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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer

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strangerandstranger · 21/09/2025 23:22

To people who said her husband was hateful and what they preached was hateful, she just forgave the killer, as God would. Powerful speech.

The messed up young man who thought shooting man he didn't like was the answer, will go to prison and no longer be with his boyfriend. Erika Kirk no longer has her husband and her children have list their father.

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BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 11:56

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 11:50

Do you need to be spoonfed this information? The source where the numbers are from are clearly indicated.

But I suppose you could look at the poorest counties in America and see they are actually diverse, in that Native Americans, border towns and Appalachian regions are well represented in this list.

The crime problem isn’t there (they will have higher crime rates, yes. But they won’t be on the level of Jackson MI or St Louis

I believe you are missing my point.

I am not disputing the number of crimes involving black people. I am disputing your assertion this is down to their race. Overwhelming evidence points to socio economic factors being the main driver behind crime rates. Dispute this all you like, but you are disputing hard evidence. Peer reviewed studies.

I'd wager you have preconceived bias. I wonder why.

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 12:01

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 11:56

I believe you are missing my point.

I am not disputing the number of crimes involving black people. I am disputing your assertion this is down to their race. Overwhelming evidence points to socio economic factors being the main driver behind crime rates. Dispute this all you like, but you are disputing hard evidence. Peer reviewed studies.

I'd wager you have preconceived bias. I wonder why.

Edited

Yes, it’s all rather transparent.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:02

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 11:54

Please point out where I said that thx

You've implied it throughout.

You have associated violence with race while dismissing any other factors out of hand.

What other reasonable conclusion can one draw?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/09/2025 12:07

@RingoJuice Your replies are soaked in racism. Are you that comfortable with your words, that you haven't noticed.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:13

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 11:56

I believe you are missing my point.

I am not disputing the number of crimes involving black people. I am disputing your assertion this is down to their race. Overwhelming evidence points to socio economic factors being the main driver behind crime rates. Dispute this all you like, but you are disputing hard evidence. Peer reviewed studies.

I'd wager you have preconceived bias. I wonder why.

Edited

Wealthy black children go to prison at higher rates than the poor white children. The study is linked in the article if you want to look further. It also includes data on Hispanic children, which is rare (they are now more numerous than blacks in America and deserve to be considered a bit more in these sorts of comparisons)

www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/03/23/poor-white-kids-are-less-likely-to-go-to-prison-than-rich-black-kids

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 12:13

@Plastictreeesok I don’t want to jump into a debate that’s not mine (I don’t know where I sit on this one) - but hear me out- hypothetically , to say more black people commit crime doesn’t mean they are predisposed to it? It could be for cultural (eg rap, hip hop, idols and what is ‘cool’) or historical reasons, a need to fight (defend themselves), related to history of slavery or abuse, more broken homes and feelings of abandonment etc. But acknowledging the link (eg saying there is an observable black problem with violence) might mean that we can look deeper into WHY and how to solve it. It is partly socio economic, absolutely ,but is it more than that? If we can’t seriously consider it with our being called racist we can’t ever know. And you won’t find studies on it because people would be too scared to conduct them.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:15

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/09/2025 12:07

@RingoJuice Your replies are soaked in racism. Are you that comfortable with your words, that you haven't noticed.

Yes. Because I have said nothing racist.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:19

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:02

You've implied it throughout.

You have associated violence with race while dismissing any other factors out of hand.

What other reasonable conclusion can one draw?

Edited

I don’t accept the socioeconomic explanation. I don’t think poverty causes you to murder people. And think it’s insulting to people in real poverty to imply that.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:26

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:13

Wealthy black children go to prison at higher rates than the poor white children. The study is linked in the article if you want to look further. It also includes data on Hispanic children, which is rare (they are now more numerous than blacks in America and deserve to be considered a bit more in these sorts of comparisons)

www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/03/23/poor-white-kids-are-less-likely-to-go-to-prison-than-rich-black-kids

The disparity is a lot smaller the wealthier they are, which goes some way to proving my point.

But, you've looked at the economics factors, you now just need to consider the social factors. And then the penny will drop.

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 12:27

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/09/2025 12:07

@RingoJuice Your replies are soaked in racism. Are you that comfortable with your words, that you haven't noticed.

Indeed. The fact these posts have been deleted shows this too.

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 12:28

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 12:13

@Plastictreeesok I don’t want to jump into a debate that’s not mine (I don’t know where I sit on this one) - but hear me out- hypothetically , to say more black people commit crime doesn’t mean they are predisposed to it? It could be for cultural (eg rap, hip hop, idols and what is ‘cool’) or historical reasons, a need to fight (defend themselves), related to history of slavery or abuse, more broken homes and feelings of abandonment etc. But acknowledging the link (eg saying there is an observable black problem with violence) might mean that we can look deeper into WHY and how to solve it. It is partly socio economic, absolutely ,but is it more than that? If we can’t seriously consider it with our being called racist we can’t ever know. And you won’t find studies on it because people would be too scared to conduct them.

The racist posts have now been deleted.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:30

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:19

I don’t accept the socioeconomic explanation. I don’t think poverty causes you to murder people. And think it’s insulting to people in real poverty to imply that.

