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To think this is fraud and do I say something or stay out of it?

263 replies

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:22

I have NC'd for this. A friend of mine NEVER has to pay for work on her house...she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business. She says they are doing the jobs as favours! surely this is fraud! do i stay out of it or say something (who do i even report to!!)She currentky has a landscper in doing the garden...just so happens to be the landscaper who does the work for said business!

OP posts:
LBFseBrom · 16/09/2025 10:50

Stay out of it! It's not your business and nobody has died. I don't get why you are so concerned, good luck to them.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 16/09/2025 10:50

ThinkAboutItTomorrow · 16/09/2025 10:48

Assuming the relative is ‘high up’ not owners and the business is owned by someone else then it’s potentially theft / misuse of company resources if the owner doesn’t know about it. but equally possible the owner is aware and happy with their employee using workers to do ‘free’ work for family. You just don’t know. It’d be mean spirited to grass someone up.

Exactly. One of the benefits of owning your own business or working for family is that you often benefit from free or heavily discounted labour.

Fairyliz · 16/09/2025 10:50

BadgernTheGarden · 16/09/2025 09:30

Presumably the people doing the work are being paid by the business and any materials are being bought by the business? I'm not sure how it's fraud, I would have thought they can charge whatever they like for the work done, or nothing. What do you think is illegal?

I’m assuming that the materials will go through the companies books as legitimate business expenses, so reducing their tax liability.
Something to remember when people complain about public services being underfunded.

beAsensible1 · 16/09/2025 10:50

be careful ladies. You might have a friend you despises you.

who needs enemies.

OP you have less than zero actual knowledge of the financials or how the business is processing this. You are just miserable and mean.

kellygoeswest · 16/09/2025 10:50

This is so weird, leave her alone.

BunfightBetty · 16/09/2025 10:53

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 16/09/2025 09:36

Christ why are some Brits such narks? Does it come from all the forelock tugging over royals and toffs? Too much deference to unearned authority.

Weird you think this, because as a Brit I read these threads and think 'Christ, it's now become clear how the Stasi prospered in East Germany'.

Hideous behaviour to take delight in shopping your friends and neighbours because you're jealous they're getting something you're not. OP should keep her beak out.

rainingsnoring · 16/09/2025 10:55

WhitegreeNcandle · 16/09/2025 10:50

I think you’ve used the wrong language. It’s not fraud but it’s not honest.

So I’m a farmer. If I buy an oven for a workers house it can be a business expense so I won’t pay tax on the £50 the oven cost me. I could be cheeky and buy an oven for my house and just not write on the invoice which house it’s for and charge the business. Therefore saving myself a tiny weeny bit of tax.

Another example more related to yours would be our farm pays a landscape gardener once a month to tidy up round some business units we have. I could send that gardener to my mates house, the invoice is sent to my farm and just says “general landscape work” we pay it saving a bit of tax, my mate buys me dinner and everyone bar HMRC is happy.

Quite surprised there are so many people on this thread that thinks that is ok. In my mind it’s stealing from the taxpayer. I don’t like people who abuse the benefit system and I think it’s abusing the tax system. It’s not honest. It is rife amongst self employed and small business though.

If this is what is happening, it is tax evasion. It's funny how people seem to be condoning this (if this is indeed what is happening) but are very hard on fraudulent benefit claims and tax avoidance (not even evasion necessarily) by wealthy individuals and companies.

Hoppinggreen · 16/09/2025 10:56

This affects you how exactly?

WhamBamThankU · 16/09/2025 10:56

I’d suggest you get a life. And end contact with your lucky friend as you clearly aren’t hers

spicetails · 16/09/2025 10:57

rainingsnoring · 16/09/2025 10:55

If this is what is happening, it is tax evasion. It's funny how people seem to be condoning this (if this is indeed what is happening) but are very hard on fraudulent benefit claims and tax avoidance (not even evasion necessarily) by wealthy individuals and companies.

We don’t know what’s happening - the OPs description is so ambiguous

rainingsnoring · 16/09/2025 10:58

spicetails · 16/09/2025 10:57

We don’t know what’s happening - the OPs description is so ambiguous

I completely agree with you. I said the same in an earlier post, tagged her and asked her to clarify. I also said 'if this is what is happening' in the post you have quoted.

SparklingRivers · 16/09/2025 11:02

Summershutdown · 16/09/2025 09:51

Unless you own the business, it's nothing to do with you.

