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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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Marinade · 03/10/2025 18:19

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 18:14

Where am I misrepresenting anything about her conduct and behaviour?

Where am I trying to draw similarly between her and Ioan?

I don’t like either of them, for completely separate reasons!

As I keep saying - either quote me, or stop lying.

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You have been called out numerous times for how you have framed and misinterpreted the information. I really cannot be bothered trawling through this thread to extract these - you go back and check yourself if you're that bothered.

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:28

Marinade · 03/10/2025 18:17

Karl Weick states that our beliefs influence what we see in the world, creating a subjective reality that may differ from objective truth.

So seeing is not believing. Believing is seeing.

Beliefs we hold influence our interpretation of the world. Nowhere have I seen this played out more than this thread. Where the bare facts are minimised, the actual records of transcripts and videos demonstrating an unhinged and abusive woman are disregarded.

Within the context of two abusers sending someone mad.

And it's not just since Bianca was discovered, he's obviously been playing away for ages, must have been hard for Alice being very neglected.

Surely you've heard of cause and effect.

Do you seriously believe their actions, their lies, their deceptions have not created such reactive behaviour in Alice.

A good father respects the mother of his children.
Ioan has created this mess.

Oh well, probably won't be too long before he hits the sack again whilst away from Bianca.
He will do it again, no doubt.

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 18:33

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:28

Within the context of two abusers sending someone mad.

And it's not just since Bianca was discovered, he's obviously been playing away for ages, must have been hard for Alice being very neglected.

Surely you've heard of cause and effect.

Do you seriously believe their actions, their lies, their deceptions have not created such reactive behaviour in Alice.

A good father respects the mother of his children.
Ioan has created this mess.

Oh well, probably won't be too long before he hits the sack again whilst away from Bianca.
He will do it again, no doubt.

Omg the DARVO you’re bringing. Just stop it. You’re deranged! Maybe even more so than Malice herself!

What’s your excuse for her reactive behaviour over the last twenty years before B entered the scene then?

I don’t know these people but if I had to bet good money, I reckon Ioan will stay faithful to Bianca and they’ll have a long happy marriage.

You think that too but don’t want to admit it to yourself. Aw!

yesvalery · 03/10/2025 18:33

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:28

Within the context of two abusers sending someone mad.

And it's not just since Bianca was discovered, he's obviously been playing away for ages, must have been hard for Alice being very neglected.

Surely you've heard of cause and effect.

Do you seriously believe their actions, their lies, their deceptions have not created such reactive behaviour in Alice.

A good father respects the mother of his children.
Ioan has created this mess.

Oh well, probably won't be too long before he hits the sack again whilst away from Bianca.
He will do it again, no doubt.

Do you seriously believe their actions, their lies, their deceptions have not created such reactive behaviour in Alice.

Oh here we go! No. I believe Alice has always been a foul mouthed, abusive gobshite. As evidenced by her past behaviours long before her marriage ended, having no contact with any of her family and no real friends.

Marinade · 03/10/2025 18:33

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:28

Within the context of two abusers sending someone mad.

And it's not just since Bianca was discovered, he's obviously been playing away for ages, must have been hard for Alice being very neglected.

Surely you've heard of cause and effect.

Do you seriously believe their actions, their lies, their deceptions have not created such reactive behaviour in Alice.

A good father respects the mother of his children.
Ioan has created this mess.

Oh well, probably won't be too long before he hits the sack again whilst away from Bianca.
He will do it again, no doubt.

Do you have any facts to support these assertions? Him 'playing away' etc?

Why do you refer to him as an abuser? Because Alice perpetuates this?

You do reliase that people lie don't you?

Lunde · 03/10/2025 18:38

I think Alice would feel a lot better if she got herself a job (even a non-acting one). IIRC she has a languages degree from UCL so there must be something she can do.

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 18:41

Marinade · 03/10/2025 18:19

You have been called out numerous times for how you have framed and misinterpreted the information. I really cannot be bothered trawling through this thread to extract these - you go back and check yourself if you're that bothered.

You wouldn’t be able to find anything though, would you, because everything that you and others have said that I had said or done is a total lie. Not one of you have been able to quote where I have said x or y, because it doesn’t exist.