But the evidence doesn't care about your feelings. You can dispute the studies all you like, but you may as well just go outside and yell at the clouds.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:33

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 12:13

@Plastictreeesok I don’t want to jump into a debate that’s not mine (I don’t know where I sit on this one) - but hear me out- hypothetically , to say more black people commit crime doesn’t mean they are predisposed to it? It could be for cultural (eg rap, hip hop, idols and what is ‘cool’) or historical reasons, a need to fight (defend themselves), related to history of slavery or abuse, more broken homes and feelings of abandonment etc. But acknowledging the link (eg saying there is an observable black problem with violence) might mean that we can look deeper into WHY and how to solve it. It is partly socio economic, absolutely ,but is it more than that? If we can’t seriously consider it with our being called racist we can’t ever know. And you won’t find studies on it because people would be too scared to conduct them.

It's not partly down to socio economic reasons. It is SOLELY down to economic reasons. The evidence is all there. Numerous peer reviews studies have said this

If you don't agree with them, fine. But please back it up with something resembling evidence.

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 12:38

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:15

Yes. Because I have said nothing racist.

I reported your posts for racism and they got deleted, so that doesn’t compute I’m afraid.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:40

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 12:38

I reported your posts for racism and they got deleted, so that doesn’t compute I’m afraid.

I have said nothing racist.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:45

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:40

I have said nothing racist.

Do you not believe thinking black people are more violent than white people while refusing to consider any other factors might be problematic? Do you not believe that's racist in any way?

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:49

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:33

It's not partly down to socio economic reasons. It is SOLELY down to economic reasons. The evidence is all there. Numerous peer reviews studies have said this

If you don't agree with them, fine. But please back it up with something resembling evidence.

Edited

No it’s not.

Native Americans have the highest poverty rates of any American group. This is not disputed. And while they have higher than average rates of violence, they don’t have the highest rates of violent crime.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/09/2025 12:50

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:40

I have said nothing racist.

Why don't you repeat what you've said so that we can test that theory for ourselves? Justify your argument in some way?

You do realise that your position embodies a self fulfilling prophecy? More black people show up in crime stats because of systemic racism. Black people get pulled over more because there are inbuilt prejudices and assumptions of criminality. They receive harsher sentences so are more likely to be over represented in the prison population if they do offend. They can be "fitted up" due to ingrained prejudice from those who resent the on paper equality afforded to them post segregation.

Are you really going to deny these long established facts?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:53

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 12:49

No it’s not.

Native Americans have the highest poverty rates of any American group. This is not disputed. And while they have higher than average rates of violence, they don’t have the highest rates of violent crime.

You are continually dismissing social factors. Why?

But, you're arguing with peer reviewed studies, not me. I've done all I can to educate you, to point you in the right direction so you can at least question your beliefs. You refuse to, for whatever reason.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:02

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 12:53

You are continually dismissing social factors. Why?

But, you're arguing with peer reviewed studies, not me. I've done all I can to educate you, to point you in the right direction so you can at least question your beliefs. You refuse to, for whatever reason.

I do not dismiss cultural factors and indeed,
I don’t think this stuff is necessarily hard wired. Crime rates have gone up and down throughout history and among different groups.

But we need to be clear about what is going on.

Please link the study you cite

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:08

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/09/2025 12:50

Why don't you repeat what you've said so that we can test that theory for ourselves? Justify your argument in some way?

You do realise that your position embodies a self fulfilling prophecy? More black people show up in crime stats because of systemic racism. Black people get pulled over more because there are inbuilt prejudices and assumptions of criminality. They receive harsher sentences so are more likely to be over represented in the prison population if they do offend. They can be "fitted up" due to ingrained prejudice from those who resent the on paper equality afforded to them post segregation.

Are you really going to deny these long established facts?

You might have some of this. I’m sure public defenders aren’t breaking their hearts for their clients.

But I think this shows we need a color blind approach that will dole out harsher sentencing. I would be hugely in favor of that—wouldn’t you?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 13:08

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:02

I do not dismiss cultural factors and indeed,
I don’t think this stuff is necessarily hard wired. Crime rates have gone up and down throughout history and among different groups.

But we need to be clear about what is going on.

Please link the study you cite

Cultural factors? What are 'cultural' factors? These kind of comments are exactly why you are being accused of racism.

Google 'Harvard Sampson crime rate study'. And read a summary

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 13:10

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:08

You might have some of this. I’m sure public defenders aren’t breaking their hearts for their clients.

But I think this shows we need a color blind approach that will dole out harsher sentencing. I would be hugely in favor of that—wouldn’t you?

Prison doesn't work in its current morph. As far as rehabilitation is concerned, anyway.

There is zero correlation between length of time served and reduced rate of reoffending. It works the other way.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/09/2025 13:13

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:08

You might have some of this. I’m sure public defenders aren’t breaking their hearts for their clients.

But I think this shows we need a color blind approach that will dole out harsher sentencing. I would be hugely in favor of that—wouldn’t you?

Harsher sentencing in what context? Each case, regardless of race of the offenders should be weighed up and sentencing should be decided on evidence, mitigating factors and risk to the public. And of course the colour of the defendants skin should be irrelevant.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 13:17

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 13:10

Prison doesn't work in its current morph. As far as rehabilitation is concerned, anyway.

There is zero correlation between length of time served and reduced rate of reoffending. It works the other way.

Edited

See, here is where our divergence is highlighted.

I just don’t care about rehabilitation. I care about public safety.

I want violent men of all and any group to remain in prison, and I don’t care if they ever come out.