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Freedom of speech isn't tolerated by some

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 22:58

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/comment/2025/09/10/charlie-kirks-shooting-terrible-moment-american-democracy/

Political violence on the rise.

People are getting angry when people have Political views they don't agree with. Freedom of speech must be allowed not shutdown.

Tragic news of a young family man shot by someone today. Please remember he was a human with a family. Violence is never ok.

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smallpinecone · 11/09/2025 11:02

SapphOhNo · 11/09/2025 10:56

Exactly and in fact, the strength of a principle often comes from the willingness to uphold it even when it runs counter to one’s own immediate interest. That’s what makes it more than just preference or convenience.

This is so well said.

Wishing14 · 11/09/2025 11:03

@Idinnaenahare you sure what you’re saying is correct?

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 11:03

Idinnaenah · 11/09/2025 11:01

Yup. In the name of being a Christian of course, because we all know that the all powerful god who created humans, somehow fucked up with the gays and made them bad and now they’re setting the American family… along with Jewish people and their ‘money’ According to Charlie.

but freedom of speech is freedom of speech and we’re all entitled to our views. Even if those views think that 45k + gun deaths is a reasonable price to pay for anyone, no matter how unhinged, to have military grade weapons.

And your views of gay people being thrown off buildings? Was that Charlie's fault?

ForeverScout · 11/09/2025 11:04

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 10:55

Douglas Murray is called a grifter. Would you say he carefully selects his opponents? I've never seen such a competent speaker, in his field.

What this has shown is that posters are using the gun laws and its advocates to dance on the soon to be grave of a conservative.

Don't know who that is sorry. I haven't seen anyone "dancing on the grave" any more than those during the last fatal attack aimed at Democrat politicians or the attack on the Pelosi's. All of it is awful. All sides are responsible for an inflammatory political situation that is leading to escalation of violence. Obsession with left & right and who is more wrong is just perpetuating the problem. I've long thought the US was a powder keg based on my own experiences in-country. When will people see that making enemies of your neighbors or celebrating officials demonizing half the country for votes or fame or money is just going to make this whole thing worse? Who wins, ultimately?

smallpinecone · 11/09/2025 11:09

ForeverScout · 11/09/2025 11:04

Don't know who that is sorry. I haven't seen anyone "dancing on the grave" any more than those during the last fatal attack aimed at Democrat politicians or the attack on the Pelosi's. All of it is awful. All sides are responsible for an inflammatory political situation that is leading to escalation of violence. Obsession with left & right and who is more wrong is just perpetuating the problem. I've long thought the US was a powder keg based on my own experiences in-country. When will people see that making enemies of your neighbors or celebrating officials demonizing half the country for votes or fame or money is just going to make this whole thing worse? Who wins, ultimately?

Both left and right believe the other to be misguided or wrong. But the left have gone a step further, believing people on the right aren’t just wrong - they’re actively evil. They’re convinced that just by virtue of being on the left, they have the monopoly on goodness, fairness, kindness. So it’s easy then to dehumanise those on the right and shrug off violence against them.

EasternStandard · 11/09/2025 11:10

Wishing14 · 11/09/2025 11:03

@Idinnaenahare you sure what you’re saying is correct?

I think it should be checked for accuracy too

Sevenamcoffee · 11/09/2025 11:12

ForeverScout · 11/09/2025 10:51

This was his trademark - set up "debates" (but wouldn't debate people who could hold their own calmly and logically, I do wonder if that's why he chose younger people), rage-bait people til they lose their cool, cut those clips into slick videos to post himself "owning the libs". Whatever happened on the campus today didn't have the chance to be cut into a viral video to push into certain algorithms. And I do know those algorithms because they show up in my 14yo son's stuff but not mine. It's pushed to specific people.

It's amazing how blind we are to the radicalisation happening in real time on all parts of the political spectrum. CK struck me as someone making bank out of it, and unfortunately it went terribly wrong.

Yes it was interesting to me that my 17 yo knew immediately who he was yesterday when I didn’t really.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 11:12

smallpinecone · 11/09/2025 11:09

Both left and right believe the other to be misguided or wrong. But the left have gone a step further, believing people on the right aren’t just wrong - they’re actively evil. They’re convinced that just by virtue of being on the left, they have the monopoly on goodness, fairness, kindness. So it’s easy then to dehumanise those on the right and shrug off violence against them.

