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To think this is fraud and do I say something or stay out of it?

263 replies

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:22

I have NC'd for this. A friend of mine NEVER has to pay for work on her house...she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business. She says they are doing the jobs as favours! surely this is fraud! do i stay out of it or say something (who do i even report to!!)She currentky has a landscper in doing the garden...just so happens to be the landscaper who does the work for said business!

OP posts:
Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 09:53

Would be people think feel differently if turns out the relative is high up in the council rather than private sector?

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 09:54

I get what you mean OP. We have had some fraud cases like this here in New Zealand. Quite often with public servants who have access to public finances including school principles. Not sure if this is happening with your friend though. Sounds dodgy though if she is getting it for free at employers expense. Unless they have some financial stake in business.

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 09:57

Buddingbudde · 16/09/2025 09:29

Why is it fraud?

Sounds like the family member is not an owner of the business. They could be assigning the work to the business accounts without the owner being aware and then putting in a false invoice. Not an uncommon type of fraud.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 16/09/2025 09:59

Not your business

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 09:59

Buddingbudde · 16/09/2025 09:31

What do you mean? This makes no sense.

Putting in a false invoice to cover the work. They are not the business owner but probably work in the office.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 16/09/2025 09:59

Who owns the business? I’m trying to think of an example of what you mean. Are you saying that friend’s relative is a senior manager at say … British Gas and every time she has something required like plumbing or boiler work the friend gets one of the British Gas workman to go out and do the work and she doesn’t pay?

If that’s the case then yes it’s fraud and British Gas would be very interested to know about that. If instead you are saying - and this is definitely the case with my neighbours. That the husband owns a construction type company that has employees and when he needs his own house done he uses his own sub contractors to do it and is this lawful? Well I’m sure you’re correct that there’s some tax fudge going on there but I wouldn’t and don’t care about it at all.

CasualDayHasGoneTooFar · 16/09/2025 10:01

she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business.

What kind of company - is it owned by the 'family member' or are they just an employee

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 10:01

EmeraldShamrock000 · 16/09/2025 09:32

No, I'd mind your nose.
It's one of the few benefits of being self-employed as long as they cover their ass.
Are you saying that they are stealing? Or are they buying materials through the company with VAT reduction?

Edited

I don't think they are self employed, they have an important position as an employee. Is that correct OP?

Ratafia · 16/09/2025 10:01

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:29

because she is not paying for it...a business is having their books cooked!!

Have you seen their books? How exactly are they being cooked?

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 16/09/2025 10:01

Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 09:53

Would be people think feel differently if turns out the relative is high up in the council rather than private sector?

Well, it’s two completely different scenarios, so yes, I’m sure they would 🤷‍♀️

PinkFlloyd · 16/09/2025 10:02

Friend?

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 10:03

Loveduppenguin · 16/09/2025 09:34

I think what OP means is if the said landscaping company is doing 5k worth of work for the business and 1k worth of work for her friend…then they charge the business 6k?

Edited

That's how I read it too.

zingally · 16/09/2025 10:05

I'm not sure how you've decided this is fraud...? I think you've mis-understood the term. Fraud means taking/making money and not declaring it properly. If she's not paying them anything anyway, then there's certainly no fraud. The only way I could see it possibly happening would be if she WAS paying, but the money was getting pocketed, rather than going into the proper business accounts.

Assuming the people doing the work are getting paid their normal wage, and there's nothing to say they aren't - then what does it matter?

Can they come and do the same for me?! She's a lucky lady with friends in the right places!

IMustDoMoreExercise · 16/09/2025 10:08

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:29

because she is not paying for it...a business is having their books cooked!!

No, they are not The company can do work for free if it wants, it is not fraud.

AirborneElephant · 16/09/2025 10:09

Woodworm2020 · 16/09/2025 09:36

What?? No they are not. Do you know much about running a business - they are just lowering their overall margin which is 100% their choice.

Well, that’s not really true, and also depends on who “they” are.

If the company is 100% owned by people who are happy to allow this then it is indeed their choice. But even then HMRC would care, it is technically tax evasion to lower company profits in this way, either she should be paying tax as income on the benefits received or the company should not be claiming a tax deduction for the costs. So you could report them to HMRC, but this is such a ubiquitous thing and damn hard to prove I’m not sure they would actually take any action and it does feel a bit petty.

If the company is not owned by family then either 1). This is an employee perk designed to increase retention, in which case it’s fine; 2) the employee is committing gross misconduct or 3) the company directors are not complying with their fiduciary duties to maximise shareholder return. So someone in the company might care, but finding out who to report it to is tough.

Okrr · 16/09/2025 10:09

So the business owner does not know that the employee is using their time or other employees time during business hours and is also using company bought parts or goods. Without permission then that is a mix of massively cheeky, breach of employment contract and theft.

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2025 10:09

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:30

well they are not charging her but they are charging the company under the guise of work carried out there...

This sentence doesn't make sense at all. Who are the "they" you are referring to? The people doing the work would be supplied by the company so are you trying to say they're not charging her, but are booking their time to their employer and getting paid for the work by their employer? If this is what you're trying to say, don't you think their employer will notice that they're not receiving any income for this work?

Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 10:10

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 16/09/2025 09:59

Who owns the business? I’m trying to think of an example of what you mean. Are you saying that friend’s relative is a senior manager at say … British Gas and every time she has something required like plumbing or boiler work the friend gets one of the British Gas workman to go out and do the work and she doesn’t pay?

If that’s the case then yes it’s fraud and British Gas would be very interested to know about that. If instead you are saying - and this is definitely the case with my neighbours. That the husband owns a construction type company that has employees and when he needs his own house done he uses his own sub contractors to do it and is this lawful? Well I’m sure you’re correct that there’s some tax fudge going on there but I wouldn’t and don’t care about it at all.

That's the key questions really isn't. Just like if I had relative who was high up in Porsche and they gave me car just because no one would really notice. .

zipadeedodah · 16/09/2025 10:10

The thing is, if you report it, (and I understand perfectly where fraud comes into it. The relative high up in the business is shafting the business because he is adding private work onto the bill) she'll know it was you. Also, I don't think it's exaggerating of me to say it's quite a serious white collar offence fraud is and could result in prison.

So I'd just keep quiet if I were you.

MrsDoubtfire1 · 16/09/2025 10:11

Is this seriously all you have to occupy your mind? Petty doesn't cover it. Who needs a friend like you?!

EmeraldShamrock000 · 16/09/2025 10:12

If they're stealing from a company that is different than fraud or buying a few bits on a trade vat account.
Stealing is serious. Your posts aren't clear.

Dita73 · 16/09/2025 10:15

Wow. You’re really quite a nasty piece of work aren’t you

boxofbuttons · 16/09/2025 10:15

Mind your own.

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 10:17

PinkyFlamingo · 16/09/2025 09:35

That doesn't make sense to me

If you are an finance controller you fiddle the invoice so the company pays for their job and the illegitimate one. Quite a common type of fraud unfortunately as a lot of business owners trust their staff and don't keep a good eye on their books.

Megifer · 16/09/2025 10:19

Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 09:53

Would be people think feel differently if turns out the relative is high up in the council rather than private sector?

Yes, because then its "public" resources being used rather than a privately owned business.