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Racially aggravated rape and assault

96 replies

ThatRoseBear · 12/09/2025 20:46

Two days ago in Oldbury, West Midlands a British born Sikh woman in her 20s was raped and assaulted around 8.00am just off a busy road. The two suspects were white males who made a comment along the lines of she didn't belong in this country during the attack.
I am heartbroken for this girl, they targeted her based on her skin colour through hate and used sexual and physical violence against her to make their point.

This is in a diverse area that is quite familiar to me. I am absolutely petrified for my teenage kids and have sat them down this evening to discuss safety. They are in their mid to late teens and racism hasn't been something that has particularly effected them. I had it when younger but not much as an adult thankfully. I thought in 2025 we were better than this.

AIBU to think we should have an expectation of safety irrespective of skin colour?

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BluntPlumHam · 12/09/2025 22:32

Op pull the thread because you’re already in the early territory of having your thread detailed by the usual suspects on mumsnet who deny/apologists for any crime or discrimination against none white/minority ethnic groups.

This is the most vile and heinous type of crime where sexual violence against a woman of colour has been used motivated by suspects hate for her presumed racial or religious identity. Then you have the dim lot wondering why all rapes aren’t hate crimes because their faux outrage is only reserved to further their bigoted views.

ThatRoseBear · 12/09/2025 22:47

BluntPlumHam · 12/09/2025 22:32

Op pull the thread because you’re already in the early territory of having your thread detailed by the usual suspects on mumsnet who deny/apologists for any crime or discrimination against none white/minority ethnic groups.

This is the most vile and heinous type of crime where sexual violence against a woman of colour has been used motivated by suspects hate for her presumed racial or religious identity. Then you have the dim lot wondering why all rapes aren’t hate crimes because their faux outrage is only reserved to further their bigoted views.

Yes I agree. It saddens me that this is what has happened to the thread

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ThatRoseBear · 12/09/2025 22:48

How can I get it pulled please? Apologies first time poster, long term lurker

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penfoldanddangermouse · 12/09/2025 23:05

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That's because the vast majority of white women are raped by men who are white. Just as the vast majority of non-white women are raped by non-white men.

That's why whenever a white woman is raped by a non-white man, it makes the news, mind you for most newspapers it doesn't fit the narrative if a white man rapes a non-white woman.

reportandsupport.uel.ac.uk/support/dispelling-myths-around-sexual-violence-know-the-facts#:~:text=Myth%3A%20Women%20are%20most%20likely,previously%20trusted%20or%20even%20loved.

nomas · 12/09/2025 23:07

I wouldn’t pull the thread, that’s what they want.

We should report the rape apologists.

ilovesooty · 12/09/2025 23:25

nomas · 12/09/2025 23:07

I wouldn’t pull the thread, that’s what they want.

We should report the rape apologists.

I agree. Let them show themselves up. Let everyone see their lack of empathy for this woman's suffering, driven by an agenda they think is more important.

SumUp · 12/09/2025 23:32

I am sorry to hear this. 😔

stickybear · 12/09/2025 23:33

This is such an awful story. I'm so sorry for the woman involved, and so frightened about the direction our country seems to be heading in.

JustSawJohnny · 12/09/2025 23:40

I'm guessing Tommy Robinson isn't exactly outraged about this, no?

Mama2many73 · 12/09/2025 23:43

I saw a post today talking about how the current situation is about keeping our women and children safe however during the riots of those arrested, 2 in 5 men had been reported/arrested for DV so attacks by white british men on dont count .

JustSawJohnny · 12/09/2025 23:46

millymollymoomoo · 12/09/2025 21:29

Well it is vile and dusgusting

but why is it not racially aggravated when a black/asian man rapes a white girl /woman?

WTF is this shit?

Did you even read the post before getting all gammony and starting frothing at the mouth with the YEAH BUTs?

I think the suggestion of the attack being racially motivated may be because THE BASTARDS VERBALLY TAUNTED THE VICTIM ABOUT HER COLOUR AND HER BEING IN 'THEIR' COUNTRY AS THEY RAPED HER!!!

Bit of a giveaway, don't you think?!

JustSawJohnny · 12/09/2025 23:49

Mama2many73 · 12/09/2025 23:43

I saw a post today talking about how the current situation is about keeping our women and children safe however during the riots of those arrested, 2 in 5 men had been reported/arrested for DV so attacks by white british men on dont count .

I saw that report. I think in some areas it was as high as 3 in 5.

