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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 08:02

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 07:35

Defenders of Alice, you do realise how we know even YOU can’t defend her? It’s because instead of discussing HER behaviour, you try to derail discussions by focusing on whether someone reads Tattle or if something is/or was posted on Tattle or if court documents being public is good or bad etc. or ‘but….Ioan….’

Thank you, you have successfully admitted she is everything negative that has been said about her by way of your deflections. Sterling work 😂

Don’t bother replying, some of us can’t and won’t devote all our time like you replying over and over again. We’re not overinvested like you are because although you won’t understand, we have lives, jobs and people who want to spend time with us.

Ending to say I’m enjoying ‘Alkie Alice and her adventures as a single mum’. I’m sure I’ll enjoy the sequel even ‘Alkie Alice and her adventures in a one person tent’ when she’s homeless and the children don’t want anything to do with her. The stupid drunk really did play herself, what a spectacular failure she is.

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No I would imagine you are far to busy combing through the court files

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 08:04

Notatallanamechange · 02/10/2025 23:44

Correct. Yes.

I honestly don’t care that I’ve looked a publicly available documents. Particularly when I’ve done so to get facts, rather than Evan’s’ shite on social media.

Quite simple really, facts vs crazy.

And these facts change your life how? Do they enrich it?

Baninarama · 03/10/2025 08:40

GoGas · 02/10/2025 23:39

His public persona has been damaged by this, he did that not Alice.

He's thought of as just a dirty old man, he's an embarrasment to his daughters.

Bianca is an opportunist, a gold digger for fame and fortune.

She should have been kept as a fling but Bianca being the selfish entitled being she is, wanted the whole kit and kaboodle, wanting a married man to leave his first family.

Yes we know it happens, but it's not right or good.

I have no doubt that if an A lister wanted her she would transfer her affections, but that won't happen, no one will touch her.

The lack of support for Alice by others in the entertainment industry, is probably due to fear of being being dragged into this debacle. I'm sure there is quiet support for her and the children.

Bianca is no angel.

Wow - those are some mental gymnastics. Shame it's not an Olympic sport or you would have found your calling.

I doubt he's thought of as a dirty old man - a quick Google says George and Amal Clooney have a bigger age gap, actually (17 years vs their 14). Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively are 11 years apart so not that different, either.

Again, Google says Bianca is independently wealthy. Her instagram suggests she works steadily. Plus, she's no grasping starlet - she has a chronic condition, so he must love her to choose to support her through her flare ups. And as for 'flaunting herself' - I've seen women wearing fewer clothes at the Oscars.

Let's face it - if I worked in Hollywood I wouldn't go near employing someone with a DVRO. Even Mel Gibson found getting work hard after he was charged with domestic violence, so that's nothing specific to Alice.

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 09:34

Alice is getting her accessories from her youngest (who used to do Aerial Silk classes).

If she has to use a piece of material (designed to hold a human) to disguise her chin/neck/tummy, the activity she should be doing at 2.30am is Peloton, not drunkenly abusing neighbours.

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 09:39

Baninarama · 03/10/2025 08:40

Wow - those are some mental gymnastics. Shame it's not an Olympic sport or you would have found your calling.

I doubt he's thought of as a dirty old man - a quick Google says George and Amal Clooney have a bigger age gap, actually (17 years vs their 14). Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively are 11 years apart so not that different, either.

Again, Google says Bianca is independently wealthy. Her instagram suggests she works steadily. Plus, she's no grasping starlet - she has a chronic condition, so he must love her to choose to support her through her flare ups. And as for 'flaunting herself' - I've seen women wearing fewer clothes at the Oscars.

Let's face it - if I worked in Hollywood I wouldn't go near employing someone with a DVRO. Even Mel Gibson found getting work hard after he was charged with domestic violence, so that's nothing specific to Alice.

