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To want Brits to spell 'mum' the British way?

274 replies

Kudosss · 07/10/2025 22:11

This really. Why are people spelling it Mom now-a-days? This isn't America.

OP posts:
Funnywonder · 07/10/2025 22:36

Serpentstooth · 07/10/2025 22:24

I was surprised yet touched when I heard my 50 year old, tough Rugby playing BIL call his Irish father 'Daddy'. Sounded incongruous to my English ears. These things are regional. Let them be.

Yeah it’s common in NI too. DP and his siblings all call their parents mummy and daddy. Mine were mum and dad. All of us from Belfast. When my mum was still around, sometimes I’d get a call from one of the carers saying she was just ringing about ‘yer wee mummy’🤣 I thought it was sweet and affectionate sounding.

BitOutOfPractice · 07/10/2025 22:37

Curiousrobin · 07/10/2025 22:30

I don't know anyone who spells it Mom

Oh well in that case it can’t be a thing can it? 🙄

Lonelycrab · 07/10/2025 22:37

No one I know uses mom

And what is now-a-days?!? Is it from America lol?

its nowadays.

Funnywonder · 07/10/2025 22:38

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 07/10/2025 22:35

A FREAKING goat?! Isn't that a bit.......... like, AMERICAN?! Grin

Yeah, it’s frigging round these parts😆

Wynter25 · 07/10/2025 22:38

Its mam

steff13 · 07/10/2025 22:39

Language evolves.

AspiringChatBot · 07/10/2025 22:40

I always thought British people said Mummy and Pa, like Prince Harry.

gamerchick · 07/10/2025 22:40

It's mam, not mum OP. You try getting it right. Grin

marilyntaylor · 07/10/2025 22:41

I agree with people saying that in the north we say pants when we mean trousers. I’m 64 and Lancashire born and bred and it’s always been this way. We’re certainly not copying Americans. If referring to underwear I’d say knickers, underpants, boxers or undies.

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:41

A lot of modern children seem to call their Dads "Papa" !

StrongLikeMamma · 07/10/2025 22:41

soupyspoon · 07/10/2025 22:14

And its macaroni cheese

As opposed to what?!

Wadadli · 07/10/2025 22:42

Cousins, Leicester = Mam
SIL, Redditch = Mom
My siblings, me and every kid I knew from London and the South East = Mum

Regional, none are wrong. HTH, OP 😉

Bumdrops · 07/10/2025 22:42

Brummies / Dudley’s say Mom !!

OonaStubbs · 07/10/2025 22:42

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:41

A lot of modern children seem to call their Dads "Papa" !

I haven't heard this.

Do they say it like "Pappa" or like PaPaa?

Elbowpatch · 07/10/2025 22:42

RedLeggedPartridge · 07/10/2025 22:19

Majority do. West Midlands don’t and never have since I moved there 30 years ago.

What I dislike is the use of the word staycation to describe a UK based holiday (when the correct word should be ‘holiday’). A staycation is when you stay at home and go on day trips. A holiday in the UK is perfectly normal - you don’t have to go abroad for it to be called a holiday.

I don’t think you can blame the incorrect use of staycation on Americans. They use it properly. The vast majority of Americans vacation within the US.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 07/10/2025 22:43

I'm from the West Midlands (not Birmingham). It was spelled Mum but pronounced Mom. I only recently realised that I was pronouncing it that way though!

Wadadli · 07/10/2025 22:43

gamerchick · 07/10/2025 22:40

It's mam, not mum OP. You try getting it right. Grin

😉 my cousin Geraldine would agree with you!

Wadadli · 07/10/2025 22:44

StrongLikeMamma · 07/10/2025 22:41

As opposed to what?!

Mac’n’ cheese 😱

Yourmumhastwocats · 07/10/2025 22:44

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:36

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WorthySloth · 07/10/2025 22:44

BitOutOfPractice · 07/10/2025 22:25

Not just Birmingham, the whole West Midlands.

signed
Proud Black Country mom.

Thank you! Saved me saying it. Yam yam and proud here.

btw my mom is 96. She had a mom too who was born about 135 years ago. It’s absolutely not a modern import.

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:45

OonaStubbs · 07/10/2025 22:42

I haven't heard this.

Do they say it like "Pappa" or like PaPaa?

It's "Pappa".
It just seems quite a lot in my part of South London.
Possibly evolved from hearing children say it who are of East European descent or South American maybe?
I hear it now from a lot of the "white hipster" families 😂

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:46

Yourmumhastwocats · 07/10/2025 22:44

Thank You 😂

user1471462634 · 07/10/2025 22:48

Now I must admit, I thought posters that wrote mom were American, I had no idea it was a Birmingham/Midlands thing. Learned something new.

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:49

user1471462634 · 07/10/2025 22:48

Now I must admit, I thought posters that wrote mom were American, I had no idea it was a Birmingham/Midlands thing. Learned something new.

Mom is also used in parts of Canada and South Africa.

OwlBeThere · 07/10/2025 22:50

Needmorelego · 07/10/2025 22:41

A lot of modern children seem to call their Dads "Papa" !

My oldest daughter calls me Mami, and her dad is Papa.
My 2 middle boys (both autistic) mostly call us Father and Mother which cracks me up, I feel like I’m in Downton abbey or something 😂
my middle girl calls me Moth and her father Papa.
My youngest calls me Mam and her father by his first name.

I don’t really care what you call me except Mum/mummy, I just can’t do that. It doesn’t feel right.