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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:25

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:21

As I said it’s an odd thing to spend endless time on. But if it makes you happy.

Edited

The only time I’ve spent on it is on this thread. My only opinion on it is the transcript, and what you’ve said which piqued my curiosity because you are defending a woman who has (by the transcript) abused her daughters.

You are still trying to talk me round in circles and the only reason I’m indulging you is because I’m stubborn and you’re getting on my nerves speaking a whole lot of words with no actual substance.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:29

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:25

The only time I’ve spent on it is on this thread. My only opinion on it is the transcript, and what you’ve said which piqued my curiosity because you are defending a woman who has (by the transcript) abused her daughters.

You are still trying to talk me round in circles and the only reason I’m indulging you is because I’m stubborn and you’re getting on my nerves speaking a whole lot of words with no actual substance.

So what transcripts have you read? The transcript of this thread or the transcript of some court documents? I’m not quite sure which you mean. And if I’m getting on your nerves don’t reply. I haven’t really defended Alice. That’s just your viewpoint. I’ve said quite clearly there are two sides to every story because there is. You can disagree with that and it fine.

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:31

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:29

So what transcripts have you read? The transcript of this thread or the transcript of some court documents? I’m not quite sure which you mean. And if I’m getting on your nerves don’t reply. I haven’t really defended Alice. That’s just your viewpoint. I’ve said quite clearly there are two sides to every story because there is. You can disagree with that and it fine.

Edited

There is a post up thread, where someone has posted the transcript of a conversation between Alice and her daughters. It broke my heart to read it because you can hear the desperation in the daughter’s words.

She wants to be seen and heard by her mother. She wants her mother to BE a mother. She wants her mother to stop bringing daddy into it. Can you imagine that girl’s pain?

Lunde · 01/10/2025 18:31

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 14:08

I couldn’t care about him leaving the marriage. Whether it was abusive or not, he has every right to end his marriage for whatever reason.

She can’t prevent him from having shared custody. I’m pretty sure shared custody is the norm in California.

It took him an entire year after he moved Bianca into his home for him to even go to court for custody of the kids. He was quick enough to go to court for a restraining order, though.

He knew better than anyone what kind of mother Alice was, yet he left the kids behind so he could focus on his new relationship. He is disgusting.

I thought he continued to see the kids after he left? Did homework with them during Covid?

Anyway I thought he moved into Bianca's apartment when he couldn't afford 2 households when there was no work during covid and the actors strike

IIRC the timeline was
August 2020 - they discuss separation (Alice posts about it)
January 2021 - he moves out
March 2021 - he files for divorce (still not finalized)
November 2021 - announces relationship with Bianca
July 2023 - they are legally divorced but finances pending

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 01/10/2025 18:34

I think she’s in need of professional help, help her move on, recalibrate and lose the preoccupation about her ex
Her daughters probably need some support too
It has been a very public very fraught event for all concerned

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:34

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 15:52

I have no sympathy for her. This is the transcript of just one piece of evidence that Ioan filed. It was a video that Elsie filmed of Alice and Ella on Ella’s 12th birthday.

Transcription of 6 September 2021 Video received from Elsie
Ella: Screaming and crying
Elsie: “You ok Beans?”
Alice: “You don’t know what you got here and you’re fucking tedious.”
Ella: “You’re supposed to be a Mother!”
Alice: “And your Father is supposed to be a Father!”
Ella: “Mummy! Mummy! You have to stop bringing up Daddy in every single situation when
we said nothing about Daddy!”
Alice: “I am a fucking Mother you bitch! Do you know what it takes to be a fucking Mother?”
Ella: “Right now you’re not acting like one.”
Alice: “Why not?”
Ella:” You’re yelling at your children, you’re telling them that they’re telling lies, you’re not
giving us any voice, you’re, you threatened to leave us!”
Alice: “No, no, no, no, no, I just said that I don’t want anything to do with you anymore. You,
you guys can go and live with your Daddy.”
Ella: “That’s one of the most terrible things you can say to your child, you’re acting like your
Dad right now! You take upon your Dad!”
Alice: “No, I don’t think anyone else has ever been left as alone as I have.”
Ella: “See now, oh my god! Poor me! Poor me! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “You didn’t even listen to what I say! You don’t even listen to what I say.”
Ella: “Oh I listen to everything you say. Be a Mother! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “Gloria’s having you for the rest of the week.

