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Anyone trying not to have heating on

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TheOpalFox · 21/09/2025 20:21

Anyone else tried to not have heating on? Even tho your cold? It’s 8 degrees and I’m cold but can’t afford to have heating on all the time :( what a way to live!!!

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Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 11:48

Throwaway65131 · 23/09/2025 04:25

When OP says its 8 degrees I really hope that’s outside not inside! If it’s inside you definitely need your heating on!!!!

Honestly after how lovely and warm it’s been outside for so long I was really shocked this evening when I went out in a t shirt and cardi (and trousers, for the pendants thinking I went out with my knickers on show!) to pick up DP from somewhere and the car thermometer told me it was only 6C!

For the benefit of the conversation about how people know the temperature indoors, my heating thermostat states the temperature of the room it is in - which happens to be 19C.

It’s a little chillier than ideal for me, but DP has an obsession with leaving the bedroom window open all day and night, and opening doors and windows when he’s downstairs in the house in the day time - and at a risk of sounding like my parents, I am not paying to heat outside!! Fortunately at the moment a warm cardi or jumper (and some fluffy socks!) will suffice and I haven’t been tempted to put the heat on just yet.

I’m with you OP, and trying to save on heating bills. Though if it’s really chilly, I might pop the gas fire on in the living room/sitting room/whatever you call it (with the doors closed!) for a few minutes, then it keeps the warmth to one place, and is I hope cheaper than heating the whole house.

I find doing the washing up helps warm me up (I guess warm hands helps raise body temperature) and I’m also a bit of a sucker for wrapping myself up in a lovely fluffy blanket when I’m comfy on the sofa in the evening! Helps keep me warm!

I imagine soon though a conversation is going to have to take place about the window vs heating!
When I first bought my house (in the days when people bought houses and then didn't have money to get new furnishings or go on holiday etc) not long after that I had to take a much lower paying job so things became a real struggle - couldn’t afford the heating and I remember a point in time it was warmer in my fridge than it was in my house!!! (Someone had given me a fridge thermometer, if anyone is wondering how I knew the temperatures!). I never ever want to live through anything like that again if I can avoid it - and memories of that time stops me being stubborn with regards to waiting out until a certain time or date etc until the heating is going on. That said, I’m still not paying for heating to go straight out of a window into the street!

For the superiority debate, it’s not a sign of toughness if you’ve not got your heating on, nor a sign of weakness or that you’re nesh if you have! Not only do different areas have different temperatures, temperatures can vary by a few degrees from one town to the next - the next town to me, which is higher up on a hill is a good 2 degrees cooler. But also different houses retain heat/cold differently. A mid terraced sandwiched between two houses that do have their heating on the vast majority of the time, is going to be warmer than a 1960s brick build detached - latter probably needs their heating on much sooner - doesn’t mean one household is better than the other.

What I don’t understand though, is people who have their heating turned up so high, it’s literally sweltering indoors so they’re having to wear shorts and vest tops etc … what is THAT about? Isn’t it uncomfortable? Is it some kind of flex? Is someone else paying the bills?

Re your last par, yes that puzzles me too. I remember a few yrs ago early May, very bright and sunny but cool. Definitely not warm enough for summer clothes, but not so cold as to need heating. In the street I passed a man wearing shorts, t shirt and flip flops, and he said 'I'm fucking freezing, mate.' to his friend. That evening I was doing a door to door collection, and several times the door was opened by residents (interestingly, always men) wearing shorts and t shirt, while blasts of heat emerged from the houses.

Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 12:04

Doodlingsquares · 22/09/2025 19:09

Agreed. Ive never understood these people who pick an arbitrary date and say the heating cant go on before it. You can have a really cool september followed by a much milder october! Its just a bit unintelligent really. 15 degrees in october is not suddenly magically colder than 15 degrees was in September 😂

15 degrees in Oct often is colder than same in Sep, because a daily max of 15 in Sep may mean 15 for much of day, not falling much at night. 15 in Oct has more chance of meaning 15 for 1 or 2 hrs, but considerably lower much of the day, then dropping sharply at night. In addition, a cooler day in Sep more likely to be a blip. Then there's a tendency to leave it on. Delaying until start of Oct means more likely to be a genuine need to have it onl

YourWinter · 23/09/2025 12:04

I’m 69 and have never yet considered putting the heating on before the clocks change, usually the weekend at the start of October half term. If it can stay off until Christmas so much the better. I do have an open fire and I collect fallen wood all year round, if it’s particularly cold AND wet I might light a fire in the evening, but I don’t like warm rooms and really prefer to layer up in warm clothes, with a heated throw over my lap - and a dog and cat to snuggle with. I think of the heating more in terms of avoiding frozen pipes and it seldom gets that cold anyway.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 23/09/2025 12:07

Im freezing. hoodie, thermals, blanket on.
No heating on here until November (we earn £170k between us but can't afford to have the heating on before November...madness).

LBFseBrom · 23/09/2025 12:10

I put mine on in the sitting room yesterday and left it on. I don't like feeling chilly I did put it on before for a short time but the weather warmed up again so I switched it off. The bathroom always has the heated towel rail on and is cosy at all times.