It’s an interesting point you’ve raised here comparing Mel Gibson and Alice. Mel Gibson went to court based on a criminal charges whereas Alice’s DARVO is based on a civil case and not criminal so she hasn’t been criminally charged with anything. Do correct me if I’m wrong

Charredtea · 03/10/2025 09:47

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 05:09

Read the court docs, he tried very, very hard to be an active, present parent in his daughter’s lives. Why do you think he didn’t?

Also he didn’t move thousands of miles away at all. He stayed in LA (is still there) to be near them.

Funny enough no I haven’t read the court documents. I’m no Erin brokovitch but if the mum is such an abuser I’d expect more evidence of him fighting for his kids than a few armchair accusers telling me to ‘read court documents ‘
alicd is clearly not a safe person for kids to be around, he is sunning himself wherever, thousands of miles away or just next door, I don’t care what his address is but there’s a post about him here and Ive commented on what u have seen and what most people are saying and seeing (those people who h ve ent made if their life’s work to study Alice forensically whilst completely ignoring everything that he and his new partner are posting online as well as his own career trajectory continuing while his kids are stuck with a mum who seems to have lost her shit since the split.
Come at me with all the facts you like about his postcode or calling her an abuser, it’s not my job to read court documents but this is a public forum with a post about a case that’s been made hugely public.
Ive seen both side publicly play out and if I was his kids and saw his and Bianca’s socials whilst being stuck with an unraveled mum I’d be devastated.
i grew up with a mentally ill parent and my other parent went off and had a new life because the mad one made it so difficult for the other parent and family to be involved and I know that the other side of my family regret hugely that they didn’t fight harder for me

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 10:02

Shout out to all the people out there who don’t have a criminal record which means (by abuse apologists) that you never abused anyone!!

To name just a few people who don’t have a record and are totally vindicated

Donald Trump
Jimmy Saville
Chris Noth
Russell Brand
Kevin Spacey
Andrew Windsor
Mario Lopez
Woody Allen
Michael Jackson

If you’re on this list, don’t worry, there’ll always be someone willing to defend you (they probably don’t have children but if they did, I’m sure they’d let you have all the unsupervised access you would ever ask for to their children because…, you don’t have a criminal record)

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DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 10:09

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 10:02

Shout out to all the people out there who don’t have a criminal record which means (by abuse apologists) that you never abused anyone!!

To name just a few people who don’t have a record and are totally vindicated

Donald Trump
Jimmy Saville
Chris Noth
Russell Brand
Kevin Spacey
Andrew Windsor
Mario Lopez
Woody Allen
Michael Jackson

If you’re on this list, don’t worry, there’ll always be someone willing to defend you (they probably don’t have children but if they did, I’m sure they’d let you have all the unsupervised access you would ever ask for to their children because…, you don’t have a criminal record)

Merlin I’ve only pointed out that she didn’t have a criminal conviction. Criminal convictions are held to a different standard than civil action. A lot of folks on here said they are only interested in facts and this is a fact that she hasn’t appeared before a criminal court. I believe prosecutors dropped any criminal proceedings in 2023. I’m surprised those who have far more knowledge about this case due to the many hours months years trawlling through court documents wouldn’t be aware of this

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 11:02

Oops let me add OJ Simpson. As civil courts apparently hold people to a different standard, I can now sleep at night knowing a criminal court found OJ didn’t batter his wife and slaughter her and her friend so he was innocent.

If I was sticking up for an abuser like OJ or Alice, I’d want to make the distinction between criminal vs civil too. I’d ignore every piece of public evidence (e.g. Alice’s lack of challenge to her DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESTRAINING ORDER) because I’d rather retain pride on an anonymous forum than admit I’d been the equivalent of teamOJ defence and I’d been suckered into defending an abuser because I was blinded by them appearing on TV a couple of times.

To the defenders of Alice, I really pity you that rather than climb back down that ladder, and admit you were an a mark for someone like Alice to exploit, you’ll just keep defending in a sunken cost fallacy.