@DipsyDee

This post.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:35

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:31

There is a post up thread, where someone has posted the transcript of a conversation between Alice and her daughters. It broke my heart to read it because you can hear the desperation in the daughter’s words.

She wants to be seen and heard by her mother. She wants her mother to BE a mother. She wants her mother to stop bringing daddy into it. Can you imagine that girl’s pain?

I’ve said upthread that it is the girls I feel sorry (feel free to look for it) for but having people read this transcript on forums such as tattle or here is not really going to help them is it?

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:39

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:35

I’ve said upthread that it is the girls I feel sorry (feel free to look for it) for but having people read this transcript on forums such as tattle or here is not really going to help them is it?

Do you think that mud slinging against the father, in a ten second opinion, based on hearsay (not fact, as you don’t know it for a fact) is helpful either?

Lunde · 01/10/2025 18:40

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 17:08

This is for the courts to decide not me or you. I just don’t really get the strong feeling about any of them really when there are far more of important things to get riled up about. You or I will never meet them and nobody knows what really goes on behind closed doors

Yes the courts have decided which is why Alice has had a Domestic Violence Restraining Order against her since 2022 - and looks like she might get a second one from her neighbours

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 18:40

Here are another couple of transcripts from videos that were filmed by the children where she was evidently a drunken abuser then too - Just to be clear, this was when they were still together!

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #1 received from Ella
Alice: “You never make any, done anything off your own back you... You can’t even keep a
fucking show on the ABC going because, there, you’re too pathetic that they just cancel the
show. Hello darling.”
Ella: “Hi Mommy.”
Ioan: “Sorry what are you talking about?”
Alice: “You’re such an arse licker to your Australian producers that you would rather them
walk all over you. Listen, hey, Beans, tell Daddy that I’ve got nothing to fucking say, and I will
call the police if he doesn’t get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I, this is um, I am allowed to sit here.”
Alice: “Tell him to get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I’m allowed to sit here. I’m just sitting here?”
Alice: “Get off my bed. Get off, I’m going to sleep, get off my bed.”
Ioan: “Okay, but I am just going to sit here.”
Alice: “Daddy’s going to have to find another job. A different job.”
Ioan: “A different job?”
Alice: “You’re going to have to look for a different vocation!”
Ioan: “Why?”
Alice: “You’re not going to succeed in acting.”
Ioan: “Okay.”
Alice: “You don’t have it in you. You’re so worried about like, he… [inaudible] Oh, oh, oh
because I’m worth it… Leave him call people here, I said, I’ve got a list of people you should
call you said, he doesn’t even bother, he says, he shouldn’t have to call people [inaudible] …
Listen, Beans, I want a better life for you, okay?”
Ella: “Okay.”
Alice: “And he can give you.”

