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CMS “can’t find” my ex, even though I gave them every detail they needed

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Yohoho3 · 11/09/2025 21:02

As the title suggests, the CMS say they are going to close the case soon as they “can’t find” my ex. He is in a PAYE job and I gave them his work address, home address, phone number etc. DD is 14 and he has never paid for her properly. She is disabled and I need financial back up. He doesn’t see her. Anyone else had this problem?

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SepticPegsSepticLeg · 11/09/2025 21:03

Ain't it funny though how the government can find illegal immigrants or criminals when they want to. But not neglectful cms swerving twats.

anotherlonelynight · 11/09/2025 21:54

I had this recently actually. I phoned up and spoke to one chap and he basically said the same thing as you are being told….rang back and spoke to a woman and low and behind the next day they had mysteriously confirmed his address….

can you put a complaint in?

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