AIBU? I’m in my 40s and have a 5 week old baby and a 3 year old. My 3 year old is in nursery three days a week and I am with her Friday through Monday with my DH (Sunday through Monday, I am on my own with them on a Friday). Before Mat leave I worked full time in a stressful job. My mother lives 30 mins away and has always expected lots of contact. Usually she texts every morning. I see her and my dad once a week but whenever I do she makes comments such as that she wants to see a lot more of us. If I see her with my baby she says she wants to see my three year old next time and she misses her, even if she has only seen her the week before. Last week she said she was giving me space but would like to see me a lot more (despite seeing me at least once a week). She fell out with my sister for her moving 45 minutes drive away and for ‘putting her bottom of the list’ and seeing her MIL more than her. Every time I see her or text her back she asks when she can see me. She seems to think she doesn’t see us enough but to me once a week is a lot along with daily contact on text. My dad is very reasonable and easy going. My MIL lives 4 hours away and we see her around once every 2 months and she doesn’t expect anything from us. I try to explain to my mum how lucky she is to have us round the corner and have regular contact but nothing is ever enough it seems.