Notatallanamechange · 03/10/2025 18:51

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 17:45

No not really.Whats weird is being called Alice and that I have no children both comments now deleted but it gives you a flavour. Not that is weird

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What on Earth has that got to do with anything I’ve posted

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:55

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 18:33

Omg the DARVO you’re bringing. Just stop it. You’re deranged! Maybe even more so than Malice herself!

What’s your excuse for her reactive behaviour over the last twenty years before B entered the scene then?

I don’t know these people but if I had to bet good money, I reckon Ioan will stay faithful to Bianca and they’ll have a long happy marriage.

You think that too but don’t want to admit it to yourself. Aw!

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Don't be silly, what's to be faithful for, Bianca knows the score, she herself was ingrement to a love triagle at one point.

Bianca also knows if you fancy someone and fall in love you have every right to do what's best for yourself and have other relationships, regardless if there are children or not.

I'm sure Biance would be very grown up about it, she'd have to be, cause she wouldn't get much sympathy from many.

No he's crossed big boundaries, disrespecting his own children mainly which doesn't bode well for the future.
Next female leading lady, who knows, but with Bianca firmly enconsed with a babe in LA he's gonna get more freetime, unless she decides to follow him with babe in tow, now that could cramp his style.

HaHa

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 18:58

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:55

Don't be silly, what's to be faithful for, Bianca knows the score, she herself was ingrement to a love triagle at one point.

Bianca also knows if you fancy someone and fall in love you have every right to do what's best for yourself and have other relationships, regardless if there are children or not.

I'm sure Biance would be very grown up about it, she'd have to be, cause she wouldn't get much sympathy from many.

No he's crossed big boundaries, disrespecting his own children mainly which doesn't bode well for the future.
Next female leading lady, who knows, but with Bianca firmly enconsed with a babe in LA he's gonna get more freetime, unless she decides to follow him with babe in tow, now that could cramp his style.

HaHa

I pity you, very much x

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:00

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 18:41

You wouldn’t be able to find anything though, would you, because everything that you and others have said that I had said or done is a total lie. Not one of you have been able to quote where I have said x or y, because it doesn’t exist.

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whatever you say....

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Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 19:03

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:00

whatever you say....

Quote me!

Should be simple enough.

You said I’ve said x, y and z. Quote me then!

But you can’t 😂

So stop lying.

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:06

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 19:03

Quote me!

Should be simple enough.

You said I’ve said x, y and z. Quote me then!

But you can’t 😂

So stop lying.

I actually didn't name you I said there were two posters who are misrepresenting key facts and perpetuating her lies. This is exactly what you have done I have seen your posts. But I cannot do a filter based on your posts and I literally cannot be bothered trawling through this thread for this unimportant purpose, OK?

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:09

GoGas · 03/10/2025 18:55

Don't be silly, what's to be faithful for, Bianca knows the score, she herself was ingrement to a love triagle at one point.

Bianca also knows if you fancy someone and fall in love you have every right to do what's best for yourself and have other relationships, regardless if there are children or not.

I'm sure Biance would be very grown up about it, she'd have to be, cause she wouldn't get much sympathy from many.

No he's crossed big boundaries, disrespecting his own children mainly which doesn't bode well for the future.
Next female leading lady, who knows, but with Bianca firmly enconsed with a babe in LA he's gonna get more freetime, unless she decides to follow him with babe in tow, now that could cramp his style.

HaHa

I am pretty sure you don't know Bianca, you are projecting many things onto her because you have framed her as a dubious and untrustworthy affair partner.

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 19:25

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:06

I actually didn't name you I said there were two posters who are misrepresenting key facts and perpetuating her lies. This is exactly what you have done I have seen your posts. But I cannot do a filter based on your posts and I literally cannot be bothered trawling through this thread for this unimportant purpose, OK?

We might not agree about Ioan and what has led to the current state of his relationship with his children, but that doesn’t mean I’m “misrepresenting key facts and perpetuating her lies”. This is such an extreme way to view a difference of opinion.

