power structure would quickly come to take it's place, like ideology has in the UK, because that's what human beings do. Again though, I take no issue with anyone else completely disagreeing with me on this, I'm enjoying hearing everyone's views

thecatneuterer · 08/10/2025 10:29

TheSwarm · 08/10/2025 10:14

Not in the slightest.

Honestly, I don't really understand how anyone can. It's so obviously all nonsense.

Exactly that. I could never be in a meaningful, long-term relationship with anyone who does either as I just couldn't respect their views and I would consequently lose respect for them.

RealPerson · 08/10/2025 10:33

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 08/10/2025 10:12

I've got absolutely no time for religion, and I don't believe in an intelligent higher power.

But I do struggle with how the universe exists, without anything there to create it. That at some point there must have been nothing, and then there was something. I find that absolutely impossible to comprehend, without there being something above us, creating our universe, whether our universe is a simulation or real or whatever. But then, what created their universe, and the the universe above that etc etc, so a higher power creating our universe doesn't solve the issue either.

The only thing that makes sense is that there was no time then and there so something just did exist eternally and then suddenly- bang!

RealPerson · 08/10/2025 10:36

I think thinking that way, that we are the remnants of an explosion, makes it easier for anything to be possible, including god, or intelligent design

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 10:40

To those of you who do believe in a god, what evidence have you got to support your belief?

I’m genuinely open minded and curious but I cannot see ANY evidence of the existence of any god like creature. Why would he/she not make themselves known to us??

Chickoletta · 08/10/2025 10:40

Yes I believe in God and an afterlife. I challenge my own beliefs regularly though and can understand why other people might not.

Shoxfordian · 08/10/2025 10:40

@samplesalequeen I find it arrogant to think that this massive unknowable universe would care about one human being, yes. Our own lives whilst important to us, don't usually have impact beyond a handful of other people unless we're changing the world or curing cancer or killing people- we're not impactful or important so why would any grand plan care about us?

FlyingUnicornWings · 08/10/2025 10:41

ErrolTheDragon · 08/10/2025 09:46

There’s no such thing as ‘human energy’ though. Our brain in which our conciousness exists is made of the same atoms as everything else (originally stardust, of course), the energy is no different to any other chemical or electrical energy. An electron is an electron. They’re still there after we die but the processes shut down and the molecular machinery decomposes.

Where does it say “decompose” to though? Genuine question, not a conflict. I’m interested in it and I still am not resolute in my belief.

Does it decompose into the earth and become mulch? Plant food? Earth? I think that’s what I think I believe and what I mean by “human energy” being the atoms that make us “us”. They decompose after death and return to the earth to become something else. We exist as us and when we die we decompose into something else, that will then transform into something else in a never ending cycle.

Like you say, stardust. Not sure if I’m articulating myself properly. My brain atoms are currently embroiled in a code red migraine situation 😆

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 08/10/2025 10:42

Camelcarpet · 08/10/2025 07:11

Yes. You should do an alpha course. Ask questions. 👍

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Send in the cults……….

Dearmalt · 08/10/2025 10:42

CandleMug · 08/10/2025 08:59

No and it blows my mind that in 2025 so many people still believe in heaven and god. Totally understandable 200 years ago but knowing what we know now of how the world works and the scientific advances, I do find it scary how people continue to follow the religion they’ve been brought to with.

It seems to me it’s generally very decisive and causes more problems than not. The wars currently going on due to different faiths and beliefs and previous wars such as Northern Ireland. It’s across different regions in different countries, but the common denominator is different religious views and an inability to live in peace and then all of the killings of innocent people because they hold different religious views. It’s horrific.

You could make up any scenario that’s unlikely to happen, such as flying unicorns that live in the clouds, garden gnome holding parliamentary talks in garden
and any other unlikely scenario that my brain can’t make up at 8.50am but you get my gist. It’s like me arguing that my scenarios are right unless you can prove them to be wrong… 🙄 The argument is so tedious. Everyone is free to chose their beliefs and opinions but where the line is crossed is where their religious beliefs encroach in political situations and laws. Religion has no place in either of those two areas.

You just have to watch a David Attenborough documentary about evolution to see that the concept of a god is impossible as he gives examples of evolution.
I mean the Dinosaurs, millions of years ago would go against what religion says but we can physically see the bones… So I find it fascinating and scary in equal measures.

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Just want to point out that the war in Northern Ireland wasn’t about religion. Yes, religion was a ‘marker’ for the different sides and there were sectarian attacks, but it wasn’t about different faiths or religious beliefs. They weren’t arguing about the doctrine of transubstantiation! It started as a Civil Rights movement and became violent.

muggart · 08/10/2025 10:42

Hm no I don’t think so, but I sort of believe there might be life after death because that seems to be something that every culture throughout history has intuitively known to be true and generally speaking I find the deep rooted instinct that humans are born with tend to be correct.

Lemonadepie · 08/10/2025 10:43

Chickoletta · 08/10/2025 10:40

Yes I believe in God and an afterlife. I challenge my own beliefs regularly though and can understand why other people might not.

An afterlife? Another life?

Where? As yourself? At what age? With your same family and friends (and enemies, exes)??? With your pets? How long would that life be????

BleuBella · 08/10/2025 10:48

I often wonder if people attend church in later life for company , to be a part of a community or maybe to subconsciously get on the right side of God because they fear death and what comes after it ? Maybe a fear of going to hell ?

GAJLY · 08/10/2025 10:51

I am not religious and believe in God and Jesus because I had a couple of experiences. I pray to them daily as I feel a strong connection to them now.

thecatneuterer · 08/10/2025 10:53

Shoxfordian · 08/10/2025 10:40

@samplesalequeen I find it arrogant to think that this massive unknowable universe would care about one human being, yes. Our own lives whilst important to us, don't usually have impact beyond a handful of other people unless we're changing the world or curing cancer or killing people- we're not impactful or important so why would any grand plan care about us?

Well that's exactly it. That's why I find it hard to respect people's intellect when they say things like 'It was obviously what was meant to happen ' or anything else suggesting something is part of some grand celestial plan, when they are talking about something such as the coin in the supermarket trolley got stuck, which meant they needed to get help from a staff member and in so doing they walked somewhere where there was a £20 note blowing on the ground.... or whatever. To think some almighty power would get that involved in the minutiae of the lives of individuals, and also take such a circuitous route to achieving whatever pointless plan they have for each one, is nothing short of ridiculous.

LeopardsANeutral · 08/10/2025 10:56

I have absolutely no belief at all in any religion, higher power, life after death, ghosts, etc etc, I actively think it's all really silly and quite obviously (to me) not real. I think Jesus may have possibly been a real man, but more like a cult leader or magician type, who was written about in a book and people have taken it too literally. I DO believe aliens are real though. Maybe not little green men in spaceships like you see in movies, but there is 100% another planet somewhere out there with life on it. We cannot be the only ones ever.

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