There's no virtue in not putting the heating on. People either don't mind lower temperatures or they do, it's just how it is.

MaryBeardsShoes · 23/09/2025 12:10

I put the heating on when I feel cold and I’m already dressed appropriately in a jumper etc. I don’t understand keeping the heating off until an arbitrary date because the temp is so changeable here (south east). Last night it was down to 4, but the day before it was quite warm.

Joloman74 · 23/09/2025 12:13

Yes I'm exactly the same! It's been really cold these last few evenings but I'm frightened of turning the heating on as the bills are so high. Everything is so expensive from food to utilities to clothing. I don't know how they expect us to live at the moment. It's only going to get worse when Rachel Reeves raises taxes as predicted in October's budget. We won't be living we will just be existing.!

Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 12:17

cardibach · 22/09/2025 10:24

I think it’s more because the heating-not-on people seem offended and incredulous that anyone might want their house at a moderate temperature - say the lower end of medical advice - and scoff about ‘swanning aroundin t shirts’ even when they are told people are wearing thick clothes. There’s a distinct superiority in the posts about it. They think they are the only ones who are able to dress appropriately and are much healthier and tougher than anyone who still needs a jumper (or oodie) at 18.
It’s the no heating people who seem to hate and look down on everyone else as far as I can see.

Don't think anyone looks down on anyone, but it's become as certain as sunrise - every autumn this thread appears. I deliberately look out for it, and MN wouldn't be the same without it.

SelinaB · 23/09/2025 12:42

I put my heating on for the morning ie 8 till 10 ( so it's warm for getting up) and then if a throw isn't enough in the evening watching TV I'll put the heating on for an hour or so. I'm in London and although it warms up in the afternoon I find the mornings quite cold. I can't stand being cold, I'd get nothing done either. I'd rather cut back on something else and be warm.

RosesAndHellebores · 23/09/2025 12:43

YourWinter · 23/09/2025 12:04

I’m 69 and have never yet considered putting the heating on before the clocks change, usually the weekend at the start of October half term. If it can stay off until Christmas so much the better. I do have an open fire and I collect fallen wood all year round, if it’s particularly cold AND wet I might light a fire in the evening, but I don’t like warm rooms and really prefer to layer up in warm clothes, with a heated throw over my lap - and a dog and cat to snuggle with. I think of the heating more in terms of avoiding frozen pipes and it seldom gets that cold anyway.

That sounds unspeakably miserable. We are only a year or two younger than you and our parents used to hang it out until the clocks changed. Always with a fire in the sitting room and in my bedroom.

Our heating is always set to a few hours first thing and a few hours mid evening. In summer it's set to 15. I think I turned it up to 16/17 the other day. The heating has come on in the mornings regularly since about late August. I can't stand waking up to cold.

We aren't particularly chilly mortals and the heating is never up high but with a cardigan, and warm slippers, neither will I feel cold. If it's particularly chilly, usually at weekends, we light a fire in the hall and turn it up in the rooms we are using.

lilkitten · 23/09/2025 12:45

A couple of days it's been below 18 degrees on the monitor inside, I put it on just until it gets to 18. Double quilts on the bed now too. We have attic insulation but otherwise it's not very well insulated.

henlake7 · 23/09/2025 12:47

Im just glad I live down south as I don't plan on putting my heating on til November!
Nothing to do with being competitive or smug, it's just I know my leccy bill will double over winter and my current credit will cover me from Nov til march.
I think that's probably why alot of people talk about themselves into not needing heating til as late as possible!

cardibach · 23/09/2025 12:48

Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 12:04

15 degrees in Oct often is colder than same in Sep, because a daily max of 15 in Sep may mean 15 for much of day, not falling much at night. 15 in Oct has more chance of meaning 15 for 1 or 2 hrs, but considerably lower much of the day, then dropping sharply at night. In addition, a cooler day in Sep more likely to be a blip. Then there's a tendency to leave it on. Delaying until start of Oct means more likely to be a genuine need to have it onl

If it’s on a thermostat it won’t come on if the temp goes up again though. Mine is never ‘off’ it just doesn’t get cold enough to come on during the summer.

Tastaturen · 23/09/2025 12:58

Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 12:04

15 degrees in Oct often is colder than same in Sep, because a daily max of 15 in Sep may mean 15 for much of day, not falling much at night. 15 in Oct has more chance of meaning 15 for 1 or 2 hrs, but considerably lower much of the day, then dropping sharply at night. In addition, a cooler day in Sep more likely to be a blip. Then there's a tendency to leave it on. Delaying until start of Oct means more likely to be a genuine need to have it onl

There's a 'genuine need' if it's cold!

Tastaturen · 23/09/2025 13:00

YourWinter · 23/09/2025 12:04

I’m 69 and have never yet considered putting the heating on before the clocks change, usually the weekend at the start of October half term. If it can stay off until Christmas so much the better. I do have an open fire and I collect fallen wood all year round, if it’s particularly cold AND wet I might light a fire in the evening, but I don’t like warm rooms and really prefer to layer up in warm clothes, with a heated throw over my lap - and a dog and cat to snuggle with. I think of the heating more in terms of avoiding frozen pipes and it seldom gets that cold anyway.