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #2 received from Ella
Alice: “And until you realize it’s not going to happen, baby, I am going to have a new
boyfriend and you’re going to have two Dads. It’s not that you’re not going to have your
Daddy. But you’re also have another lovely person who I will meet who will be like a second
Daddy to you. Okay?”
Ella: “I don’t want one.”
Alice: “You don’t have to. I want one. Okay? You’ve seen what he does to me, you seen the
way he says horrible things to me. I’m done. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done. You seen it! I was
happy last night, he did that thing. I was happy tonight, he did that thing. Ok? It’s not fair on
me.”
Ella: “Could he ”
Alice: “I gave up my career, I helped him through everything. I did so many gen generous
things to him. The fact that I made one mistake and he couldn’t give it up.”
Ioan: “No, no, this, no we did draw a line under all that. We drew a line under it all.”
Alice: “And Beans it shouldn’t be under, up to you when you, you don’t have to be, you
don’t have to know my new man, but you will learn to love whoever it is, because whoever
it is I’m going to make fucking sure that he’s not somebody that despises me.”
Ella: “Could Daddy at least have one therapy session and make “
Alice: “If he would go to a therapist and really proper therapist and try and work out what’s
wrong with him, yes, but that’s “
Ella: “I’ll be the therapist, I’m a proper therapist!”
Alice: “I would have to have him go somewhere like really, at this point, I’d have to have him
go somewhere really good, and, and work out what his issue is. He’s not going to have jobs
in the future. He, you guys are not going to have a nice house. He is not capable of getting
jobs. Do you know how stupid the thing they sent him was? That’s what they think of him.
Because he, he’s, he doesn’t have it! He’s having a terrible hair problem and he’s going to
lose all his hair. It’s not ”
Ella: “Are you sure you’re not just tired?”
Alice: “Beans, I’ve been saying this for like two years. I’m, everything he does is about him. I
never get any, it’s like, time after time after time, I just hear this shit about, and you know I
stood up about something with Harvey Weinstein all I got back from him was how that
affected him, all I got back. It’s just… Guys don’t be upset. I’ll still see Daddy, I just want
somebody who loves me really for who I am and doesn’t worry about my, I want somebody
who finds it funny when I do the TMZ thing. That’s what I want.”Ella: “I can teach him to do that, I promise, if you just give “
Alice: “You can’t! I’ve tried!”
Ella: “I can! I can, if you just give me a month I can change Daddy!”
Alice: “Really?”
Ella: “Yes I promise! If you just give me chance.”
Alice: “I can’t handle somebody who hates me for what I do, I just can’t handle it.”
Ella: “I will change him, I promise.”
Ioan: “I didn’t say, I didn’t say that I hated you.”
Ella: “I will change him a promise, I’ll just, just give me a month.”
Alice: “Ok, if you can work, if you can make him understand in a month I will change my
mind, until then I want us to live here, but I don’t want any physical contact. If you can talk
him around, I will change my mind.”
Ella: “Okay.”
Elsie: “Guess what Daddy, I died in the game.”
Ioan: “Oh no!”
Alice: “Oh no Elsie!”
Elsie: “In the big game….”
Ioan: “In Minecraft?

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 18:42

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:35

I’ve said upthread that it is the girls I feel sorry (feel free to look for it) for but having people read this transcript on forums such as tattle or here is not really going to help them is it?

Actually I think it does help them. It goes a long way to help people understand their behaviour, knowledge of which is not going to go away thanks to the internet. It demonstrates exactly how difficult their life was and probably continues to be.

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:46

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 18:40

Here are another couple of transcripts from videos that were filmed by the children where she was evidently a drunken abuser then too - Just to be clear, this was when they were still together!

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #1 received from Ella
Alice: “You never make any, done anything off your own back you... You can’t even keep a
fucking show on the ABC going because, there, you’re too pathetic that they just cancel the
show. Hello darling.”
Ella: “Hi Mommy.”
Ioan: “Sorry what are you talking about?”
Alice: “You’re such an arse licker to your Australian producers that you would rather them
walk all over you. Listen, hey, Beans, tell Daddy that I’ve got nothing to fucking say, and I will
call the police if he doesn’t get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I, this is um, I am allowed to sit here.”
Alice: “Tell him to get off my bed.”
Ioan: “I’m allowed to sit here. I’m just sitting here?”
Alice: “Get off my bed. Get off, I’m going to sleep, get off my bed.”
Ioan: “Okay, but I am just going to sit here.”
Alice: “Daddy’s going to have to find another job. A different job.”
Ioan: “A different job?”
Alice: “You’re going to have to look for a different vocation!”
Ioan: “Why?”
Alice: “You’re not going to succeed in acting.”
Ioan: “Okay.”
Alice: “You don’t have it in you. You’re so worried about like, he… [inaudible] Oh, oh, oh
because I’m worth it… Leave him call people here, I said, I’ve got a list of people you should
call you said, he doesn’t even bother, he says, he shouldn’t have to call people [inaudible] …
Listen, Beans, I want a better life for you, okay?”
Ella: “Okay.”
Alice: “And he can give you.”