Absolutely spot on. Progressive liberals aren't even recognised by some staunch leftists.

Nagginthenag · 11/09/2025 11:14

smallpinecone · 11/09/2025 10:40

When people said that words are ‘literal violence’ - this is the end result. And it’s terrible. We’re no longer civilised human beings. If words are off limits, if people are stripped of the ability to communicate with another human being, there’s nothing left except actual, physical violence.

The problem though, is words incite. If your followers are spoiling for a fight, a bit unstable, your words can have disastrous consequences - the insurrection and attack on the Capitol for example, incited by mere words. So those with a public platform have a duty to be mindful of the power of their words

DdraigGoch · 11/09/2025 11:16

Auroraloves · 11/09/2025 08:53

its an educated guess based on what he stood for.

Why do you think he was shot?

So you accept that it is a guess then. Not "fact" as you were claiming. Yes, it could be someone with a political motivation. But that doesn't mean that you can call guesses "fact" until we know more.

Zov · 11/09/2025 11:18

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:00

I've read the flags thread here on mn. Such nastiness towards people around flags. Nastiness around left and right Political views. Debate but not hatred, nastiness and violence. Tragic.

This. ^ The tedious and continual threads bashing the England flags and anyone who flies them are boring me so much now that I just instantly hide them. Literally CBA to debate with such narrow minded people, who refuse to see anyone else's point of view but their own, and try and shout anyone down who DARES to have anything other than a left wing opinion.

I have seen 1 to 2 threads a DAY bleating about 'The Flags' for the past 2-3 weeks, and they all say the same thing. How many fucking threads does one subject need FFS?!

If there's one thing 'The Left' hate, it's ANYone who doesn't think the same as them ... They do NOT believe in free speech, for anyone (except themselves!)

They live in a leftie echo chamber, and scream 'racist,' 'bigot,' and 'thick as mince' at anyone who is not left wing. It's just white noise now, and I can't take anything they say seriously.

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Beeinalily · 11/09/2025 11:18

MidnightPatrol · 10/09/2025 23:01

I think it is important to emphasise however that the US isn’t the UK and they face different problems to us.

Terribly sad for this man and his family.

The UK doesn’t have the same gun violence issue as the US.

Indeed the US isn't the UK, but we're usually about five years down the line. We mustn't let it happen.

ILoveWhales · 11/09/2025 11:22

Zov · 11/09/2025 11:18

This. ^ The tedious and continual threads bashing the England flags and anyone who flies them are boring me so much now that I just instantly hide them. Literally CBA to debate with such narrow minded people, who refuse to see anyone else's point of view but their own, and try and shout anyone down who DARES to have anything other than a left wing opinion.

I have seen 1 to 2 threads a DAY bleating about 'The Flags' for the past 2-3 weeks, and they all say the same thing. How many fucking threads does one subject need FFS?!

If there's one thing 'The Left' hate, it's ANYone who doesn't think the same as them ... They do NOT believe in free speech, for anyone (except themselves!)

They live in a leftie echo chamber, and scream 'racist,' 'bigot,' and 'thick as mince' at anyone who is not left wing. It's just white noise now, and I can't take anything they say seriously.

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So well put.

SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 11:23

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 10:51

Sick.

The problem though, is words incite.

Not according to Lucy Connolly fans.

Zov · 11/09/2025 11:24

ILoveWhales · 11/09/2025 11:22

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So well put.

Thank you. 😘

ILoveWhales · 11/09/2025 11:24

Beeinalily · 11/09/2025 11:18

Indeed the US isn't the UK, but we're usually about five years down the line. We mustn't let it happen.

We're not about five years down the line. We banned hand guns after Dunblane.

Our knife laws are so strict It's difficult to carry anything more than a vegetable peeler in public without a reason.

We show no sign of imposing, expensive healthcare and not caring if the people can't afford it. The biggest cause of personal bankruptcies in the US, is because of medical bills.

We offer one year of maternity leave.Whereas the US is usually a few weeks unpaid.If they give any at all. They get about 10 days of paid annual leave if they get any at all. They have no workers rights.

