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Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
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HostaCentral · 17/09/2025 11:42

Papyrophile · 17/09/2025 11:41

I can be angry at the smugglers, the economic migrants, and the politicians and lawyers -- simultaneously!

Ditto

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:42

It’s also a slap in the face to the welcoming country when arrivals commit crimes, be they minor (spitting) large (stealing) or hideous (sexual offences).

It’s all very well to say we have our “own” criminals. but do we really need to accommodate more? And most we have no idea of background and whether they are not fleeing hardship but escaping justice.

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:43

Paganpentacle · 17/09/2025 11:39

Which is?

The people-trafficking gangs who make a fortune by endangering the lives of desperate people.

They are the ones to blame, not the poor souls who risk their desperate lives in the hope of a better future.

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:44

Why are they all “poor souls”? You don’t know that.

smallpinecone · 17/09/2025 11:44

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:40

For what feels like the millionth time, asylum seekers are not entitled to claim benefits.

Makes no odds. Public purse supports them either way.

BerkoFilter · 17/09/2025 11:44

Because feelings. You don’t want people putting up tents in your garden.
You don’t want your neighbour to wander in when your front door door is open, and sit in your kitchen.
You don’t want your mother in law to look through your bedside table.
Boundaries, and feelings.

univited guests make people very uncomfortable.

its not rocket science.

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:44

Paganpentacle · 17/09/2025 11:37

What's the difference?

He's still turned up illegally

Hope that helps.

It isn't illegal to enter a country to claim asylum.

Sunnysardines · 17/09/2025 11:45

arcticpandas · 17/09/2025 11:30

I don't think people are angry at asylum seekers for coming. I think they are angry when their housing + benefits are being paid for by the taxpayer.

This. It’s the economic migrants who throw away their passports and pretend to be under age, in order to exploit our benefits!

Sunnysardines · 17/09/2025 11:46

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:44

Why are they all “poor souls”? You don’t know that.

This!

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:47

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:44

Why are they all “poor souls”? You don’t know that.

I don't think anyone would risk their lives the way that they do if they weren't desperate.

smallpinecone · 17/09/2025 11:47

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:44

It isn't illegal to enter a country to claim asylum.

Lots of things aren’t illegal. Doesn’t mean people have to like them, or approve of them, or want to encourage others to act similarly.

smallpinecone · 17/09/2025 11:48

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:47

I don't think anyone would risk their lives the way that they do if they weren't desperate.

You’re free to feel that way. Others disagree.

Sunnysardines · 17/09/2025 11:49

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:47

I don't think anyone would risk their lives the way that they do if they weren't desperate.

Desperate for what?

Paganpentacle · 17/09/2025 11:49

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:40

For what feels like the millionth time, asylum seekers are not entitled to claim benefits.

They are given housing, food, mobile phone, assistance with claims, access to
NHS, schools.
We are paying for this.
Local government and Home Office are bidding for the same housing stock - Home Office always wins.
When UK citizens cant get a job, are sofa surfing and entitled to bugger all.... that's where the resentment comes in. I see it daily.

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:53

smallpinecone · 17/09/2025 11:44

Makes no odds. Public purse supports them either way.

The cost to the taxpayer would be massively reduced if

  1. asylum decisions were made more swiftly, and/or

  2. asylum seekers were allowed to work while awaiting a decision

Some of the refugees I've supported have been highly qualified professionals who could have made quite a contribution if they'd been allowed to work during the couple of years that they had to wait for a decision.

BlossomLeaves · 17/09/2025 11:53

Because large sums of (often ‘foreign’ ironically) is being mobilised into convincing people to think this way, and act as personal puppets, for some specific individuals’ own political/influential/financial gains, and sadly many seem to be unable/unwilling to resit that and think for themselves.

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:56

Where dd works every client has an interpreter. They are “entitled” to this and she says all the staff know it’s a complete farce. Many claim obscure dialects so jobs for more interpreters. The NHS alone spent millions on this last year alone. Can you imagine going to any country and being granted a Gaelic interpreter as your right?!

jnh22 · 17/09/2025 11:57

mindutopia · 17/09/2025 11:06

First response nails it.

Because most people are more comfortable blaming the individual rather than the system (that most people also a little bit benefit from). It’s easier to be angry at the brown person taking your jobs and your benefits than to be angry at the society that has stacked the decks against your education and employment opportunities while feeding you stories about how it’s the immigrants holding you down.

I wonder if it’s also that people who tend to follow the rules get angry at people they think aren’t following those rules and benefiting from it- so it becomes almost personal — and they get angry at that individual rather than the wider problem?