If you've got an open fire then you are heating the house, and it's not likely to feel so cold!

OneLilacCrow · 23/09/2025 13:01

I blame all those people who voted Labour and meant we are stuck with their crazy net zero policies. Why can’t we drill for our own North Sea oil instead of buying it from Norway? No wonder heating prices are so high.

GasPanic · 23/09/2025 13:16

OneLilacCrow · 23/09/2025 13:01

I blame all those people who voted Labour and meant we are stuck with their crazy net zero policies. Why can’t we drill for our own North Sea oil instead of buying it from Norway? No wonder heating prices are so high.

We probably couldn't drill enough. And if we did so it would run out even faster than it is and also be more expensive than other sources.

That said we are not managing the transition to net zero well in this country.

Oil/gas production can't be started on a sixpence and we aren't investing anywhere near enough to produce a managed decline rather than a cliff edge in production drop off.

This is really going to bite us hard at some point. Unfortunately the people not managing it probably will probably be dead or at least out of office by the time it completely screws us up on energy prices.

Leilaandtheloggerheads · 23/09/2025 13:17

I’ve not tried yet no, it’s not cold

Thissickbeat · 23/09/2025 14:00

Jumpers and heated throws don't stop damp and mould. If it's under 20° inside then my heating kicks in.

justasking111 · 23/09/2025 14:12

I was as mad as a wet hen this morning. the towel I used from yesterday morning was carefully spread out over a chair to dry out. DH as usual stuffed his over the bathroom ladder radiator. Well this morning mine was missing, he said I've hung it on the bathroom radiator. Like buggery. He'd found his sopping wet, used mine, stuffed that under his so this morning two soggy towels.

Now I don't mind not turning the heating on, but how on gods earth will towels dry stuffed badly over a non operational radiator.

Idontpostmuch · 23/09/2025 14:48

OneLilacCrow · 23/09/2025 13:01

I blame all those people who voted Labour and meant we are stuck with their crazy net zero policies. Why can’t we drill for our own North Sea oil instead of buying it from Norway? No wonder heating prices are so high.

Are you willing to say how you voted?

NavyTurtle · 23/09/2025 16:05

TheOpalFox · 21/09/2025 20:21

Anyone else tried to not have heating on? Even tho your cold? It’s 8 degrees and I’m cold but can’t afford to have heating on all the time :( what a way to live!!!

Got up this morning - it was 5 degrees, heating went straight on. We live in a stone Irish cottage so if it gets too cold the thick walls tend to make it a bit cave like. We have to keep the house warm in the winter. People say to just put on an extra sweater, you can't let your house get to cold or it will get damp.

NavyTurtle · 23/09/2025 16:06

YourWinter · 23/09/2025 12:04

I’m 69 and have never yet considered putting the heating on before the clocks change, usually the weekend at the start of October half term. If it can stay off until Christmas so much the better. I do have an open fire and I collect fallen wood all year round, if it’s particularly cold AND wet I might light a fire in the evening, but I don’t like warm rooms and really prefer to layer up in warm clothes, with a heated throw over my lap - and a dog and cat to snuggle with. I think of the heating more in terms of avoiding frozen pipes and it seldom gets that cold anyway.

You are not doing your house much good, it sounds cold and damp and very miserable.

lessglittermoremud · 23/09/2025 18:51

YourWinter · 23/09/2025 12:04

I’m 69 and have never yet considered putting the heating on before the clocks change, usually the weekend at the start of October half term. If it can stay off until Christmas so much the better. I do have an open fire and I collect fallen wood all year round, if it’s particularly cold AND wet I might light a fire in the evening, but I don’t like warm rooms and really prefer to layer up in warm clothes, with a heated throw over my lap - and a dog and cat to snuggle with. I think of the heating more in terms of avoiding frozen pipes and it seldom gets that cold anyway.

Until you mentioned the cat and your age I could have sworn you must be my Mother.. it’s a running joke in our family if we see a fallen branch or tree being felled that it’s a good job Nanny isn’t around.
She often walks her dogs dragging a fallen branch behind her or has a basket on wheels with twigs etc in.
She has a wood burner, that she says heats the whole house sufficiently, to me her bedroom often feels freezing and damp as it’s the furthest room away from the kitchen where the stove is.
My Mum grew up in poverty 70 odd years ago, shared tin bath in front of the kitchen and ice on the inside of the windows so I genuinely think perhaps she doesn’t feel it as much as others because, compared to previous years she’s toasty.
There is much I admire about her, although I have to say I’d rather she didn’t go collecting wood and just stay home with her hardly used central heating on, I hope you genuinely don’t feel cold rather then are worried about the cost of heating.

OhNoNotSusan · 23/09/2025 18:56

they came to put the heating on at work,
i had to open a window and someone turned on the fan
so stuffy!

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