We are not just a step behind from the US and we never will be.

DdraigGoch · 11/09/2025 11:26

Wishing14 · 11/09/2025 09:25

Let’s also be clear, it’s not just a political assassination but a religious one. He stood for living a Christian life and was a religious man.

More speculation.

I repeat, no one yet knows the motivation of the shooter. Nothing was etched onto the cartridges, no manifesto has been found. Until some kind of evidence comes to light, you have no idea whether the victim's religion was a factor. Speculation like this helps no one, it allows rumours to spread with no consideration for truth. It's utterly irresponsible.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 11:26

SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 11:23

The problem though, is words incite.

Not according to Lucy Connolly fans.

I didn't realise Kirk called for himself to be shot dead.

jnh22 · 11/09/2025 11:31

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 10/09/2025 23:15

I 100% agree with you that killing people for having opposing views is wrong, and most people would, but I think the point people are making here is that HE wouldn't agree with you. He's (or was) part of the problem.

The right to bear arms to Americans does NOT mean that they advocate killing people they disagree with!

One can support the right to have a gun but not support violence.

And before you start, I’m very anti-gun.

randomchap · 11/09/2025 11:33

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 11:26

I didn't realise Kirk called for himself to be shot dead.

No, he just accepted that gun deaths are an unavoidable unfortunate consequence

SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 11:34

randomchap · 11/09/2025 11:33

No, he just accepted that gun deaths are an unavoidable unfortunate consequence

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Praise_the_Lord_and_Pass_the_Ammunition

Praise the Lord and Pass the Ammunition - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Praise_the_Lord_and_Pass_the_Ammunition

ForeverScout · 11/09/2025 11:34

smallpinecone · 11/09/2025 11:09

Both left and right believe the other to be misguided or wrong. But the left have gone a step further, believing people on the right aren’t just wrong - they’re actively evil. They’re convinced that just by virtue of being on the left, they have the monopoly on goodness, fairness, kindness. So it’s easy then to dehumanise those on the right and shrug off violence against them.

Yeah ok, that's a play that could be lifted from the American evangelical playbook. Been there, done that. From the mid-60s to today they're still doing it, and it's morphed into the political leadership of today (all by design, by the way, the sheer amount of money and mobilisation poured into it is staggering and all a matter of public record).

I remember the absolute horror and disdain I was treated with when people realized I supported gay rights and didn't think being gay was a sin. My husband was barred from positions at church and called demonic and evil for his own position on the same matter. If we couldn't guarantee we would "come into line" and stay in line always and forever we could come to church, but we couldn't serve in any leadership positions ever. And definitely we couldn't vote left, not even a tiny bit. This was - oh maybe 4 years ago?

This group is in large part Trump's base, and CK's base. I recognize so many things in their schtick that I was taught verbatim as a teen in church.

That's not to say the left (if you can call it that in America, less-right is probably more accurate) has it right. They do the same thing. Both are wrong. Both need talking down. But only one is in power at present, and enacting laws with very real harms attached. Because they are in the govt their behavior carries more weight. If the Democrats were in and behaving this way my answer would be the same.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 11:34

randomchap · 11/09/2025 11:33

No, he just accepted that gun deaths are an unavoidable unfortunate consequence

So he didn't incite it then. 🤔 really not sure why @serendipityjane thought Lucy Connolly was relevant, here.

DdraigGoch · 11/09/2025 11:35

ExtraOnions · 11/09/2025 09:30

As a Christian (Catholic) myself, I must strongly disagree.

You don’t get to Duct Tape Jesus to your head, all call yourself a “Christian”.

Living a Christian life means not supporting guns, or deaths from guns, or the death penalty, or stopping gay rights, it’s means welcoming refugees, looking after the sick and the less fortunate, helping the poor .. I could go on.

The “Christian Right” espouses some of the least Christian views I’ve ever seen.

Hear hear. If Jesus turned up in the USA today he'd be denounced as a 'communist' for espousing such radical ideas as kindness to strangers, helping the needy and the meek inheriting the earth. As for providing free healthcare to lepers...

nomas · 11/09/2025 11:36

It wouldn't surprise me if the far right killed him as a strategy to inflame tensions.

The US has a history of killing its own people.

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