It's being used as a tax write off, so effectively being paid for by the government.

I wouldn't bother reporting it personally, but I'm surprised how many people are fine with this when benefit fraud threads are full of people saying to report it because it's government money being used.

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

Verywindyday · 16/09/2025 09:43

I understand what you mean OP.
Her relative owns Company A. Company B does work at your friends house but invoices company A who pays the bill. Friend gets job done for free and Company A has an invoice which is deductible for tax reasons as ‘repairs’
so yes, it’s in no way honest, but I’d still keep out of it. It goes on in plenty of larger businesses and as long as the invoice shows the work being done at Company A, then it can’t be proved otherwise.

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

OP posts:
TreeGrass · 16/09/2025 11:04

Is it a small family business, or a large multi national?
it a government owned business?

TheClaaaw · 16/09/2025 11:05

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:29

because she is not paying for it...a business is having their books cooked!!

What are you talking about? How does a company deciding to take on a loss making contract constitute fraud?

Bizarre post which seems to be motivated by an attack of the green-eyed monster.

TheClaaaw · 16/09/2025 11:06

WhitegreeNcandle · 16/09/2025 10:50

I think you’ve used the wrong language. It’s not fraud but it’s not honest.

So I’m a farmer. If I buy an oven for a workers house it can be a business expense so I won’t pay tax on the £50 the oven cost me. I could be cheeky and buy an oven for my house and just not write on the invoice which house it’s for and charge the business. Therefore saving myself a tiny weeny bit of tax.

Another example more related to yours would be our farm pays a landscape gardener once a month to tidy up round some business units we have. I could send that gardener to my mates house, the invoice is sent to my farm and just says “general landscape work” we pay it saving a bit of tax, my mate buys me dinner and everyone bar HMRC is happy.

Quite surprised there are so many people on this thread that thinks that is ok. In my mind it’s stealing from the taxpayer. I don’t like people who abuse the benefit system and I think it’s abusing the tax system. It’s not honest. It is rife amongst self employed and small business though.

OP has provided no explanation or evidence that indicates this is the case.

TheClaaaw · 16/09/2025 11:09

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

So now you’re saying that a different company is being invoiced for work that has nothing to do with them? Surely they should have controls in place to check their invoices and that these match their purchase orders for agreed work so would notice random unauthorised invoices for work which is nothing to do with them? How do you know that this is what is happening, do you work for Company A?

spicetails · 16/09/2025 11:12

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

How do you know the paying company doesn't know?

If they don’t, they will shortly unless they don’t bother looking at their accounts, and the offending person will be caught.

Not your business

deckchairmayhem · 16/09/2025 11:13

Have you asked yourself why you want to get involved?
What's in it for you?
Revenge?

netflixfan · 16/09/2025 11:14

Don’t be jel. If I had a relative who had a business I world not expect to pay him! I’d make him a nice cake!

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 11:14

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 16/09/2025 10:38

So how is the person on the receiving end, getting those tradesmen to work for her for free, while they’re being paid by the company?

Maybe I’m just thick in not understanding how this is done.

The tradesman gives over their invoice and employee puts it through the books as work done for the company or companies client.

Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 11:17

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

Yes. Then that is embezzlement and could lead to a custodial sentence. You could report unanimously to the company.

rainingsnoring · 16/09/2025 11:18

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

So in that case, it appears that the relative is defrauding the company and also the tax payer because it is being claimed as a business expense. The relative should lose their job and your friend should be paying for her own bills. I would definitely want to know about this is my company was being defrauded.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 16/09/2025 11:19

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

Why assume it's unknowingly? I work in construction and get freebies from the company. It's a perk of the job.

HonestOpalHelper · 16/09/2025 11:19

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:22

I have NC'd for this. A friend of mine NEVER has to pay for work on her house...she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business. She says they are doing the jobs as favours! surely this is fraud! do i stay out of it or say something (who do i even report to!!)She currentky has a landscper in doing the garden...just so happens to be the landscaper who does the work for said business!

Its not uncommon, and not illegal - I've just done a few electrical jobs at a clients house who is a director of a company who give me lots of work.

I offered to do it for a few beers as a thank you for all the work I've had this past year.

Call it customer relations, call it marketing, call it what you will, its not illegal in private sector business, it might be a company policy that staff cannot accept gifts from suppliers, but that is by no means universal.

My labour is free, the cost of the materials just gets lost in mark up calculations on other quotes, as do a lot of incidental costs.

Nothing is expected in return.