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Carveries are the work of the devil

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Soontobe60 · 07/10/2025 21:20

DH and I decided to go to a Carvery after looking after the grandchildren,Daren earlier this evening. It’s on the way home and meant we wouldn’t get stuck in commuter traffic. I’ve not been to one for years!
The one we chose, a Toby carvery, is just next to the motorway slip road. There were about 4 cars on the car park and a couple of tables were occupied; mainly it was empty. We stood waiting for 5 minutes until someone came to see to us, asked us if we had a booking and said that as we hadn’t they couldn’t serve us as they only had enough food for the reservations they already had. It was 5.15 on a Tuesday evening!
When we walked out and sat in the car laughing, we realised we reeked of cooking fat and boiled cabbage 😳. Looking at the building we saw it was basically falling down - I think we had a lucky escape.
there was another Carvery a few 100 yards further on so we went there. No problem getting a table, no horrible smells, all looked nice and well kept. Clean toilets (very important!!). DH ordered a bean burger and chips - he’s veggie and wont touch a carvery - and I went to get my food. It wasn’t great, but wasn’t inedible - soggy veg, mushy roasts and gloopy mash, but tasty meat and gravy.
DHs on the other hand was very much inedible. A stale bun that shattered as he cut through it, a bean burger that seemed to have been stored unwrapped in the freezer for weeks so was rock hard, uncut table and certainly inedible. It was the colour of uncooked pastry! (maybe they had used butter beans). Chips were very undercooked and soggy.
I took the plate back and the staff were very apologetic, refunding the meal instantly. He ended up having cheese on toast for tea. I’m gutted - I was so looking forward to a tasty mid week meal!

OP posts:
Brightbluesomething · 07/10/2025 21:35

Post reviews on Tripadvisor?

CandyRuby · 07/10/2025 21:36

Erm I think you will find Toby carvery is doing £6 carvery this week so it would be fully booked, you can’t get a table at my local this week for that reason.

ComtesseDeSpair · 07/10/2025 21:36

I’d look around for a well-reviewed gastropub which does carvery and decent veggie options. Toby Carvery markets itself as food being cheap and plentiful, rather than high quality and in lovely surroundings. There’s one I drive past occasionally which advertises carvery at £7.49 weeknights, and ultimately if you’re paying not much more than the cost of a Tesco meal deal for unlimited hot food, the place is probably going to be a bit run down and they’ll be minimising waste wherever they can by catering for as many bookings as they have. The second place probably much the same, the food will suffer if they’re trying to make it plentiful in carvery style but cheap. Price, variety, quality: pick two

PurpleSky300 · 07/10/2025 21:37

I absolutely love a good carvery! Especially one with Northern gravy i.e so thick the spoon practically stands up.

BlueberryLatte · 07/10/2025 21:40

I have never been to one in my life. They sound pretty gross, but are you honestly surprised? Aren't they like an all you can eat roast dinner type thing? It's probably made a bit like bad cafeteria food

cordeliabuffy · 07/10/2025 21:44

I go to a Stonehouse one and it’s lovely. It’s not the best meal I’ve ever had but for £6, I can’t fault it
plus I get to eat as many Yorkshires as I want!
loads of different veg too

TheDenimPoet · 07/10/2025 22:00

You made all that effort to choose a carvery, and then a different carvery, and your DP 'won't touch a carvery'?

What?

Northquit · 07/10/2025 22:14

The farm chain is ok ..but my carvery expert friend goes up and checks it out first. She doesn't always have it

The chilli is vegetarian.. or vegan if you don't have the sour cream with it. It's not the worst I've ever had but I'd prefer a vegetable chilli rather than the fake meat.
The chicken tikka is insane.. poppadoms half chips and rice and naan bread. Loads of carbs. It's tasty though.

HRTQueen · 07/10/2025 22:21

Best carvery I have had was in a garden centre always very busy and always really really good

I don’t mind a Toby (maybe some are better than others) it’s not the best but not all frozen roast potatoes and Yorkshire pudding and I have had worse in pubs where usually the food is very good

Hohofortherobbers · 07/10/2025 22:31

I quite like a Toby, maybe ours is unusually good.

ThreePears · 07/10/2025 22:35

We go to a hotel near here that does a brilliant carvery on Sunday lunchtimes. Never been disappointed in anything, and their cauliflower cheese is something else.

