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To be annoyed with Royal Mail… and to ask for advice?

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Thefastandthecurious5 · 22/09/2025 11:14

I’ve been expecting a Royal Mail delivery for the last few days. For context, the item has come from abroad, but isn’t valuable - it’s just a food tray that I liked online and which has quite a lot of sentimental value for a few reasons, so I thought I’d order it.

They first tried to deliver it on Saturday, but no one was in, so I asked for it to be left in a safe place (enclosed porch) and re-delivered today.

I’ve now just had an email saying they tried to re-deliver it today but couldn’t, as no one was in (even though I asked for it to be left in a ‘safe place’ - the porch).

I’ve just checked the tracking service online, where they’ve said I’ve already requested a change (a re-delivery) so I need to check my confirmation email for more details. All that email says is this though: ‘If no one's home, we'll deliver your parcel to your chosen Safeplace, Enclosed porch. We’ll let you know when it's delivered.’

I don’t think I’m being U to be annoyed - I thought they would re-deliver it to the designated safe place even if no one is home (as they write in the email I quote above).

Does anyone know how long I need to wait, roughly, till they give me a re-delivery update? Thanks!

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GarlicBreadStan · 22/09/2025 11:36

No advice but Royal Mail have been absolutely shite over the past few months, if not longer (I don't get a lot of parcels or mail so I haven't noticed it as much as others might have). Hopefully you get your parcel soon! X

CherieBabySpliffUp · 22/09/2025 11:40

It's probably easier to go to the sorting office at this point.

Thefastandthecurious5 · 22/09/2025 13:44

Thanks Garlic and Cherie. I don’t think it’s worth me going to the sorting office yet, as I don’t actually know where the parcel is. I’m hoping I’ll get an update from Royal Mail about the parcel tomorrow morning. If I don’t hear back from them by then, I’m not really sure what my options are, as I can’t see any contact details on their website. I know this isn’t the biggest deal in the world, but their customer service is really rubbish.

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Glittertwins · 22/09/2025 13:51

Call the helpline, they were really helpful when my parcel was “refused delivery and return to sender” when I had already requested (and received confirmation back) an alternative delivery date.

Thefastandthecurious5 · 22/09/2025 17:05

Thanks for your messages all! Just to update I received the parcel about an hour ago, just as I was on hold to the RM helpline (oh the irony). Very happy to have finally got the parcel 😊

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