Transcription of 2 June 2020 – Video #2 received from Ella
Alice: “And until you realize it’s not going to happen, baby, I am going to have a new
boyfriend and you’re going to have two Dads. It’s not that you’re not going to have your
Daddy. But you’re also have another lovely person who I will meet who will be like a second
Daddy to you. Okay?”
Ella: “I don’t want one.”
Alice: “You don’t have to. I want one. Okay? You’ve seen what he does to me, you seen the
way he says horrible things to me. I’m done. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done. You seen it! I was
happy last night, he did that thing. I was happy tonight, he did that thing. Ok? It’s not fair on
me.”
Ella: “Could he ”
Alice: “I gave up my career, I helped him through everything. I did so many gen generous
things to him. The fact that I made one mistake and he couldn’t give it up.”
Ioan: “No, no, this, no we did draw a line under all that. We drew a line under it all.”
Alice: “And Beans it shouldn’t be under, up to you when you, you don’t have to be, you
don’t have to know my new man, but you will learn to love whoever it is, because whoever
it is I’m going to make fucking sure that he’s not somebody that despises me.”
Ella: “Could Daddy at least have one therapy session and make “
Alice: “If he would go to a therapist and really proper therapist and try and work out what’s
wrong with him, yes, but that’s “
Ella: “I’ll be the therapist, I’m a proper therapist!”
Alice: “I would have to have him go somewhere like really, at this point, I’d have to have him
go somewhere really good, and, and work out what his issue is. He’s not going to have jobs
in the future. He, you guys are not going to have a nice house. He is not capable of getting
jobs. Do you know how stupid the thing they sent him was? That’s what they think of him.
Because he, he’s, he doesn’t have it! He’s having a terrible hair problem and he’s going to
lose all his hair. It’s not ”
Ella: “Are you sure you’re not just tired?”
Alice: “Beans, I’ve been saying this for like two years. I’m, everything he does is about him. I
never get any, it’s like, time after time after time, I just hear this shit about, and you know I
stood up about something with Harvey Weinstein all I got back from him was how that
affected him, all I got back. It’s just… Guys don’t be upset. I’ll still see Daddy, I just want
somebody who loves me really for who I am and doesn’t worry about my, I want somebody
who finds it funny when I do the TMZ thing. That’s what I want.”Ella: “I can teach him to do that, I promise, if you just give “
Alice: “You can’t! I’ve tried!”
Ella: “I can! I can, if you just give me a month I can change Daddy!”
Alice: “Really?”
Ella: “Yes I promise! If you just give me chance.”
Alice: “I can’t handle somebody who hates me for what I do, I just can’t handle it.”
Ella: “I will change him, I promise.”
Ioan: “I didn’t say, I didn’t say that I hated you.”
Ella: “I will change him a promise, I’ll just, just give me a month.”
Alice: “Ok, if you can work, if you can make him understand in a month I will change my
mind, until then I want us to live here, but I don’t want any physical contact. If you can talk
him around, I will change my mind.”
Ella: “Okay.”
Elsie: “Guess what Daddy, I died in the game.”
Ioan: “Oh no!”
Alice: “Oh no Elsie!”
Elsie: “In the big game….”
Ioan: “In Minecraft?

I’m too stunned to formulate a response. I’m gobsmacked.

This is beyond disgusting. And then some.

BlouseyBrowne · 01/10/2025 18:47

For as long as this dreadful divorce has been in the public eye, it’s been clear that she is completely unhinged. This doorbell footage is not remotely surprising.

I feel enormously sorry for her ex, I cant imagine what he’s been subjected to over the years. But most of all, those poor daughters of hers. They absolutely should not be in her ‘care’.

Honish · 01/10/2025 18:47

Greenmouldycheese · 01/10/2025 18:09

I feel really bad for her. She was a beautiful woman and spent her life behind the scenes, raising her family while her husband worked and built a career. She probably thought the were a happy family until he left her for a woman half his age. Her story reminds me of the Betty Broderick case (only Alice hasn't murdered anyone). It's really sad that the infidelity and divorce put her on this path and i hope she can somehow pick herself back up and eventually find happiness.

I think this too. But I think there is hard evidence for another side too. Way before the split her posts and commentary about her husband and family life were unsettling, I do think she was emotionally manipulative and abusive to him for years. They probably both were toxic in their own way. I feel deeply saddened for her, the husband and his new wife seem callous and gleeful in their cat that got the cream smiles. But I don't think she's ever been the lovely, genuine person she'd have us think. I feel sorry for the two girls most of all, and then secondly for the new little baby who will be born into such a mess, I imagine both it's parents are fairly narcissistic.. and there will always be the half sisters and ex wife's malevolent rage in the background sadly.

