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It's not the computers that are being trained, it's the people using them (AI porn)

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KidSafetyFirst · 06/10/2025 13:44

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/oct/06/rise-of-ai-girlfriends-adult-dating-websites

So teenagers and young adults will be trained to to behave towards an AI 'doll' in ways that would cause a person to feel suicidal.

For some reason the kid in toy story who 'tortured toys' comes to mind. And isn't there something about harming animals being an indicator of future harmful behaviour towards people.

AIBU to think this has a lot of potential for serious harm?

‘Obedient, yielding and happy to follow’: the troubling rise of AI girlfriends

AI dating sites claim they remove potential for exploitation, but critics say they are reinforcing harmful stereotypes

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/oct/06/rise-of-ai-girlfriends-adult-dating-websites

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AnneShirleyBlythe · 06/10/2025 15:01

Really worrying! What will happen when the users want a real relationship. They will expect their gf to be a real life sex doll who is submissive and they can do anything they want to. Not a human being they are in an equal relationship with. Women already have to put up with crap men, this will just make it worse.

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 06/10/2025 15:06

AnneShirleyBlythe · 06/10/2025 15:01

Really worrying! What will happen when the users want a real relationship. They will expect their gf to be a real life sex doll who is submissive and they can do anything they want to. Not a human being they are in an equal relationship with. Women already have to put up with crap men, this will just make it worse.

They’ll probably just get one of the new gen AI Sex dolls to have a relationship with.

Mamma27373 · 06/10/2025 15:09

I agree, AI girlfriends are not going to be practice for how to treat women respectfully in real life. It’s just going to entrench the view that women should be submissive and mouldable to the desires of men.

Trallers · 06/10/2025 15:14

It's basically an abuser training camp. Very creepy.

spoonbillstretford · 06/10/2025 15:18

I think it's middle aged men you need to worry about more on the whole with this.

CosyFanTucci · 06/10/2025 15:22

spoonbillstretford · 06/10/2025 15:18

I think it's middle aged men you need to worry about more on the whole with this.

The article clearly says that demand is highest in 18-24 age group. Those men are not going to want a real relationship with a real human (or at least be capable of managing a relationship) after an AI girlfriend.

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