Let's say you left your teenager at home while you went to buy a newspaper. The house burns and your teenager is killed. Who in their right mind would say that you obviously felt beforehand that his/her death was worth it for the newspaper. What you thought was worth it beforehand was the risk of that happening.
The newspaper analogy only works if you’ve:
previously campaigned against fire safety legislation,
publicly said that children dying in house fires is an acceptable side effect of people being allowed to own flammable houses, and
insisted that regulations to prevent those fires infringe your “God-given right” to live in a tinderbox.
At that point, if you still pop out for the paper and your teenager burns, it’s not just that you “accepted the risk.” You actively supported the conditions that made the tragedy likely — and you declared in advance that the resulting deaths were an acceptable price.