I really am done now, trying to reason with the likes of Karen from Redbank, Marcia from Tomball, Becky/Amy (definitely not from NZ) etc. is like trying to reason with an 1980’s binary computer- they’re incapable of processing information with any nuance

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 11:07

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 11:02

Oops let me add OJ Simpson. As civil courts apparently hold people to a different standard, I can now sleep at night knowing a criminal court found OJ didn’t batter his wife and slaughter her and her friend so he was innocent.

If I was sticking up for an abuser like OJ or Alice, I’d want to make the distinction between criminal vs civil too. I’d ignore every piece of public evidence (e.g. Alice’s lack of challenge to her DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESTRAINING ORDER) because I’d rather retain pride on an anonymous forum than admit I’d been the equivalent of teamOJ defence and I’d been suckered into defending an abuser because I was blinded by them appearing on TV a couple of times.

To the defenders of Alice, I really pity you that rather than climb back down that ladder, and admit you were an a mark for someone like Alice to exploit, you’ll just keep defending in a sunken cost fallacy.

I really am done now, trying to reason with the likes of Karen from Redbank, Marcia from Tomball, Becky/Amy (definitely not from NZ) etc. is like trying to reason with an 1980’s binary computer- they’re incapable of processing information with any nuance

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That’s all very well Merlin but that still doesn’t take away from the fact that she hasn’t been criminally convicted. Interestingly I asked the fountain of all knowledge the internet did Ioan go for sole custody given the evidence he provided and I was shocked to see that he didn’t. He went for joint custody. Now given what you’ve and many posters have said about the abusive environment those girls are in wouldn’t you have thought as a concerned and loving father you would want your precious girls away from Alice and out of that dreadful situation? Or was is okay they only had to endure it for part of the week?

TheNeedyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 11:11

GoGas · 02/10/2025 23:57

Yes, stop trying to gaslight people that is the fact and the truth.

I have no doubt she chased the old man.

Still younger than Alice though.

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 11:22

Charredtea · 03/10/2025 09:47

Funny enough no I haven’t read the court documents. I’m no Erin brokovitch but if the mum is such an abuser I’d expect more evidence of him fighting for his kids than a few armchair accusers telling me to ‘read court documents ‘
alicd is clearly not a safe person for kids to be around, he is sunning himself wherever, thousands of miles away or just next door, I don’t care what his address is but there’s a post about him here and Ive commented on what u have seen and what most people are saying and seeing (those people who h ve ent made if their life’s work to study Alice forensically whilst completely ignoring everything that he and his new partner are posting online as well as his own career trajectory continuing while his kids are stuck with a mum who seems to have lost her shit since the split.
Come at me with all the facts you like about his postcode or calling her an abuser, it’s not my job to read court documents but this is a public forum with a post about a case that’s been made hugely public.
Ive seen both side publicly play out and if I was his kids and saw his and Bianca’s socials whilst being stuck with an unraveled mum I’d be devastated.
i grew up with a mentally ill parent and my other parent went off and had a new life because the mad one made it so difficult for the other parent and family to be involved and I know that the other side of my family regret hugely that they didn’t fight harder for me

So Ioan doesn’t post on his socials aside from a couple of work bits.

You say you want to see evidence he fought for them but not the court docs. What do you suggest would be suitable evidence for you?

There were photos in the press of him following them home when they ran away from visitation… witness accounts from his neighbour and another independent child psychologist. Therapy appointments all paid for by him. Overpayments of child support by him. Court orders protecting information about the children’s education and medical info - initiated by him.

It’s all there. What would you suggest would be adequate evidence for you?

yesvalery · 03/10/2025 11:24

TheNeedyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 11:11

Still younger than Alice though.

And no turkey neck to hide behind those huge scarves!

Merlin69 · 03/10/2025 11:33

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LovingRoseLurker · 03/10/2025 11:37

GoGas · 02/10/2025 23:39

His public persona has been damaged by this, he did that not Alice.

He's thought of as just a dirty old man, he's an embarrasment to his daughters.

Bianca is an opportunist, a gold digger for fame and fortune.

She should have been kept as a fling but Bianca being the selfish entitled being she is, wanted the whole kit and kaboodle, wanting a married man to leave his first family.

