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Any doctors about? Panicking

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Howldens · 26/09/2025 22:10

I will try to keep this brief but backstory relevant. Would be so grateful for any words of wisdom.

I'm in New York for work. I am experiencing a heavy bleed (mid-cycle). Yesterday it was so bad that I was bleeding through sanitary wear and trousers every hour. today I woke in pain and heavy bleeding - a big clot plopped out in the shower - like two fingers width & length.
bleeding all day & more clots but not so massive.

im panicking bc about 10 yrs ago i had some retained matter after an abortion but I was on holiday in a developing country, experienced crazy heavy bleeding, passed out & got taken to a hospital, had my womb scraped under general anaesthetic and lots of antibiotics. I think I nearly died- but didn’t ever really get full picture.

because of that I am finding this really scary and triggering. I don’t know if I need to go to hospital - could there be another infection?

I messed up my HRT - oestrogen gel & progesterone tables and I’m currently taking the progesterone at night but should I stop as not sure I’m taking it right.

i went to urgent care this morning - temp & heart rate fine. They said there was nothing more they could do and next step in treatment is A&E for ultrasound & bloods if I wanted to seek further treatment. I’m not sure if i should go?

I feel very very far from home & im panicking.

I think I am fine now (not dizzy like before - can’t decide if I am pale or not) but my fear is I go downhill overnight like last time and I can’t help myself. Last time it was my husband who got me help when I collapsed I but I’m alone here.

OP posts:
TrickyD · 27/09/2025 11:18

Get home
Speak to your employer about their liability to insure you
Join a Union.

Mrspenguinsschoolforfreaks · 27/09/2025 11:19

Howldens · 27/09/2025 11:15

Hi all,
just checking in to say a huge thankyou for the reassurance.

Just woke up & the bleeding is much better right now. It must have been the progesterone issues. I am 45 and still have periods. like others I never had ANY issues before now.

I will check with work on the insurance thing as I agree it’s incredibly unusual not to cover employees when travelling (Hence not sorting it for myself).

now to figure out how I can get every pair of trousers I have brought with me (inc pyjamas) washed without having any clean bottoms to put on at all 😵‍💫💆🏽‍♀️ hotel does not have laundry service so I need to go outside to do it!!!

Thankyou for posting - you really helped me last night & this am when I was spiralling hard.

I’m so pleased to hear it’s better this morning. I used to have very heavy periods and would get incredibly anxious, sometimes I had panic attacks, particularly if it was bad late at night and I was on my own. In the longer term it’s worth thinking about the Mirena coil - it has changed my life. Good luck with the laundry!

Katrinawaves · 27/09/2025 13:21

Howldens · 27/09/2025 11:15

Hi all,
just checking in to say a huge thankyou for the reassurance.

Just woke up & the bleeding is much better right now. It must have been the progesterone issues. I am 45 and still have periods. like others I never had ANY issues before now.

I will check with work on the insurance thing as I agree it’s incredibly unusual not to cover employees when travelling (Hence not sorting it for myself).

now to figure out how I can get every pair of trousers I have brought with me (inc pyjamas) washed without having any clean bottoms to put on at all 😵‍💫💆🏽‍♀️ hotel does not have laundry service so I need to go outside to do it!!!

Thankyou for posting - you really helped me last night & this am when I was spiralling hard.

Does the hotel have a concierge service? If they do ask them to collect a bag from your room and send it out to an express laundry and deliver it back to you.

If they don’t perhaps you could arrange for a laundrette to collect from the hotel and return it. There are businesses in London which do this so I’d be surprised if there weren’t the same on big US cities if you google

Hedgerowbustle · 27/09/2025 22:43

Poor thing. Agree your work should have covered you. Def make sure you sort that out with them when you're back. Are any of your trousers quick drying? Can you hand-wash a pair in the sink and dry on the towel rail? Do you have any long tops/coat with you?

200320max · 28/09/2025 00:06

Cold water soak with fairy liquid

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