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Neighbours - what the hell?

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Allisnotlost1 · 02/10/2025 17:26

Posting here for traffic, previous thread here for context.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5353167-difficult-neighbours

TLDR: nice but filthy neighbours, at least four adults and two kids in the house, multiple animals, what can I do?

I managed to get help from Environmental health who issued a clearance notice for the rubbish at the front of the house. I’ve since found out that one of the older boys has a girlfriend who is now pregnant. The plan is for them to live between her mum’s house and where he is now.

There are now nine dogs living there and one is expecting puppies soon.

Ive also been told that the father previously went to prison for domestic violence against the wife and youngest child. I’m quite confused that he’s living there if that’s true but I guess if he’s off probation and no order in place then what can anyone do, I’ve never heard violence but a fair amount of arguing and some pretty awful things said by him to her, but mainly I’m concerned given that it must be incredibly stressful to be so overcrowded.

Is there anything I could or should do given the imminent arrival of a baby into this situation? (YANBU) Or should I shut the fuck up and move? (YABU).

OP posts:
crispychips · 01/11/2025 20:29

Allisnotlost1 · 02/10/2025 17:26

Posting here for traffic, previous thread here for context.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5353167-difficult-neighbours

TLDR: nice but filthy neighbours, at least four adults and two kids in the house, multiple animals, what can I do?

I managed to get help from Environmental health who issued a clearance notice for the rubbish at the front of the house. I’ve since found out that one of the older boys has a girlfriend who is now pregnant. The plan is for them to live between her mum’s house and where he is now.

There are now nine dogs living there and one is expecting puppies soon.

Ive also been told that the father previously went to prison for domestic violence against the wife and youngest child. I’m quite confused that he’s living there if that’s true but I guess if he’s off probation and no order in place then what can anyone do, I’ve never heard violence but a fair amount of arguing and some pretty awful things said by him to her, but mainly I’m concerned given that it must be incredibly stressful to be so overcrowded.

Is there anything I could or should do given the imminent arrival of a baby into this situation? (YANBU) Or should I shut the fuck up and move? (YABU).

they are clearly awful people. if you can move, do so. if not, carry on reporting -- dog noise, rubbish etc.

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