Have you seen the state of the attendees at these rallies, though?

Hardly surprising, unfortunately.

TinyIsMyNewt · 13/09/2025 02:10

pinkstripeycat · 12/09/2025 21:35

How the hell do you know? What a stupid thing to say

How absolutely awful.

And a couple of the responses in this thread (thankfully a small minority) are vile.

TooBigForMyBoots · 13/09/2025 02:18

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What?

Most white women are raped by white men.
Most rapists in the UK are white, British men.

Away with your racist, misogynist bullshit and lies.Angry

Maltipoo · 13/09/2025 03:48

Who are the lunatics (currently 6%) who think it's unreasonable to expect not to be raped and pelted with racial slurs?
Are 6% of posters rape and hate crime supporters, FFS?

Maltipoo · 13/09/2025 03:58

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A false claim. Racist propaganda. Overwhelmingly, rape mostly occurs within the racial group of the offenders, not outside of them.
It's racially motivated in this case because they made racial slurs while doing it. Get a fucking clue and stop posting lies.

Maltipoo · 13/09/2025 04:02

millymollymoomoo · 12/09/2025 21:29

Well it is vile and dusgusting

but why is it not racially aggravated when a black/asian man rapes a white girl /woman?

It is if he hurls racial slurs at her while he does it FFS. Beg, borrow or buy yourself a clue. Good grief.

Maltipoo · 13/09/2025 04:05

ilovesooty · 12/09/2025 22:12

Who said it wasn't? Can't you just empathise with this woman and what she's suffered?

Racists certainly can't empathize with those they consider subhuman. In truth, they can't genuinely empathize with anyone. They aren't decent people, to say the least.

SpidersAreShitheads · 13/09/2025 04:20

JustSawJohnny · 12/09/2025 23:40

I'm guessing Tommy Robinson isn't exactly outraged about this, no?

Yes, absolutely this. Tommy Robinson keeps insisting he’s not racist but just appalled by attacks on women/girls - so I’ll assume he’ll be all over this, calling for the heads of the white rapists…? What’s that? Tumbleweed?

Poor, poor woman. I hate what this country is becoming. The hate is getting louder and nasty racists are becoming emboldened, resulting in attacks like this.

The only tiny bit of bright news I can share is that in my town there were loads of England flags cable-tied to lampposts. Some lovely soul has not only taken them down, they’ve replaced them with flags with symbols saying “happiness”, “peace”, “love” and so on. I honestly did a little cheer when I saw them. It gives me a glimmer of hope that there are decent people out there willing to stand up to the current wave of racism.

BuckChuckets · 13/09/2025 08:27

millymollymoomoo · 12/09/2025 21:29

Well it is vile and dusgusting

but why is it not racially aggravated when a black/asian man rapes a white girl /woman?

Wow. Showing both your disgusting views AND your inability to read.

BuckChuckets · 13/09/2025 08:31

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Aww, did you get this made up statistic off your pal Yaxley-Lennon?

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 13/09/2025 08:40

JustSawJohnny · 12/09/2025 23:40

I'm guessing Tommy Robinson isn't exactly outraged about this, no?

Our Tommy is rather selective as to what enrages him.
He was spouting something about Sikh,Hindu migrants being welcome as they integrate.
I maybe cynical but I don't think many of his followers would extend the hand of friendship to those people.
I digress that poor woman has had her life torn apart it was an evil act as are all rapes.

LemograssLollipop · 13/09/2025 08:52

I was sickened to read this, such an awful act of couldn't racism.

Some of the views on this thread are equally awful. Any rape is disgusting.

Biskieboo · 13/09/2025 09:07

Maltipoo · 13/09/2025 03:48

Who are the lunatics (currently 6%) who think it's unreasonable to expect not to be raped and pelted with racial slurs?
Are 6% of posters rape and hate crime supporters, FFS?

Unfortunately there are a lot of women out there shouting at hotels at the moment too. You only have to look at this thread for evidence of the 'thought' process that occurs when they finally manage to rub two working neurons together - the reaction to a horrific racially aggravated crime against a woman is 'Yeah, but what about the immigrunts doing bad fings?'. Morons.

GladTheyHaveGone · 13/09/2025 09:10

Heretheycomeagain · 12/09/2025 22:06

Did you read the article? It’s what the vile perpetrators said during the attack that makes it racist.
How slow are some of the apologists on here today…

They aren’t the brightest bunch in general, so no real surprise I guess.