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How would you feel about this wording?

107 replies

ByTipsyRubyBalonz · 11/09/2025 00:26

How do you feel about this wording about a pro Palestine meeting held on company time and that it singles that Israeli or Jewish can attend but they must meet the criteria?

The company is public sector ish. This is a group for work colleagues to help the world be anti racist.

How would you feel about this wording?
How would you feel about this wording?
OP posts:
Swiftie1878 · 11/09/2025 19:16

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 19:15

???

You do understand the difference?!

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 19:20

Swiftie1878 · 11/09/2025 19:16

You do understand the difference?!

No

Swiftie1878 · 11/09/2025 20:29

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 19:20

No

OK. Well being against the Israeli state is anti-Zionism.
Being against Jews is anti-Semitism.
Jews live ALL over the world - they have thriving communities in most western countries for example. Israel is just one country they live in.

Some people are, of course, both anti-Zionist AND anti-Semitic.
But a lot of people just don’t agree with what the state of Israel is doing, especially at the moment in Gaza.
That doesn’t necessarily mean they are anti-Semites. They can have nothing against Jews, but just dislike the Israeli government’s actions.

typo

Zov · 11/09/2025 20:32

That is appalling!

I have already blacklisted Oxfam, and refuse to go in there, because of them 'picking sides' in the Palestine-Israel conflict. (No prizes for guessing who they support!) 🙄

NoSoupForU · 11/09/2025 20:38

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 17:43

Company time issue for whom?

I guess you aren't Jewish

Next time we can have a meeting and not invite Muslims because they do all the terrorism

What absolute bullshit though. Because the stipulation would be that Muslims are very welcome as long as they weren't subscribed to terrorist ideologies.

Ddakji · 11/09/2025 20:40

Swiftie1878 · 11/09/2025 20:29

OK. Well being against the Israeli state is anti-Zionism.
Being against Jews is anti-Semitism.
Jews live ALL over the world - they have thriving communities in most western countries for example. Israel is just one country they live in.

Some people are, of course, both anti-Zionist AND anti-Semitic.
But a lot of people just don’t agree with what the state of Israel is doing, especially at the moment in Gaza.
That doesn’t necessarily mean they are anti-Semites. They can have nothing against Jews, but just dislike the Israeli government’s actions.

typo

Edited

Anti-Zionism is being against the existence of the Israeli state. Otherwise that sounds more like being against the Israeli government.

Israel isn’t just one country they live in. It’s is the only Jewish state in the world.

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 21:18

NoSoupForU · 11/09/2025 20:38

What absolute bullshit though. Because the stipulation would be that Muslims are very welcome as long as they weren't subscribed to terrorist ideologies.

Which they aren't. And neither is a Jew or Israeli in England

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 21:21

Swiftie1878 · 11/09/2025 20:29

OK. Well being against the Israeli state is anti-Zionism.
Being against Jews is anti-Semitism.
Jews live ALL over the world - they have thriving communities in most western countries for example. Israel is just one country they live in.

Some people are, of course, both anti-Zionist AND anti-Semitic.
But a lot of people just don’t agree with what the state of Israel is doing, especially at the moment in Gaza.
That doesn’t necessarily mean they are anti-Semites. They can have nothing against Jews, but just dislike the Israeli government’s actions.

typo

Edited

Which is all they needed to write ..... "We want to help those people affected by the current war".

NoSoupForU · 11/09/2025 21:58

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 21:18

Which they aren't. And neither is a Jew or Israeli in England

There are, of course, some Jewish people in England who subscribe to zionist ideals. Their right and their choice. Similarly, there are some Muslims to subscribe to the more extreme sects.

Owly11 · 11/09/2025 22:05

Urgh 🤮 what the fuck?

PlusBarrette · 11/09/2025 22:12

NoSoupForU · 11/09/2025 21:58

There are, of course, some Jewish people in England who subscribe to zionist ideals. Their right and their choice. Similarly, there are some Muslims to subscribe to the more extreme sects.

The majority of Jewish people are zionists. It's really not an extreme position.

Swiftie1878 · 12/09/2025 07:43

TheOchreCrow · 11/09/2025 21:21

Which is all they needed to write ..... "We want to help those people affected by the current war".

Everyone is affected by the current war, including Israeli’s. They don’t want to help everyone. They want to help Gazans.

Swiftie1878 · 12/09/2025 07:44

Ddakji · 11/09/2025 20:40

Anti-Zionism is being against the existence of the Israeli state. Otherwise that sounds more like being against the Israeli government.

Israel isn’t just one country they live in. It’s is the only Jewish state in the world.

It’s both.

GentlemenPreferBuzzcuts · 12/09/2025 07:47

ByTipsyRubyBalonz · 11/09/2025 00:27

What do you think about it?

I think you should do something about it at work if it bothers you, not keep posting about it on here.