Yes we know it happens, but it's not right or good.

I have no doubt that if an A lister wanted her she would transfer her affections, but that won't happen, no one will touch her.

The lack of support for Alice by others in the entertainment industry, is probably due to fear of being being dragged into this debacle. I'm sure there is quiet support for her and the children.

Bianca is no angel.

The absolute delusion in this one is too funny! It boils down to “how dare he leave me for behaving badly, how dare he provide evidence of my appalling behaviour and parental alienation in court documents that exposed my behaviour, how DARE he move on and how DARE he step back to prevent me using the kids as swords and shields”.

GoGas · 03/10/2025 11:37

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 11:22

So Ioan doesn’t post on his socials aside from a couple of work bits.

You say you want to see evidence he fought for them but not the court docs. What do you suggest would be suitable evidence for you?

There were photos in the press of him following them home when they ran away from visitation… witness accounts from his neighbour and another independent child psychologist. Therapy appointments all paid for by him. Overpayments of child support by him. Court orders protecting information about the children’s education and medical info - initiated by him.

It’s all there. What would you suggest would be adequate evidence for you?

Looks like he's more interested in that orange dog to me.

You can tell exactly what his relationship is with his girls by that picture of him kissing Bianca's stomach.
A father who was actually aware of how damaged his children are, would not post such a picture.

It's in bad taste due to the toxic nature of their break up and abandonment of the girls, he seems to be taking instruction from a young woman who hasn't got a clue about age appropriate marriage.

He's crossed so many boundaries, within the industry, within the rules of marriage, his complete lack of respect for his family is astonishing.

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 11:38

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Baninarama · 03/10/2025 11:44

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 09:39

It’s an interesting point you’ve raised here comparing Mel Gibson and Alice. Mel Gibson went to court based on a criminal charges whereas Alice’s DARVO is based on a civil case and not criminal so she hasn’t been criminally charged with anything. Do correct me if I’m wrong

Fair point, so I had a Google:

Getting a restraining order in California involves filing forms with the court, providing evidence of the harassment or threats, and attending a court hearing where a judge decides whether to issue a temporary order and then a more permanent one. The difficulty varies, as the required proof is "clear and convincing" for civil harassment orders and "preponderance of the evidence" for domestic violence orders. Having strong, detailed evidence is crucial, as judges will not grant an order based on mere allegations.

So, the judge therefore looked at the evidence and decided that the events occurred, on balance of proof, then issued a DVRO. Seems you need more proof than just a civil case, so not too much difference from a criminal case after all.

Before you continue to Google Search

https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=c34798ad9f158019&q=domestic+violence+orders&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiEr42f64eQAxXRL1kFHWt0D2wQxccNegQIZxAC&mstk=AUtExfA5gb70slfBZGYaOvwDw38k-ThByDogXToyUJkhIxXX279h5_ZZm0ddfNbSFXoRHjb017_vf1XhB8USawyx4ePg1XoG5kqQJEkpYaawXe8NvuqsjqRJqhDfz4tvpi2qz58&csui=3

EeewDavid · 03/10/2025 11:49

GoGas · 03/10/2025 11:37

Looks like he's more interested in that orange dog to me.

You can tell exactly what his relationship is with his girls by that picture of him kissing Bianca's stomach.
A father who was actually aware of how damaged his children are, would not post such a picture.

It's in bad taste due to the toxic nature of their break up and abandonment of the girls, he seems to be taking instruction from a young woman who hasn't got a clue about age appropriate marriage.

He's crossed so many boundaries, within the industry, within the rules of marriage, his complete lack of respect for his family is astonishing.

Whereas Alice’s boundaries are just fine 👀

DipsyDee · 03/10/2025 11:50

Baninarama · 03/10/2025 11:44

Fair point, so I had a Google:

Getting a restraining order in California involves filing forms with the court, providing evidence of the harassment or threats, and attending a court hearing where a judge decides whether to issue a temporary order and then a more permanent one. The difficulty varies, as the required proof is "clear and convincing" for civil harassment orders and "preponderance of the evidence" for domestic violence orders. Having strong, detailed evidence is crucial, as judges will not grant an order based on mere allegations.

