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Why is my husbands phone showing wrong location

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Justacigarette · 22/09/2025 20:06

DH and I share location on our phones.

Went to check his location to see if he was on way home from gym. But it was in a very random place that he would never be. I was a bit worried that someone had stolen his phone.
suddenly the phone showed that he was at the gym (phone had been in a locker)

the locations were a couple of miles away.

any idea what could have caused this?

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Ansjovis · 23/09/2025 20:15

Mine has been extremely inaccurate in the past. My family like to track me when I go running and I went out for a run and got a message "I didn't know you were in New York!" and I hadn't left the UK. Another time I had just come in and my husband showed me on his phone that I was in Beijing!

Justacigarette · 23/09/2025 22:41

Delatron · 23/09/2025 17:15

But OP it is causing problems because you were worried it showed the wrong location. And started a thread on it - so it must have clearly been on your mind.

Whatever the cause for the worry - it was ill- founded as we’ve seen the tech is wrong. So it is really useful if it’s inaccurate?

My concerns about the location were nothing at all related to suspicions that my husband was having an affair. I actually thought his phone had been stolen.

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Justacigarette · 23/09/2025 22:42

Dfg15 · 23/09/2025 15:04

My phone once said I was in Pennsylvania, I was actually at work in Welwyn Garden City.

Do you work for Tesco?

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mondaytosunday · 23/09/2025 22:53

Yes sometimes my DD at uni shows her in the middle of a field somewhere. Then she texts me and is in the library. Just take it that the satellite is off for a bit then will correct later.

CountryQueen · 24/09/2025 09:23

Justacigarette · 23/09/2025 22:41

My concerns about the location were nothing at all related to suspicions that my husband was having an affair. I actually thought his phone had been stolen.

That doesn’t make it any better. Worrying that so many grown adults are normalising this.

It isn’t useful in the way you’re pretending it is. If poor DH can’t wait 20 mins to eat when he gets home then he can text when he’s leaving the gym. Or tell you what time he’ll be back as he leaves. Or, wild idea I know, just wait a few minutes.

RubySquid · 24/09/2025 09:25

poetryandwine · 22/09/2025 20:13

My phone that is with me sometimes shows I am in a city I’ve travelled to a few days before.

I will ask google for walking directions to someplace new within a couple of miles and it will tell me that it will take 22 hours or something.

This . I get exactly the same

CountryQueen · 24/09/2025 09:25

mondaytosunday · 23/09/2025 22:53

Yes sometimes my DD at uni shows her in the middle of a field somewhere. Then she texts me and is in the library. Just take it that the satellite is off for a bit then will correct later.

But why are you checking?

Your adult daughter is away at uni, she’s moved out, living her life and learning to stand on her own two feet. Middle of the afternoon and she’s working in the library and her mum is sitting at home stalking her (with inaccurate results). It’s just fucking bizarre

RubySquid · 24/09/2025 09:28

Love4both · 23/09/2025 20:11

My DH hates it fay mealis ready the moment he comes through the door. He much prefers to wait 30 mins or so.

I'm the same I find it highly irritating having a plate. of food put in front of me the minute I step through the door. For heaven's sake let me got my shoes off, freshen up and have a cuppa first

Delatron · 24/09/2025 09:31

Justacigarette · 23/09/2025 22:41

My concerns about the location were nothing at all related to suspicions that my husband was having an affair. I actually thought his phone had been stolen.

I know - still a bit stressful and inaccurate..

Nobody needs to eat the minute they walk through the door. And I do think people love to track their spouses - just being nosey - and dress it up as checking when to get the dinner on…

Dfg15 · 24/09/2025 10:10

Justacigarette · 23/09/2025 22:42

Do you work for Tesco?

No, but it was on the same retail park

Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 10:16

CountryQueen · 24/09/2025 09:23

That doesn’t make it any better. Worrying that so many grown adults are normalising this.

It isn’t useful in the way you’re pretending it is. If poor DH can’t wait 20 mins to eat when he gets home then he can text when he’s leaving the gym. Or tell you what time he’ll be back as he leaves. Or, wild idea I know, just wait a few minutes.