LemonTT · 01/10/2025 18:49

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 17:30

I haven’t defended her. And if I did why would that upset you . There’s a big difference in using a few lines to comment to trawlling through court papers

Edited

You said it is unkind to criticise her or report her many many misdeeds which include DA. You think it is ok and not unkind to criticise him for leaving a bad marriage and remarrying 5 years later. And you worry about the kids who are in her care.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:50

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:39

Do you think that mud slinging against the father, in a ten second opinion, based on hearsay (not fact, as you don’t know it for a fact) is helpful either?

what I think is distasteful is repost a transcript (which I have not and will not read) that really should have remained private to the court and judge only and not open to the general public, l. This I imagine is a child in an emotional state. It’s akin to sharing private medical information in the public domain. Did the child give you their consent to share it? Will it help the child in future knowing this is readily available for human consumption?You claim to only care about the children’s welfare but you share this without a second thought for the repercussions on the child. Why do YOU or anyone need to know this information? And the most bizarre thing is you seem more concerned about mudslinging towards the father.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:51

LemonTT · 01/10/2025 18:49

You said it is unkind to criticise her or report her many many misdeeds which include DA. You think it is ok and not unkind to criticise him for leaving a bad marriage and remarrying 5 years later. And you worry about the kids who are in her care.

No I didn’t.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:52

And if the courts decide that then they decide it

MrsLizzieDarcy · 01/10/2025 18:52

She's clearly got mental health issues and addiction to boot - but how she has primary custody of those poor kids is beyond me. And I'd have a lot more respect for Ioan if he kept off social media and showing off his new life. There are two innocent kids caught in this war. I can't help but feel that there would have been SS and court involvement much earlier on had this happened in the UK - those children haven't been safeguarded at all.

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:56

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:50

what I think is distasteful is repost a transcript (which I have not and will not read) that really should have remained private to the court and judge only and not open to the general public, l. This I imagine is a child in an emotional state. It’s akin to sharing private medical information in the public domain. Did the child give you their consent to share it? Will it help the child in future knowing this is readily available for human consumption?You claim to only care about the children’s welfare but you share this without a second thought for the repercussions on the child. Why do YOU or anyone need to know this information? And the most bizarre thing is you seem more concerned about mudslinging towards the father.

Because it raises the awareness of maternal abuse, which is often hidden behind closed doors.

Did the girls give consent to it being shared? I don’t know, do you? (Edited to add: originally, in court/with the court papers, not me, personally.)

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:57

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:56

Because it raises the awareness of maternal abuse, which is often hidden behind closed doors.

Did the girls give consent to it being shared? I don’t know, do you? (Edited to add: originally, in court/with the court papers, not me, personally.)

Edited

Don’t try to defend it. This transcript should have been sealed to protect the very children you pertain to care so much about

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 18:58

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:57

Don’t try to defend it. This transcript should have been sealed to protect the very children you pertain to care so much about

If the court thought that was the case, why wasn’t it sealed? Genuine question as I don’t know.

I stand by my reason.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 19:00

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:57

Don’t try to defend it. This transcript should have been sealed to protect the very children you pertain to care so much about

Completely agree.

Ioan could have requested the documents be sealed to protect his children’s privacy; he didn’t.

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 19:02

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 18:50

what I think is distasteful is repost a transcript (which I have not and will not read) that really should have remained private to the court and judge only and not open to the general public, l. This I imagine is a child in an emotional state. It’s akin to sharing private medical information in the public domain. Did the child give you their consent to share it? Will it help the child in future knowing this is readily available for human consumption?You claim to only care about the children’s welfare but you share this without a second thought for the repercussions on the child. Why do YOU or anyone need to know this information? And the most bizarre thing is you seem more concerned about mudslinging towards the father.

Ioan has never spoken publicly about any of this. Alice on the other hand has posted lies all over social media, sold lies to her friend at the Mail, terrorising normal people for daring to want to go about their daily lives and is doing god knows what to her children.

SHE decided to make her divorce public and if she wants that, she can have it ALL out there, not just her poisonous bullshit which is intended to destroy her ex for daring to leave.

Thank god this stuff is available and that Tattle have made it accessible so people can see the actual truth - This woman is the devil incarnate.

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 19:02

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 19:00

Completely agree.

Ioan could have requested the documents be sealed to protect his children’s privacy; he didn’t.

Did Alice request for it to be sealed? I don’t know how the American courts work (or any court for that matter.)

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