Would you have sex with me ?

[TheCaribbeanIsCallingMe]

This is a question for the men on here. I’m trying so hard to understand. . My husband doesn’t want sex with me. We have had a few half arsed attempts this year. Not great. I’m 55, petite blonde with big boobs, nice figure, long blonde hair, I love sex…..any insight would be welcome!!

Yes.

Maybe you’re all that but a very unpleasant person? Who here can say?

Lol

Could you not ask him?

Yawn

"big boobs"

Of course this was written by a woman and not a dirty old perv

Thank you 🤩

If it’s a bloke then no, obviously.

Have you tried talking to your husband?

Yes

For me, it would depend on your face! And how attracted I was to you, which would likely come down to how charming/charismatic you are

None of which I can know from your post

I honestly just don't get people that want sex all the time when they've been married ages. It's another chore. Calm down and use a toy.

Who knows? Maybe it's nothing to do with you at all and he is suffering from ED or a low sex drive caused by depression/illness/hormone deficiency....
He could of course not find you attractive anymore, but that doesn't mean you're not attractive to others.
It's really not something anyone here can really answer. Some don't fancy blondes with big boobs, some will.
You need to talk to him. I hope it goes well.

Could it be because you’re a pervy old man?

Probably hoping to get private messages from other pervy old men who believe the description.

It shouldn’t be though. If you’ve no sexual desire or connection with your partner then your relationship is over (unless you’re both asexual of course).

Sex isn’t a lure to get someone to marry you, then deprive them for the rest of their life.

I have no idea what your face is like & if I am attracted to you so no idea. Perhaps you need to ask your DH?

It is a very unusual way for a woman to describe herself. But taking it at face value it did make me think of this.

Well your marriage is obviously dead in the water if instead of discussing this with your H you are asking random men on the Internet if you are sexually attractive.

And how can any one possibly even comment on your sexual attractiveness or why your H doesn't want sex with you without seeing you or knowing anything about either of you or your relationship.

So what is the point of thread OP?