It is my opinion that Ioan Gruffud essentially abandoned his children with an unstable mother to prioritise a new relationship. I’m not perpetrating anyone’s lies. That is MY view based on Ioan’s actions (or lack of). It’s a view many people share and have come to, too.

I don’t care about Alice, about what Alice has said or what she hasn’t.

I have been called Alice, a defender of Alice (despite saying many times that I don’t like Alice, don’t object to anything said about her on this thread and that she does not put her children’s wellbeing first), an abuse apologist etc etc.

It’s really not normal behaviour.

Grapewrath · 03/10/2025 19:34

Alice Evans is an awful human being.
i felt a bit sorry for her when her marriage broke down and she went batshit but the shit that went down afterwards was insane. She’s a psychopath- the lies she told and how she ostracised Ioan from their kids. Her poor children must be traumatised living with her. Social services need to step in because Alice is clearly a raging alcoholic

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:36

But you depicted a timeline of events and behaviours that are not borne out by the documentation and the court pleadings in the case? You have sought to equate Ioan and Alice in terms of their conduct at the very least. In fact your initial posts were very much framing him as the person in the wrong. So yes, you are misinterpreting facts and perpetuating untruths.

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:37

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:36

But you depicted a timeline of events and behaviours that are not borne out by the documentation and the court pleadings in the case? You have sought to equate Ioan and Alice in terms of their conduct at the very least. In fact your initial posts were very much framing him as the person in the wrong. So yes, you are misinterpreting facts and perpetuating untruths.

@Vivi0 This is directed towards you.

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 19:43

Marinade · 03/10/2025 19:36

But you depicted a timeline of events and behaviours that are not borne out by the documentation and the court pleadings in the case? You have sought to equate Ioan and Alice in terms of their conduct at the very least. In fact your initial posts were very much framing him as the person in the wrong. So yes, you are misinterpreting facts and perpetuating untruths.

You’ve completely lost me. I have no idea what you are on about.

But you depicted a timeline of events and behaviours that are not borne out by the documentation and the court pleadings in the case?

Eh?

You have sought to equate Ioan and Alice in terms of their conduct at the very least.

Eh?

In fact your initial posts were very much framing him as the person in the wrong.

Eh?

So much bullshit.

As I’ve said - you’re really going to need to quote me here, because none of this has happened. I’ve not done any of this.

Making up outright lies is such an extreme response to someone not having the same opinion as you.

I think Ioan carries responsibility for the state of his relationship with his children. Deal with it, I guess.

TheSunnySide · 03/10/2025 20:15

In some ways Ioan Gruffudd has been quite clever. Using his new wife to fight back. She often uses her social media to attempt to change the narrative to one where she is the victim of Alice Evans despite Alice Evans barely referencing Bianca these days.

IIRC Bianca is still upset about some rabid fans sending some stuff in the post about disability aids etc.

she is also full of faux rage and pity about a couple of made up stories some nobodies posted on her Instagram after she encouraged them to.

it serves Ioan Gruffudd very well as it distracts from his poor parenting choices in the months after he left Alice Evans.

I am sure many women have experience of their ex partner being terrible at the parenting thing once they have to attempt to do it on their own. Ioan seems to have been no different.

  1. Unable to effectively parent and deal with his kids’ issues as they arose.
  2. Unable to understand that their behaviour was the result of his behaviour.
  3. Blaming his ex wife for not being a good parent when their behaviour under his care was not what he expected.
this is such a typical response from a parent who left the hard graft to their spouse for so long.
Marinade · 03/10/2025 20:22

@Vivi0

You misrepresented the situation with his children seeking to blame him for the unfortunate parental alienation imposed by Alice. Saying his children were failed by him very badly. Completely wrong.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:50

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:36
It’s not safe for him to have his children?
Are you serious?
He should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else. His children have been failed by HIM very badly.
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They are physically violent, cause damage, make false allegations and one has previously run out of the building after doing the previous list.
Alice has brainwashed them to the point having them live with them is dangerous for both Ioan and Bianca and also dangerous for the girls as they have demonstrated they will put themselves in dangerous situations during altercations with their father and stepmother.
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Marinade · 03/10/2025 20:25

@Vivi0

See your comments below about people harrassing Alice. She is the one with DVRO and is the only legally defined domestic abuser. You are delusional, sadly. Get real.

