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Does anyone else feel like a pain in the bum when they need to see their GP?

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GPproblems · 24/09/2025 12:51

Maybe it’s just me, but I always do. I think it’s because nothing ever turns out to be serious so I feel like I shouldn’t be using the GP/health service.

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whatevenwasthat · 24/09/2025 12:56

Yep. I have a slight pain in a part of my body which I should get looked at, because a few years ago I had to have a benign growth removed from the opposite side. There's potential that it could be something sinister, but I can't feel a lump so feel like I'd be wasting their time to say "this hurts when I poke it".

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 12:57

whatevenwasthat · 24/09/2025 12:56

Yep. I have a slight pain in a part of my body which I should get looked at, because a few years ago I had to have a benign growth removed from the opposite side. There's potential that it could be something sinister, but I can't feel a lump so feel like I'd be wasting their time to say "this hurts when I poke it".

I get that!! I had surgery eight weeks ago and have a blocked up ear which I think comes from that. I feel like an idiot going because of a blocked ear!

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Mauhea · 24/09/2025 12:59

I can be actively dying (and in one case was on the road to sepsis, so sort of was) and I still feel like an inconvenience whenever I go to the GP!

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:01

Mauhea · 24/09/2025 12:59

I can be actively dying (and in one case was on the road to sepsis, so sort of was) and I still feel like an inconvenience whenever I go to the GP!

I’ve had a fever of over 40 and felt like a pain when I called! It’s just awful

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smallglassbottle · 24/09/2025 13:10

I need my gallbladder out, but I just can't face going to see the GP for a referral. I'm overweight and they'll just despise me and I'll feel even worse. I just treat everything by myself at home, but it's often a struggle.

localhere · 24/09/2025 13:18

Yes! I’ve had a lifetime of doctor avoiding and now I have a few ailments that I can’t deal with myself, I HATE ‘bothering’ the doctor.

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