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...to think that this expresson is dying out?

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WalkDontWalk · 05/10/2025 14:25

On another thread someone used the expression 'taking the mick'. And I thought, 'I used to hear that all the time when I was a kid. But I rarely do now.'

So I started to think of others that my dad used but my kids don't.

'Having a kip' or 'I was akip'.

'Yikes' (My daughter says I'm the only non-cartoon that says 'yikes'.)

'Swinging the lead'

'Bunking off'. (Daughter: 'Never heard that. Sounds rude')

'Going Dutch' (Daughter. 'Nope. No idea. Is that rude too?')

'Haven't the foggiest.'

These were all in use in London fifty years ago. Maybe they were always regional.

OP posts:
Worralorra · 06/10/2025 13:19

mzpq · 05/10/2025 14:27

I think 'Taking the mick' is now considered offence, as in a slur against the Irish, isn't it?

It’s really not! “The Mick” referred to is micturation, urine, transported for the purpose of tanning - which is the origin of the phrase.
The other wording of this phrase, while more recognisable in its origin, is arguably more offensive (taking the P1$$)…

mzpq · 06/10/2025 13:22

Worralorra · 06/10/2025 13:19

It’s really not! “The Mick” referred to is micturation, urine, transported for the purpose of tanning - which is the origin of the phrase.
The other wording of this phrase, while more recognisable in its origin, is arguably more offensive (taking the P1$$)…

I'm going to have to hide this thread because I keep getting untold notifications informing me that it's 'X, Y, Z' 🤭

So many different possibilities and so many thinking theirs is the right one 😁

MagpiePi · 06/10/2025 13:37

HoppingPavlova · 06/10/2025 01:54

These were all in use in London fifty years ago. Maybe they were always regional

Nope, definitely not regional. I’m in Australia and still use all of those, except ‘yikes’. Like you, my kids, who have grown up with DH and I using all of those expressions, and know what they all mean, don’t use them themselves. Why, I have no idea.

When I was a child/young adult, the version of ‘yikes’ here was ‘struth’ (pronounced tooth). I haven’t heard that for decades now though, as we seem to have evolved to using ‘fuck’ wherever we used struth, or if we are trying to be polite we would say ‘shit’. Even my mum in old age had changed over on that one🤣. Also, ‘taking the Mick’ has changed into ‘taking the piss’, you’d have to be in an extremely formal setting to revert back to Mick.

You’ll know where ‘beyond the black stump’ is if you’re in Aus!
My son lived in QLD recently and was surprised how much c*nt is used and has a much milder effect than in the uk.

maddiemookins16mum · 06/10/2025 13:50

I use all these apart from swinging the lead. I'm 61.

Itiswhysofew · 06/10/2025 18:23

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 05/10/2025 17:52

A bunk up meant a fuck in London.

A bunk up also meant give me a hand, if you were climbing a wall or similar, "give us a bunk up." Kid in London 1970s.

Thought of one this morning - "Who d'ya think you are? The Queen of Sheba?". Someone getting above themselves or too lazy to do something for themselves.

exhaustedbeinghappy · 06/10/2025 18:29

I know (and say) all of those! Also used the phrase ‘it’s going to hell in a hand cart’ the other day - my DD21 was not amused

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 06/10/2025 18:54

exhaustedbeinghappy · 06/10/2025 18:29

I know (and say) all of those! Also used the phrase ‘it’s going to hell in a hand cart’ the other day - my DD21 was not amused

Oh I say "Hell In a HandCart" my DS25 says it's "Hell In a Hand Basket " !

You'd really need a cart wouldn't you Grin

MrsMoastyToasty · 06/10/2025 19:00

"Thr'penny bits" for boobss/tips.
"HE looks like he's lost a shilling and found a sixpence ". He looks sad or upset.
"CASH on the nail" to pay immediately. Based on the brass "nails" outside the Corn Exchange in Bristol where merchants used to trade and do deals. They're still there centuries later

...to think that this expresson is dying out?
WilfredsPies · 06/10/2025 19:31

Saying someone looks like the wreck of the Hesperas (have only just discovered that it starts with an H rather than an E 😄)
Drawers
Fuck my old boots
knuckle sandwich
I’ll tan your hide
Haven’t got a pot to piss in
Brass monkeys
She’s all fur coat, no drawers
Here’s ten bob for some sweets
Clip round the earhole
Saucy mare
Little bleeder
The Queen of Sheba
Old Bill
Don’t come the old soldier with me
Look here, Sunshine/Sonny Jim
Jack the lad
Smells like a tart’s boudoir
It’s like a doss house in here
Thrupenny bits
Keep your hand on your ha’penny, girl
Keep your pecker up
Sweet Fanny Adams

I come from such a classy family! 😄

And nicknames for surnames. Smudger for Smith, Chalky for White etc.

ToWhitToWhoo · 06/10/2025 19:57

pontipinemum · 05/10/2025 15:12

@mzpq I'm Irish, but born/ part raised around London. As far as I know it's not a slur against Irish people. If it is let me know how so I can fish out my offended hat next time I hear it 😜

@WalkDontWalk swinging the lead is the only one I don't know. What does it mean? Hitting someone?

I'm 37 so wasn't around 50yrs ago to hear that one

'Swinging the lead' means getting out of work by making false excuses, especially pretending to be ill.