I can see your average Joe thinking, “I’ve spent my whole life following the laws, doing what I should, going to work and paying taxes but look at this person who isn’t doing that and they are getting rewarded more than me.”

Maybe they feel like the individual is more relatable to them than the government or traffickers? Not sure if relatable is the word but I often wonder if politicians (along with corporations, very rich people, celebrities and the royal family) seem so far removed from people that they are considered untouchable?

I don’t know if i”m explaining right - but I do see it often where the focus becomes an individual, everyday person when the responsibility/blame really should be higher up.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 11:58

Sunnysardines · 17/09/2025 11:45

This. It’s the economic migrants who throw away their passports and pretend to be under age, in order to exploit our benefits!

Well it is not clear if they are economic migrants. 48% of those processed ultimately get granted asylum which means they meet the criteria (that being your home country being unsafe for you). 52% don’t - but reasons are not published. They are just broadly described as ‘failure to provide information or documentation, deception, character or poor behaviour etc’, but we don’t know what that is. So for all we know 52% of people can be deceptive, or most of them just missed an appointment but that doesn’t automatically mean they’re not actually eligible.

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MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 12:00

@LakieLady why always that they are “highly qualified”? It’s simply not true.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 12:00

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 11:56

Where dd works every client has an interpreter. They are “entitled” to this and she says all the staff know it’s a complete farce. Many claim obscure dialects so jobs for more interpreters. The NHS alone spent millions on this last year alone. Can you imagine going to any country and being granted a Gaelic interpreter as your right?!

Actually, yes. Specifically in healthcare situations in Europe - they would all provide translators.

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EasternStandard · 17/09/2025 12:00

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:44

It isn't illegal to enter a country to claim asylum.

Why does Starmer / Labour use the illegal line?

MsJinks · 17/09/2025 12:05

I found out yesterday that whilst the cost of asylum seekers seems large (and btw mostly goes to fat cat folk hoovering up defunct hotels) it is only 0.3% of gov’t budget. 0.3%. It will also go down as the gov’t is tightening a lot of stuff up and getting down the backlog.
But that is a negligible amount of budget and nothing is going to improve by stopping it.
They’re a tool right now for either discord, from which very rich bigwigs profit, or a tool for political points and getting people to avoid checking out other stuff.
As to why they come here that has been discussed over and over - in summary - UNHCR, U.K. case law, language, family/friends, helping British army in war zones.
Note only a small number of over 200 million displaced people in the world do, or try to, come here.
Further note - overall migrants are net contributors to the U.K. economy.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 12:10

Paganpentacle · 17/09/2025 11:31

You've not seen people on the news being interviewed by reporters...faces obscured... saying they want to make it to the UK for the better benefits here?

Because I have.
They are either told that is the case by those that came before them, or by traffickers.

Either way.. its not our responsibility to take on everyone in the world who thinks this would be a better place to live. I fancy Canada but I'm pretty sure I cant unilaterally decide that and turn up.

I agree, hence the last part of my OP says that it’s ultimately fine to question the process of granting asylum, or even the levels of which people arrive. The Canada example in this situation is not relevant IMO, as you wouldn’t qualify for asylum and you would have a fair and clear route for applying for a visa should you ‘fancy it’.

I do think that traffickers promote the UK as the best option, using a variety of tactics to sell it as the destination as it will make them more money - longer journey, more complex so costs more, therefore more appealing for their “business” than a traffic job to Greece.

If we look at ‘grooming’ in general, maybe even more locally in the UK, it’s quite common to engage vulnerable people in an opportunity of a lifetime as they’re willing to risk it all to better their situation. Hence why I wouldn’t be angry at Jimmy on the dinghy, but the wider problem.

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 12:11

MsJinks · 17/09/2025 12:05

I found out yesterday that whilst the cost of asylum seekers seems large (and btw mostly goes to fat cat folk hoovering up defunct hotels) it is only 0.3% of gov’t budget. 0.3%. It will also go down as the gov’t is tightening a lot of stuff up and getting down the backlog.
But that is a negligible amount of budget and nothing is going to improve by stopping it.
They’re a tool right now for either discord, from which very rich bigwigs profit, or a tool for political points and getting people to avoid checking out other stuff.
As to why they come here that has been discussed over and over - in summary - UNHCR, U.K. case law, language, family/friends, helping British army in war zones.
Note only a small number of over 200 million displaced people in the world do, or try to, come here.
Further note - overall migrants are net contributors to the U.K. economy.

Thank you for this. I knew it was low in terms of impact on the actual economy, just didn’t have the numbers.

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