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Any advice on how to talk to my husband kindly

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EmberR · 25/09/2025 17:40

I’ve been with my husband 6 years. Last few months have felt really hard we are just not on the same team. He’s not been very kind to me with things I’m upset about (when I’m crying he just doesn’t help / hug /console me). It hurts.

Also he is just so stubborn and thinks he’s right about everything. I am always apologising for my opinion and what I think. Things to do with money, our home, our child. I just get vetod all the time.

I really love him and he’s a good man. I just can’t find a way to bring this up positively. I either get upset and angry and ignore him (doesn’t help) or I try and raise it and he can’t see my perspective.

I’m sure this is a tale as old as time. But any advice please?

OP posts:
Elsvieta · 09/01/2026 13:11

"Vetoed"? What, like you ask him for permission to do things and he says yes or no, as if you were a child and he was your dad? If so, no, he's not a good man. What happens if you do the things he's "vetoed" anyway?

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