Ddakji · 12/09/2025 07:47

Swiftie1878 · 12/09/2025 07:44

It’s both.

Which of my statements are you referring to?

Ddakji · 12/09/2025 07:49

NoSoupForU · 11/09/2025 21:58

There are, of course, some Jewish people in England who subscribe to zionist ideals. Their right and their choice. Similarly, there are some Muslims to subscribe to the more extreme sects.

Zionism (the belief that the Jews should have a home of their own) isn’t an extreme belief.

lljkk · 12/09/2025 08:16

What is "public sector ish " ?
No civil servants would publish that, local or national govt. Regardless of their personal views.

Does the "ish" mean university and is it a private group, like a society?
Is it a small charity (that would be "third sector" not public sector).
Is it a social group within a nationalised company like one of the rail companies?

I deplore what Israel is doing in Gaza and don't think the word genocide is unwarranted for what they are doing, but would only go along if I felt like people watching & verifying they were madder than a box of frogs.

Swiftie1878 · 12/09/2025 08:38

Ddakji · 12/09/2025 07:47

Which of my statements are you referring to?

It is just one of many countries that Jews live in.
And it’s the sole Jewish State in the world.

Ddakji · 12/09/2025 09:05

Swiftie1878 · 12/09/2025 08:38

It is just one of many countries that Jews live in.
And it’s the sole Jewish State in the world.

Thanks. Yes. I think your statements are downplaying what Israel is. It’s meant to be the one country in the world where Jews can finally be safe and not persecuted. It’s not “just another country where Jews live”.

Timeforabitofpeace · 12/09/2025 09:15

What are you trying to achieve here OP?

BloominNora · 12/09/2025 09:29

I think they were foolish to explicity mention Israeli and Jewish colleagues but my view as to whether it was discriminatory would hinge on this:

If Israeli and Jewish colleagues wanted to set up their own group as a safe space for people who wanted to help the families of the 7th October terrorism attack, agreed with Israel's approach to Gaza and / or Zionist aims, or for people who wanted to learn more about it, and the group included criteria that excluded those who are pro-palestine, would it be allowed?

If it would, then the wording is not discriminatory as it is not excluding Israeli's or Jewish people, it is just saying it is a group for like-minded people to discuss the issues, not a debating group and they don't want it disrupted by people with differing views.

However, if that group wouldn't be allowed, then yes, it is discriminatory (but not antisemitic)

BloominNora · 12/09/2025 09:40

Ddakji · 11/09/2025 20:40

Anti-Zionism is being against the existence of the Israeli state. Otherwise that sounds more like being against the Israeli government.

Israel isn’t just one country they live in. It’s is the only Jewish state in the world.

@Ddakji - If being Anti-zionist is viewed as being against the existence of Israeli state full stop, how can people describe their stance to summarise the view that they aren't against the state of Israel existing as is, but are against the concept of Greater Israel and the expansionist programme currently being advocated for and implemented by Revisionist and Religion Zionists?

How can people, who are genuinely not Anti-semetic, abhor anti-jewish sentiment and think that Israel has a right to exist within its existing borders, but who are against the illegal occupation of the West Bank and the destruction of Gaza express their views without being labelled antisemitic and accused of not wanting Israel to exist?

Genuine question by the way - not an attempt to be snide or play gotcha!

EasternStandard · 12/09/2025 09:46

PlusBarrette · 11/09/2025 22:12

The majority of Jewish people are zionists. It's really not an extreme position.

Yes I’m wondering how @NoSoupForUis defining it

Iocainepowder · 12/09/2025 09:54

This needs whistleblowing and should not be held in a workplace.

Ddakji · 12/09/2025 09:55

BloominNora · 12/09/2025 09:40

@Ddakji - If being Anti-zionist is viewed as being against the existence of Israeli state full stop, how can people describe their stance to summarise the view that they aren't against the state of Israel existing as is, but are against the concept of Greater Israel and the expansionist programme currently being advocated for and implemented by Revisionist and Religion Zionists?

How can people, who are genuinely not Anti-semetic, abhor anti-jewish sentiment and think that Israel has a right to exist within its existing borders, but who are against the illegal occupation of the West Bank and the destruction of Gaza express their views without being labelled antisemitic and accused of not wanting Israel to exist?

Genuine question by the way - not an attempt to be snide or play gotcha!

Yes, it’s a good question and I don’t have an answer to hand!

The point I’m making is that I think a lot of anti-Semitism hides behind “I’m
not anti-Semitic, I’m anti-Zionist”. Whether that’s deliberate or because people don’t understand that the belief in the Jews getting a home of their own is part of Judaism I don’t know.

I remember reading many years ago, in a school story of all things, a Jewish character explaining the difference between Jewish and Christian religious festivals - Jewish ones are about things that happened to the Jews (because they’re Jews), Christian ones are about things that happened to Christ. It really sums up the millennia long persecution of Jews.