TroutSpout · 07/10/2025 22:40

I’m not a huge carvery lover but isn’t this a bit like going to a bad Chinese restaurant and then declaring all Chinese restaurants are bad based on that experience?

Gingerkittykat · 07/10/2025 22:41

BlueberryLatte · 07/10/2025 21:40

I have never been to one in my life. They sound pretty gross, but are you honestly surprised? Aren't they like an all you can eat roast dinner type thing? It's probably made a bit like bad cafeteria food

At the one I have visited, you pay a different price for 2 or 3 slices of meat and get one yorkie included. The potatoes and veg, gravy and condiments are unlimited.

Sasssquatch · 07/10/2025 22:42

Carveries aren’t just on Sundays?? Who knew

shellyleppard · 07/10/2025 22:44

I love a carvery dinner but nearest one is 8 miles away and I don't drive.... really really really love em lol

Meadowlands · 07/10/2025 22:55

I love carveries too. No processed rubbish, just proper meat and huge choice of vegetables.
Think you were just unlucky in the ones you went to.

BlueberryLatte · 07/10/2025 23:08

Meadowlands · 07/10/2025 22:55

I love carveries too. No processed rubbish, just proper meat and huge choice of vegetables.
Think you were just unlucky in the ones you went to.

I'm astonished to learn that Toby carvery staff peel and roast their own potatoes and make their own gravy and Yorkshire pudding from scratch. No processed rubbish? Are you quite sure?

Meadowlands · 07/10/2025 23:13

@BlueberryLatte I can't speak for Toby carvery because I've never been to one, but the food in the 2 carveries near us have joints of roast beef or turkey and then a selection of about 12 different vegetables - nothing processed there.

Emori · 07/10/2025 23:17

Are there only two carveries in the whole of the UK now then? I knew times were tough but didn't think it was as bad as all that.

Why did your DH visit them if he doesn't like carveries?

Bottleplant · 07/10/2025 23:17

I keep seeing criticisms of carveries and especially Toby. I don't go often, but I think it's excellent, especially for the price. When DC were young I could take them there for a midweek school holiday dinner and spend less than McDonalds.

I like that you get plenty of veg with yourmeal. Pretty much everywhere else you eat out, you hardly see a vegetable.

Naws · 07/10/2025 23:18

When we walked out and sat in the car laughing, we realised we reeked of cooking fat and boiled cabbage

No, this must be how you smelled before you went in there, because you were only in there for 5 minutes.

No way did both your clothes and hair etc absorb the smell so fast that you reeked of it.

But 'carveries' aren't necessarily the work of the devil, just most Toby Carveries to be fair.

Emori · 07/10/2025 23:18

Also, are both of your grandchildren called Daren?

Bottleplant · 07/10/2025 23:20

BlueberryLatte · 07/10/2025 23:08

I'm astonished to learn that Toby carvery staff peel and roast their own potatoes and make their own gravy and Yorkshire pudding from scratch. No processed rubbish? Are you quite sure?

Have you ever eaten there? The Yorkshires and roast potatoes are much more like my homemade ones than any frozen ones I've ever tried. AI tells me they're all made on site, yes.

HansHolbein · 07/10/2025 23:22

You know, Mumsnet really pisses me off most of the time. Then I read stuff like this and I remember why I love this shit hole. Thanks OP Grin

SpidersAreShitheads · 07/10/2025 23:22

BlueberryLatte · 07/10/2025 23:08

I'm astonished to learn that Toby carvery staff peel and roast their own potatoes and make their own gravy and Yorkshire pudding from scratch. No processed rubbish? Are you quite sure?

Yes, pretty sure they do everything. Here's a couple of links about how they make their Yorkshire puddings and roast potatoes from scratch.

I'm not actually a massive fan of their roast potatoes but I love their veg, meat, pigs in blankets, and gravy.

Interestingly, we have two Toby carveries near us and what's included - veg and meats - are always very different in each one. There's definitely not a universal approach, which again suggests that things are done by hand in-house.

https://www.tobycarvery.co.uk/about/news/wonky-yorkies#/

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/i-work-toby-carvery-heres-29013156

'I work at Toby Carvery - here's how we make roast potatoes perfectly crispy'

Kitchen Skills Trainer James Smith revealed how he creates the ideal roast potatoes at popular British chain Toby Carvery on Channel 5's Toby Carvery: How Do They Do It?

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/i-work-toby-carvery-heres-29013156