It’s such a waste of time trying appeal to any of these people to see the situation from the perspective of Ioan’s children.
They have as much contempt for Ioan’s children as they do for their mother.
It’s deeply disturbing.
Most people can see that Ioan hasn’t fought half as much as he should have done for his children. And that he’s made some really questionable decisions regarding his new relationship and prioritising that relationship over his children’s wellbeing.
It is completely reasonable to take the position that the children have been let down by both their mother and their father, and that regardless of what has went on between the parents, individually, neither parent seems capable of putting the girls and their needs first.
However, a specific group of individuals have essentially been harrassing Ioan’s ex wife for years, stalking the internet for any mention of her or Ioan and spamming the comments with ABUSER, COURT DOCUMENTS, FACTS, ABUSE APOLOGIST blah, blah, blah.
They have descended on this thread and it’s really best not to engage with them.

Marinade · 03/10/2025 20:27

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 19:43

You’ve completely lost me. I have no idea what you are on about.

But you depicted a timeline of events and behaviours that are not borne out by the documentation and the court pleadings in the case?

Eh?

You have sought to equate Ioan and Alice in terms of their conduct at the very least.

Eh?

In fact your initial posts were very much framing him as the person in the wrong.

Eh?

So much bullshit.

As I’ve said - you’re really going to need to quote me here, because none of this has happened. I’ve not done any of this.

Making up outright lies is such an extreme response to someone not having the same opinion as you.

I think Ioan carries responsibility for the state of his relationship with his children. Deal with it, I guess.

You, are the liar, my dear.

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 20:28

Marinade · 03/10/2025 20:22

@Vivi0

You misrepresented the situation with his children seeking to blame him for the unfortunate parental alienation imposed by Alice. Saying his children were failed by him very badly. Completely wrong.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:50

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:36
It’s not safe for him to have his children?
Are you serious?
He should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else. His children have been failed by HIM very badly.
Show quote history

They are physically violent, cause damage, make false allegations and one has previously run out of the building after doing the previous list.
Alice has brainwashed them to the point having them live with them is dangerous for both Ioan and Bianca and also dangerous for the girls as they have demonstrated they will put themselves in dangerous situations during altercations with their father and stepmother.
Quote
React

You misrepresented the situation with his children seeking to blame him for the unfortunate parental alienation imposed by Alice. Saying his children were failed by him very badly. Completely wrong.

Oh wow, this is brilliant!

Alice probably has engaged in parental alienation. Yes.

But Ioan has failed his children very badly. He prioritised a new relationship when his children needed him the most.

It’s absolutely wild that you see that as me “misrepresenting the situation”.

I’m not completely wrong. I just don’t agree with you.

So immature and childish.

Vivi0 · 03/10/2025 20:30

Marinade · 03/10/2025 20:25

@Vivi0

See your comments below about people harrassing Alice. She is the one with DVRO and is the only legally defined domestic abuser. You are delusional, sadly. Get real.

It’s such a waste of time trying appeal to any of these people to see the situation from the perspective of Ioan’s children.
They have as much contempt for Ioan’s children as they do for their mother.
It’s deeply disturbing.
Most people can see that Ioan hasn’t fought half as much as he should have done for his children. And that he’s made some really questionable decisions regarding his new relationship and prioritising that relationship over his children’s wellbeing.
It is completely reasonable to take the position that the children have been let down by both their mother and their father, and that regardless of what has went on between the parents, individually, neither parent seems capable of putting the girls and their needs first.
However, a specific group of individuals have essentially been harrassing Ioan’s ex wife for years, stalking the internet for any mention of her or Ioan and spamming the comments with ABUSER, COURT DOCUMENTS, FACTS, ABUSE APOLOGIST blah, blah, blah.
They have descended on this thread and it’s really best not to engage with them.

See your comments below about people harrassing Alice. She is the one with DVRO and is the only legally defined domestic abuser. You are delusional, sadly. Get real.

Alice does have a DVRO. Rightly.

But Tattle have conducted a campaign of online harassment against Alice.

Both things are true.

Can both things not be true? Does one negate the other in your world?

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