Why is this bothering you so much how other adults are using technology? I agree, that in an abusive relationship, this could be used as a tool of abuse. But otherwise, why are you so wound up?

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Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 10:17

Dfg15 · 24/09/2025 10:10

No, but it was on the same retail park

I’m being nosey as I recognise the place from the back of tesco packaging, and imagine a beautiful town

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Clockstops · 24/09/2025 10:21

CurlewKate · 23/09/2025 08:40

Always makes me laugh to think of all these women timing the pasta so that their dh’s have it on the table the very second they step through the door…..

Doesn't pasta take like 7 minutes?

Clockstops · 24/09/2025 10:22

Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 10:16

Why is this bothering you so much how other adults are using technology? I agree, that in an abusive relationship, this could be used as a tool of abuse. But otherwise, why are you so wound up?

I think the idea that it's a perfectly normal thing to do (it isn't) normalises it for those who will abuse it.

CountryQueen · 24/09/2025 10:40

Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 10:16

Why is this bothering you so much how other adults are using technology? I agree, that in an abusive relationship, this could be used as a tool of abuse. But otherwise, why are you so wound up?

Mate, I’m not wound up. Nobody is tracking me 😂 I think maybe you are protesting just a little too much.

Let’s face facts. This relatively new phenomenon is not normal but grown adults are adamant that it is normal, they are justifying it with extremely loose and weak reasoning (pasta anyone?). Teenagers are leaving for uni and instead of a sense of freedom, responsibility and self sufficiency, they’ve got mummy sitting watching their every move and panicking when it suggests they are in a field or speeding down a river.

The fact you checked your husbands location when you already knew he was at the gym with your son is weird enough. But then you panicked because he was “somewhere he’d never go” (how do you know that I wonder?!) and then, hours later, it was still niggling at you enough that you made a thread about it.

Clockstops · 24/09/2025 10:47

Isn't a more normal (healthy?) arrangement simply that he tells you what time he'll be home/you tell him what time dinner will be? Or that he waits 7 minutes for the pasta to cook 🤣

babasaclover · 24/09/2025 10:48

@Justacigarette can’t believe how irate people are getting.

i think it’s a great tool for getting dinner sorted tbh and my daughter likes to track when daddy is nearly home and greet him at the door which is sweet :-)

when you go on WiFi it sometimes stops tracking location mine does this when I’m at the gym. Just take the location with a pinch of salt sometimes

Dfg15 · 24/09/2025 10:48

Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 10:17

I’m being nosey as I recognise the place from the back of tesco packaging, and imagine a beautiful town

Its a nice looking town, but i find it a bit soulless. There's a decent John Lewis, a big Sainsbury's, a few independent shops and lots of bars, restaurants and charity shops. Its worth a walk around if you're nearby but not really worth travelling to.

Changedforcontroversialpost · 24/09/2025 10:50

For clarity, I hate men in general and do not trust ANY of them. That said, my phone does this all the time. I don’t think it’s anything to worry about, I think it’s maybe just the closest tower etc. wouldn’t hurt to keep a check on it though.

MellowMint · 24/09/2025 11:11

It’s not always 100% accurate. Sometimes my husbands location show in somewhere completely random when I know he is on the tube, for example.

Justacigarette · 24/09/2025 12:07

CountryQueen · 24/09/2025 10:40

Mate, I’m not wound up. Nobody is tracking me 😂 I think maybe you are protesting just a little too much.

Let’s face facts. This relatively new phenomenon is not normal but grown adults are adamant that it is normal, they are justifying it with extremely loose and weak reasoning (pasta anyone?). Teenagers are leaving for uni and instead of a sense of freedom, responsibility and self sufficiency, they’ve got mummy sitting watching their every move and panicking when it suggests they are in a field or speeding down a river.

The fact you checked your husbands location when you already knew he was at the gym with your son is weird enough. But then you panicked because he was “somewhere he’d never go” (how do you know that I wonder?!) and then, hours later, it was still niggling at you enough that you made a thread about it.

I wasn’t panicking: more thinking that his phone was stolen and it was going to be a pain in the arse to sort out. But yeah, I was curious as to how accurate these trackers actually are

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