ThePoliteLion · 06/10/2025 20:12

I use many of these expressions. Am wondering what has happened to the verb “to bonk”? The BBC news announcer today managed to quickly spit out “Bonkbuster” in relation to Jilly Cooper’s death, but he sounded like he didn’t understand the term….

DancingwiththeEuropeans · 06/10/2025 20:35

I say to the kids "Who's "she", the cat's mother?" if they refer to me as "she"- I don't really know why!
My grandad used to say daft ha'porth, and refer to his daughter's in law and later granddaughters as"a bevy of beauties".
My nana said ta-ra or toodle oo,for goodbye.
Mum used to say "It's like the Blackpool illuminations in here!" when all the lights were on
There were a lot of Shakespeare quotes or misquotes."What news on the Rialto?", "Lead on,Macduff"

Thursa · 06/10/2025 22:00

ImSoPeopledOut · 05/10/2025 18:40

"Charlie's dead" for a subtle "your slip is showing under your skirt" hint

"Seen more meat on a biscuit" for a very skinny person

Edited

Up our way you saw “more meat on a butcher’s pencil”.

PotterHead1985 · 06/10/2025 23:30

Im 40, irish (raised by an English woman) and know and say a good lot of these.

A couple more:

Keep sketch
Mouth as dry as ghandis flipflop
Feck that for a game of soldiers

Lovesabadboy · 07/10/2025 00:35

louba85 · 05/10/2025 17:59

Definitely used all those growing up in south London in the 90s.
My 100% South London granny used to say "Ark at that" as in "listen".
She also used to say "Tada" for goodbye. I have never heard these since!

This reminds me of one windy, evening, my daughter (about 25 at the time) and I were in the bathroom together brushing our teeth.
The wind was battering against the window so much I said 'Hark at that wind'.
My daughter had never heard the word 'hark' before and, without missing a beat, responded 'Where on earth are you...Wuthering Heights?!' 😂
Much toothpaste was sprayed around the bathroom as we roared with laughter!
Another one that my daughters had never heard of was the word 'hail'...as in, 'Where do you hail from?'
I use 'Good Heavens' and 'Heavens to Murgatroyd' a lot.
I am only 57 - not 107, honestly!

Toofficeornot · 07/10/2025 01:28

I use all those phrases.
However, my son said he was a tekky sigma ligma today and I told him to speak english😂so I suspect the youth are moving on.

dcsp · 07/10/2025 01:57

Darragon · 05/10/2025 15:00

Gordon Benett has died a death. My mum once said it in a shop and the bloke behind her said ‘what?’ and was a bit offended that she’d taken his name in vain. Unless he was pulling her leg. And my DF used to say he needed to ‘see a man about a dog’ regularly when I was younger. I constantly thought we were finally getting a puppy. I was 12 before I realised what it actually meant. 😂 I was just saying to DH not even half an hour ago that colourful language seems to have died out and not been replaced with much.

I think "Gordon Bennett", was people who were going to say "God" or "God's sake" and catch themselves and correct it to something non-offensive (similarly someone saying "sugar" was someone about to say "sht", and someone saying "fuh crying out loud" was about to say "fcl")...

...so as "God" / "God's sake" isn't really considered offensive any more, there's no need to catch yourself and say "Gordon Bennett" instead.

Carolenarua · 07/10/2025 03:14

"The apple doesn't fall far the tree " self explanatory meaning the person in question is just like their parent ( usually a bad trait).
My dad uses the phrase " little apples will grow again " which makes me laugh as I don't really get it but it means, he'll remember this ie. If you won't do him a favour, don't expect him to do you one in the future.

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 03:41

I know and use them all except swinging the lead! What on earth does that mean??

Godron Bennett
Lawks a mussy
Stone the crows
No fear!
Bob's your uncle
Forty winks
Six of the best
Have a butcher's

You could make your daughter's head spin, OP!

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 03:47

AutumnGlum · 05/10/2025 15:55

My Mancunian Granny used to say ‘I’ll have your guts for garters’, anyone heard that before?

Yes!!! My late Geordie grandma, born in the Edwardian era.

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 03:51

notatinydancer · 05/10/2025 16:11

I say Gordon Bennet sometimes. Who was he ? 😂

There's a Gordon Bennett cup at the Isle of Man TT races each year. Maybe its something to do with that!

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 04:04

[Dark tone, addressing someone who said "But I thought..." on finding out they were wrong:]

"Well, you know what Thought did."

We hadn't a clue for years what Thought did.

Turned out that Thought followed a muck cart and thought it was a wedding.

In other words, you were a bit of an idiot to have thought what you did.

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 04:05

70sMuuMuu · 05/10/2025 16:28

The era of ‘Diet Coke break’ too!

THE ELEVEN-THIRTY APPOINTMENT!! 😂

CrystalShoe · 07/10/2025 04:12

Silverbirchleaf · 05/10/2025 17:40

Sorry, just saw this. Another expression for trouser zips being undone is ‘flying low’.

We used to say "Flying low without a licence." 😂😂

Beesandhoney123 · 07/10/2025 04:29

My dm used to say guts for garters and so do I.

Going home on shanks pony

'Home James and don't spare the horses ' was my dms usual comment if out late and wanted to get home.

We say hark at the wind.
'Enough blue in the sky for a pair of sailors trousers' meant the weather would clear up. Still use this.

Throw it over your shoulder, like a continental soldier' my dm would say then giggle, if getting df to move heavy things. No idea why.
I also use it:)