So, the judge therefore looked at the evidence and decided that the events occurred, on balance of proof, then issued a DVRO. Seems you need more proof than just a civil case, so not too much difference from a criminal case after all.

Fair enough I’m not familiar with US law but it does still stand that she hasn’t been criminally convicted and that prosecutors dropped the case in 2023.

Nicknacky · 03/10/2025 11:52

GoGas · 03/10/2025 11:37

Looks like he's more interested in that orange dog to me.

You can tell exactly what his relationship is with his girls by that picture of him kissing Bianca's stomach.
A father who was actually aware of how damaged his children are, would not post such a picture.

It's in bad taste due to the toxic nature of their break up and abandonment of the girls, he seems to be taking instruction from a young woman who hasn't got a clue about age appropriate marriage.

He's crossed so many boundaries, within the industry, within the rules of marriage, his complete lack of respect for his family is astonishing.

What’s an “orange dog”?

And Bianca is in her 30’s and has been married before.

GoGas · 03/10/2025 11:58

LovingRoseLurker · 03/10/2025 11:37

The absolute delusion in this one is too funny! It boils down to “how dare he leave me for behaving badly, how dare he provide evidence of my appalling behaviour and parental alienation in court documents that exposed my behaviour, how DARE he move on and how DARE he step back to prevent me using the kids as swords and shields”.

What came first.

I am willing to believe Ioan neglected, devalued and dehumanised Alice and then implemented the script, like so many do.

The vileness of it is though is that he or rather they have enlisted the support of fans through social media to support their 'great mental health' which basically means they are performing DARVO on a huge world stage.

"We're so together, happy, healthy, sound of mind, so much better than Alice"

Unfortunately they are the ones that wrecked Alice's state of mind, and also the childrens, they are abusers, very public one's.
I honestly don't know why many people support what is quite obviously turning the victim into the purpitraitor, they have continuously provoked her.

Who are these online crusaders, men who hate ex wives, friends and family of Bianca trying to lig onto Ioan's stardom, second wives who hate first wives, those with age gap relationships who need to demonise disgarded wives, those who believe Cinderella stories exist and think a Hollywood star will fall for a nobody.

Crazy fans and support, for what to ruin a woman's life and her childrens.
If anything happens to Alice , I hope they will come after some of the very fervent supporters of abuse on social media, because what Alice has had to go through would I'm sure send anyone mad.

The whole thing is disgusting.

Merula · 03/10/2025 12:15

GoGas · 03/10/2025 11:58

What came first.

I am willing to believe Ioan neglected, devalued and dehumanised Alice and then implemented the script, like so many do.

The vileness of it is though is that he or rather they have enlisted the support of fans through social media to support their 'great mental health' which basically means they are performing DARVO on a huge world stage.

"We're so together, happy, healthy, sound of mind, so much better than Alice"

Unfortunately they are the ones that wrecked Alice's state of mind, and also the childrens, they are abusers, very public one's.
I honestly don't know why many people support what is quite obviously turning the victim into the purpitraitor, they have continuously provoked her.

Who are these online crusaders, men who hate ex wives, friends and family of Bianca trying to lig onto Ioan's stardom, second wives who hate first wives, those with age gap relationships who need to demonise disgarded wives, those who believe Cinderella stories exist and think a Hollywood star will fall for a nobody.

Crazy fans and support, for what to ruin a woman's life and her childrens.
If anything happens to Alice , I hope they will come after some of the very fervent supporters of abuse on social media, because what Alice has had to go through would I'm sure send anyone mad.

The whole thing is disgusting.

Cool story bro. Shame it's totally untrue.

Justdancevance · 03/10/2025 12:16

What has happened to Alice is down to Alice. She is the architect of her own downfall, and seems determined to drag as many people down with her.

She’d be far better working than spending her days arguing with strangers on the internet.

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