I grew up in poverty. Really desperate poverty. Homeless at times as a child. My DM had terrible MH and was a single parent not keeping it together. Didn’t work (until many years later when she got better, went to college and got a job).
Benefits were the safety net that kept me out of care, enabled me to go to sixth form (EMA), and then on to university (I was the first in my family. Graduated from a RG uni with a starred first).
Im now a graduate and higher rate taxpayer. I’m also a single parent to one child, and have at times when he was very small had to claim UC top ups for childcare because my salary at that time couldn’t keep up with basic outgoings.
So yeah, I have a better work ethic than my mother, and a better life. I contribute more to the economy and society. And more importantly, my son has a better life than I did. He is securely housed. Goes to school every day. Has never seen domestic violence. Plays extra curricular sports. Has private tuition for his SEND needs. He will (pray god) go on to achieve yet more, and contribute yet more, than I do.
Benefits broke a cycle of poverty for my family. That’s why they make sense. Because for every kid that stays stuck- as some sadly will-, more will get out, just like I did. And then we all benefit.