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...to think that this expresson is dying out?

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WalkDontWalk · 05/10/2025 14:25

On another thread someone used the expression 'taking the mick'. And I thought, 'I used to hear that all the time when I was a kid. But I rarely do now.'

So I started to think of others that my dad used but my kids don't.

'Having a kip' or 'I was akip'.

'Yikes' (My daughter says I'm the only non-cartoon that says 'yikes'.)

'Swinging the lead'

'Bunking off'. (Daughter: 'Never heard that. Sounds rude')

'Going Dutch' (Daughter. 'Nope. No idea. Is that rude too?')

'Haven't the foggiest.'

These were all in use in London fifty years ago. Maybe they were always regional.

OP posts:
UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 15:20

Swinging the lead means faking illness to avoid work or school, or idling when one should be working. AFAIK Gordon Bennett is just a euphemism for Gor Blimey i.e. (May) God blind me, a mild oath. Flaming Nora a mild alternative to Fucking Hell. Ways of avoiding swears and curses.

HugelyExpensiveCrystalDuck · 05/10/2025 15:20

I say taking the Mick, therefore so do my teenagers. And ‘you are taking the absolute Michael’ for best.

mzpq · 05/10/2025 15:22

pontipinemum · 05/10/2025 15:12

@mzpq I'm Irish, but born/ part raised around London. As far as I know it's not a slur against Irish people. If it is let me know how so I can fish out my offended hat next time I hear it 😜

@WalkDontWalk swinging the lead is the only one I don't know. What does it mean? Hitting someone?

I'm 37 so wasn't around 50yrs ago to hear that one

I'm Irish too and I don't find it offensive at all 🤷‍♂️

It's just something I heard.

But there seems to be many different interesting origins anyway, reading this thread.

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 15:24

AgnesX · 05/10/2025 15:19

Isn't yikes very 70s and Scooby Doo?! I've never heard anyone use it in real life.

I use "Yikes" to mean "That's awkward", or if I've just been told about a nasty accident or scary incident.

suburburban · 05/10/2025 15:25

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 15:24

I use "Yikes" to mean "That's awkward", or if I've just been told about a nasty accident or scary incident.

Jinkies 😀

jeepes

VoltaireMittyDream · 05/10/2025 15:26

I think we should bring back ‘pants’.

’Oh pants. I forgot my wallet’
’I want to see the new James Bond and it was pants.’

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:28

mzpq · 05/10/2025 14:27

I think 'Taking the mick' is now considered offence, as in a slur against the Irish, isn't it?

My sil still says of some child : ' he was having a Paddy'. But yeah it's dying out.

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 15:31

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:28

My sil still says of some child : ' he was having a Paddy'. But yeah it's dying out.

We said "throwing a wobbler". I believe "throwing a wobbly" is an alternative. Think shaking and writhing in fury like a tantrumming toddler. 😅

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:34

Catarinabella · 05/10/2025 15:08

“Hopping the wag” as in playing truant, East Midlands UK, 70’s

'Mitching' .... Ireland same time. Not heard lately.

mcmuffin22 · 05/10/2025 15:37

I use barnet all the time to refer to hair. Yikes and yowzers are still very much in use in my family (yowzers possibly from Inspector Gadget or another 80s kids tv show). My mum uses plenty of rhyming slang (syrup for wife etc) all perplexing to my children.

Peachandpassionfruit · 05/10/2025 15:40

VoltaireMittyDream · 05/10/2025 15:26

I think we should bring back ‘pants’.

’Oh pants. I forgot my wallet’
’I want to see the new James Bond and it was pants.’

Oh god no. I hate “pants”.

FOJN · 05/10/2025 15:42

From Harbour Guides.com
SWING THE LEAD.

When sailing close to shore it is important to keep an eye on the depth of the water. In the age of sailing ships this was done by dropping a line over the side of the ship with a lead weight fastened to the end. To swing the lead was considered an easy job and eventually became a term meaning one who is either avoiding hard work or taking and easy option. Hence in modern terms if you ‘swing the lead’ you are slacking off.

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:43

My friend blew her street credibility at a feminist meeting when she admired some male writer. But she thinks the main offence was describing him as ' dishy'. There's no way back from such cringe apparently!

Dogaredabomb · 05/10/2025 15:43

ThatGlimmeringSea · 05/10/2025 14:44

The sun’s cracking the flags

He’s living off the smell of an oil rag (describing a person who is reluctant to spend money)

I like that!

Catpiece · 05/10/2025 15:45

I’m a South London Cockney and I still say them all. Another saying from when I was a kid was “I should coco” meaning “I don’t think so”

VoltaireMittyDream · 05/10/2025 15:46

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:43

My friend blew her street credibility at a feminist meeting when she admired some male writer. But she thinks the main offence was describing him as ' dishy'. There's no way back from such cringe apparently!

Oh, the days when men were dishy and lush. And fit!

Dogaredabomb · 05/10/2025 15:47

I thought swinging the lead was a ship's purser swinging the lead (at the scales) when measuring out provisions thereby making himself a bit of money on the sly.

Dogaredabomb · 05/10/2025 15:50

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 15:20

Swinging the lead means faking illness to avoid work or school, or idling when one should be working. AFAIK Gordon Bennett is just a euphemism for Gor Blimey i.e. (May) God blind me, a mild oath. Flaming Nora a mild alternative to Fucking Hell. Ways of avoiding swears and curses.

Iirc Gordon Bennett was a cricketer who did very well one year. I remember in the late 70s someone saying if he didn't do as well again then we'd have to pick another name to say.

Abhannmor · 05/10/2025 15:50

VoltaireMittyDream · 05/10/2025 15:46

Oh, the days when men were dishy and lush. And fit!

Or not eh? 😆

roseymoira · 05/10/2025 15:50

Sounds like your daughters had a very sheltered life so far, unless she’s a toddler

smallsilvercloud · 05/10/2025 15:51

Op your daughter’s reactions are hilarious
no I haven’t used or heard them for about 30 years

Gowlett · 05/10/2025 15:52

I’ve never considered “taking the mick” to be related to anything Irish (I’m Irish, lived in London, was called paddy).

Micky has another meaning, here… And we often say “taking the Michael” now as a modern version of the same phrase.

Mercurial123 · 05/10/2025 15:55

I've never said any of those and I'm in my early 50s. My parents do.

I've also never heard "wow, just wow" ever used in real life only on MN.

AutumnGlum · 05/10/2025 15:55

My Mancunian Granny used to say ‘I’ll have your guts for garters’, anyone heard that before?

HelpMeGetThrough · 05/10/2025 15:55

mzpq · 05/10/2025 14:27

I think 'Taking the mick' is now considered offence, as in a slur against the Irish, isn't it?

You’re just taking the piss now.