The part you are missing is….
Some people are still shielding, yes, that is because their personal risk from covid or any infection, hasn’t changed, whether it’s been 1 year or 5 years or 10 years, they still are immunocompromised or have something that makes them more vulnerable to infection. The fact that people go around spreading infections means that it is actually more dangerous for these people than at the height of the pandemic because there are no longer safeguards in place (especially in healthcare settings.)
These people can be different from some other people who have decided they are happy to not keep getting ill and continue to live their daily lives whilst taking some precautions. For example, Violet, who is still giving speeches at the UN and attending premieres etc whilst taking these precautions and campaigning for a better future. Many productions and performances are still taking precautions. Taylor Swifts recent tour for example, she had “a bubble” and they used masks and testing to prevent illness. Many movie sets and tv sets still have covid precautions to reduce the risk of infection on the cast and crew. These things aren’t front and centre, so it’s easy to pretend they don’t exist.
I can absolutely understand the psychological aspect of the groups still isolating, but I can also understand that people just telling them it’s all over, when it is still a risk for them, is much more damaging psychologically.
The risk is still there for them. Gaslighting them to thinking it’s not, and calling it their anxiety and OCD is massively missing the point, that the risk hasn’t gone away.
So whilst on a population level, covid may seem mild, on an individual level, for those people any infection could mean weeks of hospital stay, never recovering to baseline or death. And the worst thing is people like you telling them to get over it and making it out to be a personal failure and their own mental health issues.
Without considering that the back to normal crowd also need to deal with their own anxiety.
And the best way isn’t to pretend it didn’t happen or doesn’t still happen.
IMO a big rise in mental health diagnosis is down to there actually being lots of “scary” things happening in the world and the people who should be helping work through these thoughts, actually feed it by not accepting it as a threat, and making it a pathological issue in the person feeling it, rather than acknowledging the actual threat Eg. Climate change, war, health.
People don’t need an ignorant reassurer - they need a competence and understanding of the facts.